Why do boys get so easily scared if things go too fast? (Page 2)

Question

Like.. What are they afraid of are going to happen? I think boys are very difficult to understand on that, I often ends up with the boy runs away and I'm left alone I tears. Happens every time... What am I doing wrong, for example.

pooper89 · Answer

He's not in love with you. Or you haven't caused him to want to chase you. Men love the chase, in fact, most people love the chase.

worldscolide · Answer

depends on the kind of fast you're talking about.. I mean you're dating for a week and already talking about marriage.. that would send me running.

cassienelson98 · Answer

I'm not gonna lie. You seem like a stage 3 clinger. Guys hate clingy girls. It's the number 1 most unattractive thing in a girl.

sevenpoints · Answer

Never noticed that with a guy tbh. With me and my boyfriend it was exactly the other way around haha.

sarath1997 · Answer

i guess it is related to relationship , and you might be more attracted towards guys who prefer sex (teenager) ..

Caaarl · Answer

No one wants a person who moves too fast by definition. People generally don't want to have to break someones heart hard or get stuck into a commitment that they have significant involvement in.

Kiels01 · Answer

Cos if they think you are a cling on its easier to get rid of you now rather than wait til your feelings are stronger.. then its much harder to get rid

myklPLUTO · Answer

Well, if a girl gets on too quickly and too tight.. its suffocating. At the beginning its tolerable but its kinda unbearable later on. Some may just not be looking for a relationship most of the time and just want some fun.

JhonnyMA · Answer

It is not that they get scared, most of them are his looking for a sex buddy and not a long term relationship...

thunderbob · Answer

I can't speak with anyone else but the last two ladies I gave my heart to completely they destroyed my heart

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

If a girl moves too fast yes a guy will get scared and he will run and same thing will happen if a guy moves too fast on a girl.

Nikodemus · Answer

Well, speaking for myself, all I want is a friend, not a romantic relationship, so if a woman were to try to seduce me (I've not had to worry about that so far) I would be flustered. Struck dumb, even.

sexysissy4u · Answer

if boys are scared then they aren't grown up or they are just playing the field. it's ok if both are in agreement but actually all people can fall for each other at any time. can you control your love , ? if you can then it's not love.

indefinite97 · Answer

cuz it seems too "easy", guys are in it for the chase

Anonymous · Answer

Because they are boys. Boys are pussy. It's time to look for men!

RD196 · Answer

Not all men are Chandler but most of them are.. if u knw what i mean. You are right those are actually boys bc Committment is something only men can give..

Gabewilson · Answer

We just don't want a shallow relationship and if it starts in sex were worried it won't mean anything.

jedkawil · Answer

I wonder the same thing with girls. my mom says she's always kinda quick to fall head over heels. I don't know why others aren't. It's an exciting feeling liking someone and knowing they like you too.

Nahid1234 · Answer

Commitment is easy in a relationship and dating. Find better guys.

aliHD · Answer

mostly its the man who should provide for family, some guys even take it offensive if their woman wants to work so they are probably afraid that what if they couldn't do what's necessary to support the family

simon6 · Answer

Personally, if a girl doesn't make it clear whether she is in for a good long relationship or just a fleeting one, I back off instantly. You need to be clear what exactly you are pursuing the relation for.

TheAidanFactor · Answer

Some guys aren't though. It depends on the guy, and the situation

AlexanderMTW · Answer

Sounds like your a good girl and their afraid of screwibg it up with you, so y'all can still be friends.

Valentin220 · Answer

sure they have problems because you're just a modern girl that wants to love and do things as you believe

SpiralKipz · Answer

What do you mean by things going too fast? I can't say I'd ever be really scared of that so long as things go well between us. I mean, marriage after months isn't great but no harm being close.

holaman · Answer

because it's brings them to the reality of " oh damn i'm in a relationship with this person. I don't want that I just wanted to fool around. " take it slow

Karl99 · Answer

They don't want to commit because -they don't think you are girlfriend material -they want to see other girls

Potato_Goddess · Answer

I don't know maybe they are afraid of something the have to offer, but you won't like it.

rajpotchh · Answer

they recognized their responsibilities late.. According to me

mryoungbuck · Answer

what you are doing wrong is dating Boys. Men do not act like that.

mcmanurc · Answer

Its psychological, you need to tske into account what others think of you and what steps they are ready to take, if you go into it too fast it can ruin the chance altogether, and if you're in a relationship it can just break things apart even worse

IAmBlueThunder · Answer

Because we can get hurt and want to take the time to make sure you're worth it.

theFantasticJ · Answer

they think it's too good to be true and likley to fuck up

insectking · Answer

i want a life time girl all i get is girls who wanna lie abd cheat im like what the fuck did i do wrong

hippykyamf · Answer

i move too fast too... not a hole lot u can do about it other than slow down or find a guy that moves fast too

PrinceNeo · Answer

he just wanted sex and didn't know how to tell you that so when you came wanting more he just bounced

Liisjak · Answer

If we're talking about sex, I can't see the issue. If we're talking relationship... who the hell wants to jump into one before touching base first.

lacaras · Answer

I've met girls like that too, dating is all mind games, you never know if you're doing it right or not

coffeeblack · Answer

Very tough to answer. There was a study that stated that guys have a certain time in a month where they can becone moody and erratic. Emotion is an entity that has no bounds. Unfortunate for some.

Seppelson · Answer

I don't know what things you mean. If you wanting him to know your parents at the third date I realy understand the guys.

lsanti91 · Answer

well that's because they are boys. boys who haven't grown up to be a man and take things seriously.

Robin48 · Answer

They notice the female cause them to step across the line when they should have not.

subrosa · Answer

because they are boys. ask again about men... nvm that doesn't happen.

emoteen289 · Answer

I usually go too fast so I'm usually left, however I do not cry

d2796 · Answer

you're probably putting a lot of pressure on them before they even know how they feel about you.

awesometjgreen · Answer

I could ask the same question about girls. it depends on the person, not everyone is like that

Glen68 · Answer

personally I prefer it to go fast since our lives are so short I'd hate to waste to much time with someone I end up not being compatible with

Anonymous · Answer

because generally speaking, we don't want anything long term... we want sex without having to commit to the female game.

Dovahkiin9001 · Answer

We don't like getting into a relationjail and wasting time with someone who's not worth it. We want to make sure you're worth it before we give you a title.

Kelso1321 · Answer

Lol I have it the other way. I go too fast and end up upset in the end because they can't handle it. Most people can't handle fast paced relationships and very few want to. Sucks bad.

lord_chilled · Answer

What do you mean too fast? You mean the relationship too fast or sex?

AliPapito · Answer

not all boys live fast. unlike me😎 fast in sheets and fast in running with keys

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe you become clingy right away, we do like to ourselves so you become like that then it could be perceived that you'll always be like that and get worse

johnmichaei · Answer

usually not really ready for all that comes with that commitment

nicoizfun96 · Answer

Lol for me it's the opposite I go fast and girls get scared

DavidDivad · Answer

we are afraid of commitment if we don't know the girl feels the same as we do

CommieDoggo · Answer

Give it weeks to months. It is kinda clingy when people go too fast

Smegskull · Answer

boys asses things in a far more long term manner so the losses like divorce are more apparent to them.

Thanks2Shanks · Answer

Its because they wanted to use you or he just didn't like you, If it happened to me for say, i wouldn't care.

Anonymous · Answer

Not all of us are like that... the same thing has happened to me with girls all my life...
what's my friends tell me is that I care to much and that I care to much about h
them...
actually I cam use some advice here as well...

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