A hug Is good for a first date.
A kiss at the end of first date is better.
Sex on the first date is better.
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All people are different. Some people think kissing is very formal or no big deal and will expect or prefer a kiss at the end of a first date. Others view kissing as more of an intimate reserved act and would rather wait. I've also heard some people say they won't kiss until after they are officially in a relationship. If there's a strong mutual connection and they're showing the signs, go for it! Just don't force it. If you don't kiss, no big deal, but a hug should be given at the very least.
I don't know what's expected now. When I grew up it seemed pretty traditional to walk her to the door, give her a quick kiss, say some pleasant things and good night. Then walk away but don't leave until she gets inside, turns on a light, and waves to let you know everything is OK.
coming from someone how made out with the guy on the first date (there was lots of chemistry and we'd been talking a lot prior) Id say a hug is totally acceptable, but so is a passionate kiss if thats how you feel, as for sex, id say build up the desire first
If you both are shy, then it is good I guess, I would only hug if I did not like the guy or I just see him as a friend, if I really liked him Id give him a kiss on the lips, if I just liked him, then on the cheek
A kiss so that I dont feel automatically friendzoned. Im not saying it has to be tongue/french. But a nice gentle peck will do
I think a hug is good. I dont like a guy thats pushy and that pressures me for sex. Thats very annoying.
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hugs are how I've ended a few first dates but if you both knew it was a date it should end with a single kiss after he walks you to your door and both text each other later about it cuz its all you can think about. to each, their own. if you feel you want to take it slow do the hug, if you want the kiss stand ready for it to happen and he will take the oppertunity
Tell you what to really get the lady give her a hug and then while you break away take her hand and kiss the back of it. Wish her good night and then walk back to your car. Not only will she love that you did that but so will her fokes, roomy, femalefreinds...
OMG i love this! A hug would make me feel friendzoned, but the kiss on the hand shows that he just wanted to respect me and possibly does want to go on a second date 😍
@DizzyDesii Thanks I'm glad you liked it so much.
Just giving her a hug is what messed up my dates last few times so I'm going to use this more. It worked like a charm the last two times. Sadly those last two girls did not think that we were a match.
Not terrible, I would be bummed out, but not the end of the world. Not everyone is into that, some people just need more time. First dates can be super nervewrecking and intimidating.
I got a hug from my girlfriend on our first date and we've been going strong. I somewhat tried to have sex with her but she didn't want to so I backed off quick. its a good way to tell if she's too easy or the perfect catch
Depends on how much you like the person and how hot the date experience was. Ideally it would be something between a first kiss and sex on the first date. 2nd date... it's on my friend...
a hug is a good start because when you guys are comfortable then only you can think about kiss and all other stuff that couples tend to do..
it be ok I guess , unless the date went really well and we had a great connection or something , it might not seem like enough? but if we just talked and had coffee it be ok
A hug equal friendzoned. Either way the girl in question would be doing this at the end of the night with some other guy.
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I don't kiss on first dates unless there's instant chemistry (almost never). I want to figure out the person first, I find that there is so much pressure in dating to do.. not to? If it feels right, do it, if your gut says don't do it, don't force yourself -- as I learned when I was younger. Let things flow and if a kiss comes out of a first date, great!
If she hugs and kisses you on the cheek and implies she wants to do it again, then yea it's a good sign. If it's just a pat on the shoulder, give up. Not every girl is prepared to kiss straight away.
They're fantastic and let's the people know that you're in charge.
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A hug is what I would want at the end of a first date.
Girls don't know what they are attracted to. They would say hug, where the truth is simple biology.
I think there is no rule. All just depends on the chemistry. U should feel which of the three is the most fitting.. if u feel nothing the date was prob very bad
I've only ever hugged on the first date. I don't want to do anything more than that on a first date.
A kiss on the cheek would be better!
It beats getting slapped across the face.
It's better than nothing.
A hug is good, but a kiss is better.
It's super cute. I'd love that. :)
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