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Should men put in more effort into dating and relationships than women? (Page 3)
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No it should be equal. Both parties put in 100%.
both should put effort
no it should be an equal amount of effort
No, all men are different.
no both should put in equal
For relationship wise they both should in 100/100
mhmmm depends, what am i getting from it?
Women should pull their weight more.
They're partners. A team. 50/50 in effort.
well we have been throughout history
Both should put in effort.
No? It's called a partnership for a reason
I might if women actually put effort into it
Nope. It's just got to come from both sides.
No, both should put in a good amount of effort.
No
Equal
Plain and simple
I put in too much effort
They already do, but they shouldn't.
No. I expect efforts equally
no it should be equal
No it should be equal
I think both should.
no it should be equal
yes but women do too
shouldn't it be equal?
if he isn't he should and it would go better 50/50
no, both should try equally :)
Why should they?
definitely no
they are already doing most of the job 😂
It depends.
No, that is a Women's job.
MGTOW looks better and better everyday
I know mate
They already do
its a 50-50 give and take..
Lol, I like the basic notion, but divorce is (sometimes!) 50/50. If you want a solid relationship, it will always take full effort on both sides. What that full effort looks like, is where all the trouble stems from. It never has and never will look exactly the same from two individuals. I may give hugs, you might take out the trash. Different types of effort, both valid. That's why I still say compatability is about complimentary effort, not identical. We can't both take out the trash, for crying out loud! (heavy sarcasm) somebody has to do the dishes too.
@HaveQuestions Trust, Honesty, Communication, Respect. 4 corner stones of EVERY Relationship. If you want something bad enough, you can make it work, if they act like a dick, then its your decision to kick em or keep em
Fully agree. I was teasing you, because the tone of this board has lost sight of those 4 things. The this-for-that, I did this, but you only did this stuff usually becomes clearly absurd if people stop and look at it for a minute. That's why the trash example. 😉 you are dead on, it's the foundation that holds up the building. You can't be missing any of those and expect it to stand. But, I believe you have to give those before you expect them. Healthy boundaries are a beautiful thing indeed. Thanks for making the point about learning curves. People can, and will, learn how to demonstrate those four things in ways their partner appreciates, if they are invested.
@HaveQuestions the trash example is good. Do you want a cookie for taking out the trash or cleaning the bathroom. you are an adult. You are suppose to do those things as an adult or in a "unit".
Lmao... see? That's the absurd humor I was going for. Unfortunately, my keyboard had yet to master the "sarcasm font" I need badly.
@HaveQuestions :)
no it's 50/50
No it's 50/50
No. Women should
Like in what way?
It should be equal
They already do.
no they shouldn't
no women
Why?
@JoyGirl
cause women have it easier when it comes to finding someone
Why? '-'
@JoyGirl They don't even have to approach men... as long as you don't have a resting bitch face and are somewhat decent looking anyways. We also have to pay for dates...
no we put enough
Why?
I mean I try.
Yes, the should
In what ways? :)
@roman_ce I dont know why I said that, I honestly belive men and women should put the same amout of effort into dating. But again, I prefer men to take the initiative in the beginning
oh okay :)
Should be equal...
they already do
yes they should
I think so
I think so.
How about fuck no
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Yes.
yess
Nope