by the sound of it... I guess she just wanted to know you are still available and willing to continue with her.
Unfortunately we all feel down sometimes. During these times, some people suddenly remind that there was someone that likes them. And though they are still not interested, they contact that person. An ego boost, making themselves feel better at the expense of the other person's feelings.
This girl was hung up on this guy. I started flirting with her and though she sometimes seemed interested, she would always get colder when I would flirt more intensely. Yet she always wanted me around her. Why? Well I'd say she did like my, but wasn't ready to move on from the other guy. At the same time I guess she enjoyed the idea someone likes her and that she somehow has a back-up to go to in case it ended for good with the other guy. It made her feel better about herself or something.
Truth is it completely ended between her and the other guy at one point and guess what: she asked me out :/
So the woman in your story is not completely sure what she wants, but likes the idea you want to spend time with her. I guess she enjoys some things about you and wants to know you are there.
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