For those of you who've dealt with infatuation, you know what I am talking about. It is NOT true love. There is a difference! It may be accompanied by uncontrollable butterflies, a crushing crush, non-stop thinking or obsessing, IDEALIZATION, even weak knees, or just WANTING WHAT YOU CAN'T HAVE!!! It is so dangerous - I love it but I hate it. Who doesn't? I have been infatuated with by another guy and I have been infatuated with another guy. But never, at these times, was the infatuation mutual. I want to experience mutual infatuation because I think that would be so fun and just such a good experience... but does such a thing exist?
I am NOT asking whether "mutual infatuation" turns into great love or not. I am NOT asking if it is good or bad. I am simply asking, "have you ever experienced mutual infatuation?" "Do you think mutual infatuation exists?" "If so, how would you describe it?"
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I know what infatuation is and I have been infatuated when I was much younger. At present, I occasionally find myself captivated with a woman, sometimes a younger woman, but my reality check works much better now than when I was younger.
I have never been in a mutual infatuation but I suspect that as soon as you discover the infatuation is mutual, the relationship stops being just an infatuation.1