Should men put in more effort into dating and relationships than women? (Page 3)
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Nope.
Put in the same effort. From experience, the people that want men to make the most effort are the shitty ones.
The most ideal situation is when both put in equal efforts. But that is a pipe-dream what with women wanting equality but only when it suits them.
I like a man that takes the lead but I think in a good relationship that effort/affection is reciprocated and everything should be 50/50
This HAS to be a troll. That or literally the most narcissistic and solipsistic post I've ever seen. NO. Men should boycott women and marriage and go MGTOW.
No. Both parties should put in a good amount of effort
No they shouldn't. Men are expected to be/do everything.
Good looking, funny, well paid career, educated, romantic, strong oh yh, a big penis helps.
All these reasons are why men are the ones mainly committing suicide in my opinion.
Also remember, women have been house wives for the last 50 years +, also women have just been divorcing and stealing wealth off men!
When I saw this Q, I was like fuck off... you get me?
Men are really under valued, we are always criticised and seen as bad/wrong/dirty people
Society does this equal opportunity, my friend. We have become judgmental & negative across the board. Men are undervalued. I argue the same for men and women. Women are expected to have big boobs, be fit, be cute but not too cute, talk but not too much, stay home but also be educated, subservient but speak up. You're dead on that it's wrong across the board, men & women. Yes, divorce has favored women. I'm against that. What happened to when we worked on being the best versions we can of ourselves and judged by that? I'd like that back, please.
Fair is not equal, with regard to "effort". This enigma of "effort" is not "I gave you ___, and all you did was ___." Thank goodness people have strengths and weaknesses, and effort is shown individually with those. I fully believe compatibility is less about demanding exactly equal demonstrations of effort as it is finding complimentary effort. We do it differently, find someone who's effort fits with yours, works with yours.
Yh I agree with you, but I don't expect or want women to have big boobs if I'm honest. For me, I like a tall slim or curvy dark haired girl who is a good TRUSTWORTHY person most of all. I am not particular. I'm not too bothered about divorce and women because my dad is creating trusts for me.
And I am trying to find a girl who's efforts are in line with mine 👍
Good, lol! Be honest, and be damn loud about it. I responded to you initially because of the "fuck off" I'm your post. Be passionate about what you think. I'm glad you got down to the trustworthy thing, above appearance. Appearance maybe a factor, but if you don't have the personality traits, it will always fail. Every building needs a solid foundation. My advice, work on building those traits in yourself. It's much easier to find someone who fits with you if you know your own strengths and weaknesses clearly. Mismatch happens when we aren't aware of something in ourselves, and somebody else brings that particular weakness to light. Best to you, in finding your complimentary partner. They're out there. (Personal bias too, lol: be careful depending on anyone for anything. Even trusts can fail. Be sure you always can fall back on yourself, no matter what additional bonuses others can bring to your life.)
👍, yh I'm going through normal education like everyone else to take over me dads businesses. It will give me something to fall back on, thanks for your concern
Good luck to you aswell 😊
Good for you! 👍 you won't regret that, I'm about 99.9% sure of that. Thank you too, I appreciate it. 😊
Gotta love all the guy answers. It would seem guys are unhappy with the amount of effort women put in.
Even women now publicly recognize that they had a bit of a free ride. Now if they would just do more than just publicly admitting it.
I don't understand this question. Everyone knows if they need to put more effort into something or not. It's not a general thing.
The relationship will fail if anyone in the relationship isn't putting in the necessary effort. As long as both know each other is trying their best , the level of effort is irrelevant, because peoples capabilities differ
up to the couple. I wan't to personally so I do. If my girlfriend wan't to she can. Doesn't mean we love each other less
Jesus, one man does more than 10 women combined to get love and affection and you want more?
Lol... another reason why prostitution is such a nice rest for guys.
as my mum taut me me :)
son if a woman has to go out of her way to make it like a job interview and make you jump through bullshit pretend hoops, she is not really that worth it
which i think is great advice :D
no
an healthy relationship that lasts have to be fair and equal/equitable
It should be an equal amount of effort for both people.
Hell no! Both parties of a relationship should give 100% - anything less is unfair to what you're building together.
No. Both should be putting an equal effort in. It takes two to actually date and have a relationship. Why should he put in more than her?
All my male friends are putting much more effort into relationships than their gfs.
They should not but they do.
Erm?
Men have to pay... ask the female out... unless your ridiculously good looking girl aren't going to initiate going out on a date or anything really.
No, dating is between 2 person not one. Why should they make all the effort?
I believe that they shouldn't do any effort they have to be normal