We're both 22. I like to go out dancing and getting drinks with my friends. Ever since we got together he doesn't want me to go to them because of all the guys there. We just got into a huge fight because my friends are going out this weekend and I wanted to go but he threatened to break up with me if I did. I don't go to pick up guys or get crazy. I just want to dance and have a good time. I asked him to suggest other places we can go to dance and he couldn't give me any. I didn't go but now I'm not speaking to him. I have nothing to say and I'm wondering if I even want to be with someone who thinks they can tell me what I can and cannot do. When he's with me, he's fine. But I don't invite him all the time, simply because it's a girls night.

I betcha you'll meet another guy hotter than him

Dump him or flagrantly disregard his commands.

grab him by the balls and say "I do what I want!"

Break up, you don't deserve him

Well only whores go out duh duh

Break up. Don't let him control you

I think he should trust you more

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I betcha you'll meet another guy hotter than him

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Dump him or flagrantly disregard his commands.

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He is jealous, move on

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Ask him to get with you

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Do you get wasted a lot?

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- Asker
  
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  No. I don't drink that much. I've have one beer or a glass of wine and I'm good for the night.
  
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- Omar5881
  
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  Well I don't think he should be worried about you going , coming from an Arab lol , just talk about it with him and tell him that you feel he's controlling you and that stuff , if he doesn't understand then you might need to find a new boyfriend
  
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grab him by the balls and say "I do what I want!"

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Break up, you don't deserve him

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Well only whores go out duh duh

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Break up. Don't let him control you

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I think he should trust you more

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riteshh Follow
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I thinking right because he love u not

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Leave him, or sex-strike

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He is right

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- Uziel_007
  
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  LOL, the hate on this comment is real. 🤣
  
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- lord_chilled
  
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  One girl that keeps it real
  
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- lord_chilled
  
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  can't believe that MEN downvoted it. Looks like a lot of guys would rather have slutty, loose women than, loyal girls with proper values.
  
  They will be the same guys who claim all women are sluts/evil and bash on females, when they get cheated on or dumped.
  
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- Munj82
  
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  Can't agree with u more. But not Everytime it's the same. Though most of times ur right
  
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- Asker
  
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  @lord_chilled I'm slutty... because I like go dancing... Oh my.
  
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- Munj82
  
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  There r two types at least what we r talking here about. Some geniunely only go for music and booze. And they r not interested in any other thing. But unfortunately those kinds r also very less Miss
  
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- lord_chilled
  
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  No asker. Your slutty because you like to go dancing in a place filled with hard dicks that are trying to grind on your ass.
  
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Tyberius Follow
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Time to leave

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Drop his ass

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He's not wrong.

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That's controlling.

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Breakup

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