I have. He says he doesn't see how it's a big deal. He says he isn't dming them, or cheating on me. But, it's just the message it sends when he likes a sexy photo to a girl. He is literally implying "hey, I think you're hot. I would bang you". I find it disrespectful when he has a girlfriend...
I just don't understand his point of view. I got upset because he recently liked a mirror selfie of a girl he knows, and I saw he used to talk to her (I'm not sure how deep it was, but there was interest). Anyways, she was in a bikini and posing seductively. He liked it. I got upset. He said he liked it as a way to say "congrats girl, good for being confident". Maybe that's true. But, I find it hard to believe.
I just find it hard to imagine he is truly liking the photo with good intentions. I mean, especially because of the context of the photo :/ but, perhaps he is being honest.
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How fucking disgusting. UGH!
Social media does more harm than good for sure now. I am glad, that i stay out of this plague.
then its time to leave him
Have you talked to him about how you feel?
I have. He says he doesn't see how it's a big deal. He says he isn't dming them, or cheating on me. But, it's just the message it sends when he likes a sexy photo to a girl. He is literally implying "hey, I think you're hot. I would bang you". I find it disrespectful when he has a girlfriend...
Have you told him exactly that?
I have. He told me that I am just reaching to make this deeper than it is.
How do you feel about that? If you were on the outside looking in do you see where he's coming from?
Just looking for some common ground. not taking sides
I just don't understand his point of view. I got upset because he recently liked a mirror selfie of a girl he knows, and I saw he used to talk to her (I'm not sure how deep it was, but there was interest). Anyways, she was in a bikini and posing seductively. He liked it. I got upset. He said he liked it as a way to say "congrats girl, good for being confident". Maybe that's true. But, I find it hard to believe.
I don't think he is cheating. But, I do think he is being disrespectful because it sends a certain image to the girl who posted it.
That sounds a lot like he's being supportive of a friend not like he's looking for a sidechick.
And I mean obviously he likes you way more since he's WITH you and not her
I just find it hard to imagine he is truly liking the photo with good intentions. I mean, especially because of the context of the photo :/ but, perhaps he is being honest.
Well does he lie to you very often?
Not that I know of. I think this insecurity comes from me not feeling I get enough attention from him...
I don't know.
Can you ask him for more attention or arrange more time to spend together?
i would be pissed as it is not just random girls
he's with you, not them
I still don't get why he needs to give them that attention, though :/
It's like admiring a photo of a nice car or a beautiful beach.
But it's a sexy photo of girls he KNOWS and has interacted with!
Also, it isn't like he really compliments me often, or gives me that attention online with my photos.
That is messed up actually, he should consider your emotions more. It's a man's job to protect the woman's heart
Tell him
You have so many problems 😂
Fucking break up
We did
Are you glad? Like you seemed so stressed
No. I'm not.
Ok ,,