If your the first brunette girl he has ever dated, it means there is something about you that he couldnt resist so he asked you out and made you his girlfriend. He wouldn't be dating you if he didn't like you, and honestly, just because he prefers blondes over brunettes doesn't mean you have to break up with him (unless you want to) that reason/excuse of yours is just fucking stupid. Dont think so negatively about the things your boyfriend said, do you think he'd still be with you if he didn't like you? He likes you for who you are and not for what your pretending to be. If it worries you THAT much, ask him.
My guy prefers burnetts and I am blonde. I was worried when we got together, 11 years ago... in the end my thought was if he doesn't love me because my hair is the wrong color what am I doing? I felt bad for thinking it... How shallow am I accusing him of being? If he is so shallow surely I wouldn't have dated him in the first place! There is nothing wrong with wanting to preserve your race, however when love is true, skin color disappears.
It's just hair. I think you should be more concerned about your self worth if this is a huge concern for you. Are you a good girlfriend? Does he seem happy to be with you?
I prefer red heads with green eyes who are really tall and skinny. Will I ever date this person? Unlikely. Would I be happy with someone who didn't meet those "preferred" standards? Absolutely.
It doesn't necessarily mean that you aren't good enough for him, but it does mean he doesn't think you're perfect. If that upsets you enough to break up with him over, then by all means. I actually wouldn't blame you. I personally would want my partner to think I'm perfect, and I'd be hurt to if I found out she thought otherwise.
"Oh my God, I'm not a perfect 10/10 in the eyes of my boyfriend, should I dump him?"
Questions like these are an indication of how superficial and narcissistic people have become in recent times. What happened to actually falling in love with one's personality?
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u If you think this is a sufficient reason to break up, you must not have much feeling for him.
My man likes blondes too, but i am brunette and he would still not change me for any blonde in the world, usually men say this to make you jealous, because they think it's cute -_-
Tell me about it, who understands Men anyhow...
Good luck <3 AND HEY i wish i was a Latina, you guys are HOT! Your man is lucky.
Sweet Jebus! You women worry over the silliest things sometimes. My preference is a brunette with dark skin. My girlfriend meets this description. If we were no longer together and a fair skinned blonde got my attention, I certainly wouldn't waste time wishing she were a brunette and I certainly wouldn't want her any less than I would if she were.
The classic "am I not good enough for him?" I find so much humor at someone elses insecurities. Why bother getting into a relationship when you're insecure as fuck. He's with you. Just leave it be and if he actually does something worth confronting him for do that. Not cry about his old online dating profile. How pathetic. With your mindset you aren't good enough just because you managed to manifest such thoughts in your unstable brain.
It's just his preference (which everybody all has, including you) plus, it's in the past. And tbh... preference is just preference, it doesn't mean that you're not good for him. plus it's just the outside, and sometimes it doesn't mean anything, what we all want is the inside of somebody (soul, personality) So if he's really in love with you, those things are just don't matter anymore, because you're unique and everybody loves unique, even when we have preference.
I think that means you are that much awesome that you even converted him ;) And even if it is not conversion, know that he finds something so strongly appealing on you that he chooses you over any blonde. Be proud ;) And if you still feel bad about it, ask him.. he can tell you himself.
That doesn't mean you are not good enough for him. I am pretty sure that he cherishes you and he considers you beautiful. Also, it was an old dating profile, it's not even a recent one.
I like guys with black or dark brown hair. If a really nice blonde guy with a fantastic personality and we clicked would start talking with me, would I not be attracted to him? Hell no!
Even if his preference is blondes, you probably are so amazing in other ways that he became attracted to you so much that physically it didn't matter to him!
As most other girls, I prefer brunette-haired men. This does not mean that I don't also like blonde men. I have actually liked blonde men a few times in my life. It's like preferring the color red... It doesn't mean you won't ever have anything but red on you.
No. It means he prefers blonde hair, but he fell in love with you for who you are. Hair color really doesn't matter. My boyfriend is into brunettes and I've always had blonde hair, it's never been an issue.
How about you ask him instead of us about it? People often overlook minor details like hair colour for the ones they like.
I wouldn't pay too much attention to the past and focus on the present. Tastes change over time and in the end, most guys prefer someone with a nice personality.
Prefer just means, "in a perfect world, I would have a blonde" life however isn't perfect for anyone, & if it were what would be the point if you get everything you want. No suspense at all
if he loves you enough, then the hair color you have shouldn't matter. Ask yourself. Does he truly love you and care about you? Then no, don't think about hair color as that important.
Nah, everyone has their opinion, I like redheads but that doesn't mean I only like redheads. Just a preference
It's just something he prefers. It doesn't mean that he doesn't love you. If he didn't, he wouldn't date you, would he? You can just let it go but if it really bothers you talk to him about it.
Just talk to him about it, but his opinions have probably changed considering he's dating you
It's just a preference! Even all girls prefer charming and a perfect man.. but still they stay happy with their imperfect one
He thinks you're hidious, you should totally break up over that.
seriously? just because of a hair colour you would leave your bf?
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