girl this same thing happens to me and my friends, I used to do the same thing as you until I rearlised why should I be sad for her so I just go out with the dude behind her back. men are good at keeping secrets so it works for me
i've been at the other end of this where me and my mate both liked a girl and she picked him over me. I got over it pretty quickly so I say go for it with this guy.
friendship is more important...i've been in such situations before. and don't regret that I chose my friends, they are still with me. if you don't feel it will last long, forget about the guy, find another
But that isn't the question..... its about what the QA feels about the consequences of her actions and how they will impact her friend....not whether her friend will do the same. while that could be a factor, it is an entirely different question.
In my opinion friends should want you to be happy, and if this guy makes you happy: go for it! Your friend will get over it, friends want happiness for their friends. That's at least what I think friendship is about.
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If two girls liked me, I'd walk away. I wouldn't want to get in the way of a friendship. Chicks before dicks, right?
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Ask ur friend !
it happened wid me !
She will feel nice ! N ya she'll surley say yes to hav a relationship wid him ! :)
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girl this same thing happens to me and my friends, I used to do the same thing as you until I rearlised why should I be sad for her so I just go out with the dude behind her back. men are good at keeping secrets so it works for me
i've been at the other end of this where me and my mate both liked a girl and she picked him over me. I got over it pretty quickly so I say go for it with this guy.
Were you upset/annoyed? If so, for how long?
friendship is more important...i've been in such situations before. and don't regret that I chose my friends, they are still with me. if you don't feel it will last long, forget about the guy, find another
pretty sure a friend is worth way more than 3 months of "love" with 1 guy
Actually the question is what would YOUR FRIEND do? would she do the same for u?
But that isn't the question..... its about what the QA feels about the consequences of her actions and how they will impact her friend....not whether her friend will do the same. while that could be a factor, it is an entirely different question.
In my opinion friends should want you to be happy, and if this guy makes you happy: go for it! Your friend will get over it, friends want happiness for their friends. That's at least what I think friendship is about.
If two girls liked me, I'd walk away. I wouldn't want to get in the way of a friendship. Chicks before dicks, right?
Ask ur friend !
it happened wid me !
She will feel nice ! N ya she'll surley say yes to hav a relationship wid him ! :)