Why do guys HATE commitment? (Page 5)

Question

I'm not intending to generalize, but why do most guys take pride in cheating and having many girls? Most of them love to play the role of " The Player " instead of  the boyfriend . why is commitment such an awful thing to them?

important_nihilist · Answer

As I don't have any statistics showing your claim about "most guys" is true or not I can't really say more than that I don't recognise the mentality you describe amongst any of my male friends.

Mynameistrey · Answer

Personally I like to keep my options open when talking to girls. I don't want to be tied down at the age of 18. I'm staying single until I find a keeper.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Guys just don't want settle down and i believe we can talk to were blue in the face and they still won't commit also it could be that  their afraid of commitment but not all guys are the same.

clark8466 · Answer

That's actually less than half of guys that are like that, your probably just picking the wrong guys, look at their principles and heart not their style or popularity

limabeanz · Answer

Honestly I'm with you, I don't know. It's pretty annoying though.

ok604 · Answer

Most don't... boys do, men don't. But then there are men like ME, who gave the chance, . But she couldn't keep her legs closed, or maybe it just wasn't what they wanted, , either way the chance was given...

tinasherifrouf · Answer

That was the biggest problem for my Ex " the fear of commitment "
and I'm not that person who fear of commitments I used to make most of things to him and he's not even willing to try so we broke up , but a lot of people aren't

sp33d · Answer

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annonboy · Answer

For the player type it's easy to get girls so a lot of them get greedy and go for more which means they do not need to commit to one, but few of them don't commit because they don't find the girl interesting

Valiric · Answer

They don't? LMFAO, stop labeling all men as horrible people. 😥😥😥😥😥

A_Sloth · Answer

A large amount of people aren't ready for any form of commitment but throw themselves in a relationship amyways. Then they hurt their partner by wanting to experience other people. It happens to both girls and guys.

DNB1994 · Answer

I don’t hate commitment. I’d be thrilled to be in a committed long term relationship that eventually leads to marriage. It’s just impossible at the moment to find someone of the opposite sex that feels the same. Until then... I’m available

whatarewedoinghere · Answer

I think it's more like it's more like buying a car and you see another car after you bought that car and you want to test drive that other car and you don't really know if that other car is better until you test drive it

john1714 · Answer

My friends and I talk about this and it's just what they want. I'm into commitment and they all are freaked out about it and like having sex only.

Anonymous · Answer

I'd argue that many women aren't ready for commitment either. As much as they may say they are, or act like they want a committed relationship, they continue to make mistakes in their dating lives.

Canadaman99 · Answer

Symptom of women being dishonest, manipulative, extortionists maybe? I'd not be a player but I doubt I'll be sign up for that emotional hell again

afron · Answer

My guy doesn't. Rather I want him to be little off track.

Cosytoasty · Answer

It's not hating commitment, its the fact that finding a girl to commit too means going through MANY girls... and it's quicker to do several at once.

ImMackFreeze · Answer

It might just be who you are around because I just want to be married and have kids (not now but in general). It really does depend who you meet.

NossyLen · Answer

Some men are tools who don't even consider the other girls feelings. That seperates The Player from The Boyfriend

Lovemycountryboy · Answer

Commitment  Guys peoobably hate it because they are very stupid like that

MILTU · Answer

There are still many guys with pure heart with true caring and love... but girls won't respct them.. if they see them means then there would no cheatin between love..

jeepsteve · Answer

Not all men can't commit, just the ones you're attracted to. These are the men that don't seem boring to you because they have game. Choose someone with less game.

LegateLanius · Answer

I like commitment but the ones that you come across are not ready for it so instead of generalizing, just either accept that or find someone that wants it right away

Anonymous · Answer

Bcoz girls giving everything so easily. This dating culture of one after another so there is no someone 'Special' for them.

TheUsername27 · Answer

I think men realize ''the player'' gets women. Give it his experience or backed up sense of self confidence. They also likely hook up with a lot of partnered girlfriends and decide that they don't want to be in the opposite shoe.

N8Zett · Answer

Don't hate it, have issues with it probably because I was an only child and my mother's "#1 love" . . . until she found some asshole she "grew up with" and left my father and I in Florida and moved back to NY.

AyushMate · Answer

Problem is that all girls like "The Player" type of person. And they friendzoned all good guys.

