it's probably not guilt. Is probably a combination of you feeling sick already with the added anxiety of his perception. if it's enough to make him second guess dating anymore then it was a quick and easy way to find out early he wasn't worth the time. if everything still good after you feel better then enjoy it :-)
You obviously shouldn't feel guilty. But it's quite depressing when someone cancels on you and it doesn't matter if they have a valid reason, you're probably just empathizing.
You probably feel a bit disappointed but good that he was understanding, stuff happens. :)
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I think that you feel guilty just because most women use that as a false excuse for not dating him, because they are so coward that they prefer to lye than dating them and making them know what they don't like on them for not dating again. But if you really want to date him and you have had some obstacle you haven't predict, you aren't one of these girls, so you need to demonstrate them that that's true by sending some pictures of you in the doctor of some other evidence that you haven't cancelled the date just because.
Because you like him and you have a feeling that this time possibly he made actually be the one because he isn't a douche bag and he's really into you. He's disappointed because he likes you... You feel guilty because you could have in fact in the end let your self down...
There's nothing to feel guilty about. You didn't feel well and any decent guy would understand (as this one did). Not feeling well is a legitimate reason to cancel a date, and you did tell him. He's not gonna lose interest just because you weren't feeling well for this date.
Cause you care about him. Just make sure you make an effort to reschedule. If you go back to just texting he'll think you're just using him for his personality and have no intention of dating him. Make sure your next texts are with the purpose of suggesting dates, times and activities to do something with him and not idle chit-chat. No bigger turnoff when a girl cancels but expects the guy to arrange the date again. If you arrange it he'll know you do actually want to see him.
Never good to cancel a date. Its like cancelling a job interview. Men usually think ladies are lying when they give their reason for cancelling and they think you aren't interested.
Hey, don't feel guilty. Things happen. If he's ok with that, then good and reschedule. If h S not ok with that, then you don't need/want to date a kid/immature baby.
guilt is only if you know you did something wrong. I believe you feel as much disappointed over the circumstances if not more.
Becuase, the guy planned everything out, he got all ready, everything ready then BOOM! crush. Disappointed.
It's like a game. He is going to higher level everytime for a reward, then when he reaches the top. There is no reward
You did your part, gave him reasons. If there is trust he’ll understand. When you want to be with someone you try to make sure they feel comfortable.
It he is insecure on YOU BEING Sick.
Leave my friend
If it wasn't a date but a meet up with an old friend you would probably feel the same. It sucks making people sad/disappointed, but you had a reason. Don't beat yourself over it, accept it, move on, and try for another date
It's a genuine reason, don't feel bad.
If you canceled it because you didn't like him though, then yeah, that's kinda bad for leading someone on.
If you are sick, then you are sick. Just don't forget to chat with him.
because u r crazy about each other & you don't want to disappoint or loose him
Did you offer an alternative date and time?
Never done it.
Girls did that to me. Rutinelly.
The whole texting thing is a fail.
I ain't feeling guilty.
dont be
of course, not
It's okay
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