Am I right or wrong for refusing to buy drinks for women I don't even know at bars? (Page 2)

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Yeah maybe it's because I am cheap, but I don't want to invest any money (which is getting more and more difficult to obtain) on women, in fact, people in general, that I am unsure if they like or don't like me. I think it's just like gambling. Also, buying women drinks boost up their egos even more, but money plays a bigger factor. I only want to invest money on someone who I know will like/love me. Besides I don't want to invest on someone who hasn't even earned it.

However, some argues that if a guy doesn't go to bars and buy drinks for women, then he is not trying hard enough. Or that he is just being a cheap person, which can hinder a relationship. Or simply, he is "no fun." Well what do you all think?

AssJacket · Answer

If you want to attract women, do what you want to. Period. It's really just that simple.

violettasanchez · Answer

I agree with you, you're never obligated to buy a woman drinks, let alone a complete stranger.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't see why you'd blow money on somebody you don't know. The woman's not broke.

TadCurious · Answer

I don't think you're wrong.

the_rake · Answer

Totally right and I recommend all men do the same.

adrianalima0 · Answer

It's not wrong. You're not forced to do so.

bcromartie · Answer

What makes this a moral issue?

Words_and_Wisdom · Answer

They're not entitled to free drinks.

sixnineanon · Answer

You're right

Blueeyes81 · Answer

I never did.

Anonymous · Answer

You're totally right

Anonymous · Answer

It's your choice.

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