I never got a match on Tinder in a month, am I ugly?

[Anonymous]

Firstly, I know that Tinder is just a 'hookup app', and isn't really accurate when it comes to judging my attractiveness.

I have never dated for over 5 years now, so just to test the waters, I signed up on Tinder and swiped right for EVERY female profile I came across. But it turns out that I didn't get a single match even after a month. Does this mean I'm f**king ugly, since looks are the only thing that matters on Tinder?

I should have swiped right on more than 4000 girls, probably. But no match.

[teawrecks]

When I sit down and actively use tinder, I usually get at least 3 surprise matches when swiping and then wake up the next day to a "you have a new match!" notification on my phone. On good days, I'll get another notification or two throughout the day.

So I don't know what to tell you.

[Asker]

Haha, girls do get matches left and right, or so I have heard!

[thinpatience]

Anyone on a tinder account bases there value on looks.. therefore do you really want anyone that shallow or do you really want to be that shallow?

[Asker]

I wasn't actually going to follow through with matches on Tinder, but I just wanted to get an idea of how attractive I am to females around me. Turns out they find me unattractive! :P

[thinpatience]

People on tinder are just looking for the socially acceptable beauty that has been created. There is someone who fancy you out there but lame apps like twitter are for real sick headers that Base everything on looks.

[Asker]

Hmmm... do you mind if I send you a pm here, and ask you your opinion on how I look? Only if you're ok with it. I don't want to creep you out! :)

[thinpatience]

Go 4 it. But something is stopping me from replying need to build up my points.

[thinpatience]

So give a bit to reply :)

[Asker]

Ok, sending you a PM now. Thanks!

[JustinX9]

she's pretty

[JustinX9]

Well at least you look good better than me

[Asker]

Why do you say that? You got no matches as well?

[JustinX9]

No I don't need tinder or any site that will prove that I'm unattractive, it is way worse in real life...

[Asker]

You don't look ugly, mate! Stop putting yourself down so much. :)

[JustinX9]

There's no such thing as average there are only two things its either I'm handsome or ugly

[Asker]

23 is not the age to be feeling this way. Cheer up, pal! :)

[JustinX9]

Age doesn't matter, what matter is the looks, money, charisma, confidence, etc.

[JustinX9]

Thanks for the MH

[KylieM0re]

okcupid may be a better option?

[Asker]

Yeah, I used Tinder just to get an idea of how attractive the women would find me. I never planned to follow up with my matches anyway.

But the results are discouraging! :P