Dating tips for a balding young guy?

[amit1989]

I'm 27 and lost most of my hair due to premature balding. Naturally, I look much older than I really am and I get rejected on social sites as soon as girls see my pics. How am I supposed to make it possible for girls to see beyond my hairloss and just explore my true self?

[Anonymous]

You'll probably have better luck talking to girls in person instead of online because online people judge on looks but in person you can use your personality and charisma to help you get girls. I would just maybe try going to bars and parties and stuff to meet girls or have one of your friends introduce you to girls they know

[amit1989]

Really nice advice. 👍

[Amber77love]

EXACTLY!!!

[RJGraveyTrain]

At this point just shave it off. The half-comb over look does you no justice and the hair is gone anyway, you may as well just rock a shaved head. At least that way it looks intentional.

[Analinda1999]

you look good. if the hair thing bothers you get a lace wig. looks like a scalp underneath. you just glue it on the head-with wig glue made for skin no other kind. it will stay on until you use a solvent. you can wash the hair and sleep in it. and since you will likely go with short hair, it will be easy to care for.

thats what id do if i was going bald and wanted hair. not sure why people get so upset. not that you sound upset i just mean generally. if losing hair get a wig. they make them realistic and you can order it on line. any color any style no need to style it or cut it and no one has to know. you look like a sandy brown shade ;)

[amit1989]

Thanks for the suggestion, but I don't want to go that way.

[Analinda1999]

sure, but why not? if you want hair. as i say i think you look fine. just wondering why you wouldn't want a wig if it could look natural and just stay on your head?

[amit1989]

It takes a lot of caring to be done. It needs to be changed every alternate week or so. One of my friends has it and it looks unnatural. So, I think as most of the ladies here suggest, bald is beautiful.. 😛

[fabulouspancakes]

I'm going to agree with the other ladies that you should shave it. A shaved head always looks better than an attempt to keep the remaining hair and will make you look younger.
Also, a dating site just might not be the best for you. Guys often have little success on them due to gender ratios. I don't know what opportunities are available to you, but perhaps try meeting women in person if you can.

[BarbieLola]

You really don't look bad to me, I like the 2nd pic better tho

[amit1989]

Thanks 🙂

[Jaye234]

Shave your head, seriously. It looks better and you'll feel better.

[amit1989]

Thanks! I sure am thinking about it. 🙂

[Elizrose99]

My boyfriebd is too. He shaves the back and sides of his hair often so he is bald over. Which is more attractive then a random baldspot in thr slcenter of your head (: with confidence bald can be hott.

[Amber77love]

Honestly most girls (the ones worth anything) won't give two shits!!! The love of my life looked like you and was 19... I though it was cute as hell. Because I loved who he was...

[Herxlncy]

I ❤ this

[Anonymous]

I would prefer a guy shave his head completely, why leave the old man hairdo? Like salvage what's left? I think it looks ridiculous, embrace your baldness shave it all off then when you're about 50 or more you can't rock the old man do

[nevermoregirl7]

You're cute, but you might as well shave whatever remains off. Girls can tell when a guy is insecure, and that in itself is a turn off.

[gaara]

My father had the same thing. He ened up, shaving his hair off.

[momo770]

embrace it, just shave it all off it looks better that way

[lolace]

Do you seriously want to date a girl who just wants to date you because you have nice hair? A true woman dates you for your person and doesn't care about this

[amit1989]

Thanks for sharing your opinion. But I think you misunderstood. I mean to say that in today's social/online dating culture, you only get one chance to get accepted or rejected and that's almost always based on the way you look. I think when girls see a bald guy send a request, it's an instant no-no from them. How am I supposed to reach out to them if I'm getting rejected based on my look?

[lolace]

Mh, this may be a bit idiotic but wear a nice hat on your profile picture?

[lolace]

Women are faking so much with make up I think a hat would be a good try

[amit1989]

Haha! But I don't want to be fake and would prefer if a girl likes me no matter how I look. I also think that I have a good personality. Once given a chance I might be a great companion. 😊

[lolace]

You see your own opposition? You don't want To be fake but at the same time you want to contact women who are so fake they wouldn't even answer you just because you have not so much hair?

[amit1989]

No, I don't want to contact women who reject me because of my hair loss. I asked for this opinion because I'm unable to find anyone who accepts me this way. Maybe it's just me thinking too much.

[Anonymous]

Perhaps just shave it all off, then people may see it as a choice, and it could make you look younger! A lot of younger people are bald now as a fashion thing, so could work

[Machiavelli]

Shave your whole damn head, sorry for being harsh but let it go, the hair is leaving, it's more awkward for you holding on to what is left.

[TinyCactus]

You should shave the whole thing and go for a waxed bald look. I'm

[missgirlie114]

shave it all off. what you have now makes you look older. Every girl like Mr. Clean

[L_i_s]

Shaved head with great facial hair like you have is a very attractive look.

[Jerezana01]

I think if you razor what isnleft of your hair you will look younger and more appealling

[JustRollTheDice]

Shave your head completely

[SarahsSummer]

Have you considered shaving it clean?