She's still using tinder?

[Anonymous]

Hi everyone, I've been seeing this girl for 6 weeks now. We've been on 5 dates with the last two dates almost lasting 24 hours each and her sleeping over ;). On the fourth date she said she really liked me and on the fifth date, she said that I'm the first person she's gone on a date using tinder as I told her it was mine. We saw each other for consecutive weekends. However today, I downloaded tinder to look at our past conversation from when we first started talking and noticed that she changed her pictures. Should I be concerned?

[El_Samir]

6 weeks is a long time so maybe she changed them earlier in the relationship. It's not a v long time in a relationship though so I think it's quite normal to be on especially if you have only been on 5 dates and not talked about being in a relationship.

[burpzzzzz]

You guys never going to learn, most of these women will ghost you or leave you for some other dude. Don't waste your time dating unless she wants to go dutch. Women who bring nothing to the table besides sex is unlikely to be loyal to you.

[Courtney17256]

If you don't want to date other people, talk to her about it. Or maybe wait a tad longer, try and read the situation. She could've been burned in the past so she keeps her options open whilst you guys are still in the early dating stage.

[Anonymous]

Have you even bothered to discuss your relationship goals with her? Discussed monogamy? Asked her to be exclusive?

[Dustmop]

I feel like there's other motives for you to go on Tinder. Confront her before you commit.

[spoopyscaryskeleton]

I would be. Sounds like she's playing around with/ on you.

[MlleCake]

How can you be playing around on someone who, it appears, never mentioned that he wanted to be exclusive?

[spoopyscaryskeleton]

@MlleCake
I assumed he thought they were exclusive.

[MlleCake]

Yes, he may have THOUGHT that, but since it appears he never even talked about it with her, then how is she "playing around"? See, in relationships, you have to communicate your expectations, not just imagine the other people thinks the way that you do.

[spoopyscaryskeleton]

@MlleCake
He wouldn't ask the question unless he thought they were exclusive.

[spoopyscaryskeleton]

@MlleCake
Many people do the same thing

[spoopyscaryskeleton]

@MlleCake
you're right, even though by date five or six i would assume that i would be exclusive, without asking to make it official, its not playing around. i didn't mean to offend you. I just went with the assumption

[MlleCake]

That's the problem with getting angry at someone else for an assumption you made, when you never bothered to express your expectations. Yeah, it's a common thing people do. It's still stupid.

[Anonymous]

Tinder is literally the worst site/app to use if you actually want a relationship.

[es20490446e]

Does she show interest in you?

[pcdan]

Your no very interesting then