Why I am not getting any matches?

[Anonymous]

I recently moved to Europe from the Middle East
I was raised in a very conservative way
I have never been in a real relationship and I am almost 30
I have tinder platinum for 4 months already and I only get matches from fake accounts
I am 172 cm but I don’t know why I am not getting any matches

Is it the images , bio not being tall
What do girls look for in guy’s dating apps?
I would like to ask for advice from the guys & girls about what is the problem with my profile

How can I get more matches

[Effably]

Tinder is mostly for ego boosts here. Whole you can look very normal and get a good amount of matches, I do for example, its usually because you fit some type of fantasy.

So my guess would be that your profile is too safe and fails to stand out while also lacking theme.

End of the day, dating apps are not useful to most men and if you are looking for results I'd stay away from at least Tinder. If you are just goofing around there for fun, it is still fine.

[Asker]

My goal is not hook ups
I was recently friend zoned because I have very little experience with women
If hook ups are good for experience I will do that

So how do you suggest making my profile less safe?

[Effably]

Well first I'd avoid Tinder as anything more than funny swipes.

If you are looking for something serious make sure it is funny. Include a small video of you singing baby girl while drunk in an elvis costume? Be upfront about what you want.

If you have a smiling picture, a friend picture, a dog picture (that one does work to be fair), and a more bold picture you are like everyone else and competing in looks alone. If instead you rocked some traditional garb from your country and leaned into that, now you stand out.

Many women will not go for it but some will. And some is a lot more than none. Any stereotype that exists someone will like. Finding which works for you is half of being successful at something like Tinder for a guy. Mine being cute suited guy you want to mess up a bit. A guy could very much just be a slob and asshole and that will be Someone's fantasy. And a fantasy rare to find on Tinder, so it would work.

But I'd look into other apps. Hinge is better. Anything where women are expected to take initiative is going to be more serious. Dating websites often work a lot better than apps too. Barriers are useful. And of course any activity where you actually meet and hang out with people is best.

If you got something specific I can talk about it.

[bededazzle]

because you are no different from most of us men and tinder isn’ta good dating app. is hinge available in Europe?

[Asker]

Yes it is
I just downloaded it

[Asker]

How is it different from tinder?

[bededazzle]

it has less fake people in my experience. people on there seem to actually be interested in going out on dates.

[cherriibly]

you can actually find a partner in real life instead of tinder

[bededazzle]

l it gets a bit harder for some men especially as they get older

[Asker]

You mean approaching girls in Public?

[cherriibly]

So I think a lot of girls like mature guys and I thought girls would accept him if his body wasn't too bad, am I wrong?

[cherriibly]

Yes approaching girls in public

[bededazzle]

i just think life becomes a lot busier and insular as time goes many women that would make good partners are married. a social life becomes a bit more of another task to fit into the schedule than an organic pleasure. just my personal observations though

[Paris13]

Change your Dating Site. Cannot Always Trust Tinder. xxoo

[Asker]

I tried bumble too same result

[Paris13]

Try Badoo. Close to Your Neighborhood. xxoo

[Paris13]

There are Plenty Though of Fake Profiles of All Kinds Out There. Someone Is Real for You. xxoo

[Paris13]

Thanks, dear. xxoo

[ThrillSeeker01]

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