Steve_L · Answer

Have to be honest, think you are generalising there. Personally I've never been afraid of commitment. From personal experience I'm always the one who gets hurt & dumped. Yes, some guys are dicks, sometimes it's the women.

reptocarl · Answer

They don’t. When they meet Miss Right that hatred or fear magically disappears

TeQCas · Answer

You are generalizing. Most men dont hate commitment.

Robbyboys · Answer

Some guys don't want to commit at that time. They're still young and don't want to be monogamous yet. Also i love how you said i don't mean to generalize and immidiately did.

integrale77 · Answer

I don't think it's commitment that we hate it's more the changes to how we live our lives

arshlx · Answer

Dude guys don't fear commitment... Guys fear getting dumped or ditched... Which is women's favourite hobby Simple as that.

stifler1979 · Answer

Only dickheads take PRIDE in cheating. Women are the gatekeepers of sex and men are the gatekeepers of committment.

usernameexists112585 · Answer

In my mind it is because in the end I am afraid of losing her...

Anonymous · Answer

I have never cheated on a partner. If I wasn't happy, I have always tried to talk about it, and if it's still not working, I've ended the relationship.
I have been cheated ON more than once, by more than one girlfriend. On each occasion, the lady in question said "I didn't feel comfortable committing to one man."

Robin48 · Answer

We do not hate commitment. We hate women who use us for their benefits and everything we have to do is for her and her alone.

spartan55 · Answer

Sound like you are attracted to the wrong type of immature guys.

20yearsolder · Answer

Not all guys do. I don't have a problem with commitment

SuitAndTie · Answer

They don't hate commitment. If they find the one they want and she ticks all the right boxes they will commit.

Anonymous · Answer

Beleive me, it's part societal pressure. No guy will ever agree to this but yes, subconsciously, it is a major cause. If you have 1 PLAYBOY in the squad then OBVIOSILY people cater to him more because they think playboy = stud = awesome. So you want to become awesome and the centre of attention. This is a never ending circle.

Kirb559 · Answer

Im the opposite. I would never take pride in cheating on anyone

Darkener · Answer

Lol I prefer, at least in my area I have the opposite Problem in my area with girls my age >.>

Bodhi_Stinson · Answer

They don't hate hit. Some just don't want to commit and that is fine!  Also I have the same feelings about girls.

Mckaos · Answer

why's it always one way, the girl i last dated was the same as you're explaining, and i wanted a committed relationship

CT_CD · Answer

Why be committed when it's so easy to get sex without commitment? Having sex with multiple girls is better than one

nycmarkie · Answer

At some point in ur life u create a standard for what you want as a wife with most people afraid of commitment its either the standard been surpassed or not reached

Ridane · Answer

What are you talking about if always been commuted from day 1 so you Say guys my thing is if you man enough to lay with a woman you better be man enough to out a ring in it.

koltepreetam · Answer

those who are just playing with girls they hate commitment... not all hate it... its just that you didn't got a guy who love commitment and fulfills it...

100lbguy · Answer

Well we are apes so we may still have the that instinct that the common ape we came from had because our cousin the gorillas and chimpanzee also have males having multiple females partners.

abradolf_lincler · Answer

Many guys maybe. A certain number of girls seem to expect that a certain kind of guy will change who they are for them, and then are surprised when that doesn't happen

Dre_808 · Answer

A lot of guys are like that until late 20s early 30s. You won't find many guys that want to settle down and commit to one girl in their teens and early 20s. So not all guys are against commitment.

Anonymous · Answer

Lots of guys like it. However the better looking they are the less they do.

DanyelC · Answer

If you earn his trust he will commit. But if you're chasing a dumb playboy you will never get something good out of it. Guys are like girls, no difference. The majority that look good are overrated and have no brain.

Anilkaancha · Answer

I think “goodwifie” told everything about this question

MecheD · Answer

It’s not, they just share the same feeling of being let down in that category

bluepedal · Answer

Funny since I've been with the same person from 20 till now..22 years and counting

JackJD · Answer

Not even most guys are players. The "Players" are often the ones who fear commitment, probably out of fear of rejection (or lack of patience). Regardless, they are scum if they cannot commit to one woman.

keegan12321 · Answer

Because most men are still quite childish. They have a one track mind.

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