Why do guys HATE commitment? (Page 6)

Question

I'm not intending to generalize, but why do most guys take pride in cheating and having many girls? Most of them love to play the role of " The Player " instead of  the boyfriend . why is commitment such an awful thing to them?

dragau4 · Answer

We dont society thinks of us like that and praise men with tons of women...

Anonymous · Answer

There are like thousands of articles online about this issue. Browse around. They will be more beneficial and detailed than asking here.

MLGbreezy · Answer

I dont really think thats true I've sern plenty of girls who dont want to commit ya know

Shiv09 · Answer

Because most guys are never content with what they already have.

allen513 · Answer

I would never cheat on my partner. I have been cheated on and i felt terrible for months and i wouldn't want someone i loved to feel that way

advcoles · Answer

A lot of cocky guys just wanna fuck tbh. Stay away from the ones that come out more then, can't control what goes on in their minds...

SK8-Benny7 · Answer

I rather be in a committed relationship and knowing that my partner really love me, than sleeping around with random chicks

Guava_11 · Answer

Probably because they are desperate for sex, showing off to their mates or your looking for the wrong people 7 times out of 10

sthudig · Answer

Because women treat us differently when in a relationship as opposed to just having a sexual thing. And not in a good way at all.

deanlarouche · Answer

I love commitment. I want to settle and get married it has always been what I wanted. But some guys are only players and don't know what they want

britpop · Answer

I think most of it is just bragging to other guys I've seen lots of men fall hard not just for me but friends to really shouldn't generalize like that

JSmuve · Answer

Because commitment implies a sense of permanence. The old ball n chain. Just one woman. Who could turn out to be the wrong one.

craigurai · Answer

Sounds like you are surrounding yourself with the wrong people but most younger guys haven't figured themselves out. How do you expect them to know what they want in a forever mate?

ButtSweat · Answer

Please, players are born from women that turn down guys who are ready and willing for commitment. If women would stay pure and stay faithful to one relationship guys would do the same

TheNateSolo · Answer

Not all guys are like that. Some of us (like me) would do anything to be committed to that someone no matter what happens, but unfortunately were never even given a chance to by any girls. Not every guy think of relationships as games.

DamnMan · Answer

Guys love commitment, we just don't want to be committed to the wrong person.

silentpony · Answer

One girl is perfect for me... I just can't find her

buster1968model · Answer

I guess we are afraid we will marry the wrong woman.

mcraylee · Answer

It Depend on person who want to commit. And more mateur.

JaySmi · Answer

I don't hate commitment. I actually find the same problem with the women I've dated...

Juxtapose · Answer

I dunno, I've never shied away from commitment if I'm actually interested in someone.

musicmanXL · Answer

Most guys I know would be cool with having just one girl. Where are you meeting guys?

wildborn · Answer

As per my perspective some of the guys cheat not every guy, but now a days every guys are afraid that girl will leave them so they are prepared for that situations believe me or not, I've experienced, I've gone through that face.

Ray4444 · Answer

can't speak for most guys.. I don't consider myself as a cheater or a player.. I honestly don't want to dive into a relationship right now.. some use that as an excuse to play.. others just wanna live their life like that

tbone6017 · Answer

Hey KiKi its a shame that all guys can't be better to thier women.. its not that we are afraid of it.. most think that any woman who smiles or shows us interest wants to bang us.. we crave acceptance from ladies

gecko192 · Answer

I'd really like to commit to a girl if only i could find one lol

Dutcher · Answer

From what I've seen girls are wayyyy more afraid of commitment

msg812 · Answer

guys are known like that because girls prefer that kind of guys over nice guys then they think all guys are like that.

Kilamanjargo · Answer

Nice guys are treated as if they are desperate dramatic and emotional while the douchebags are idolized.

zzzondarrr · Answer

Cause they are shallow and stupid, but why would you care about them, there are enough guys who exactly seek for commitment.

Tomsta · Answer

Well there are some legit reasons why some guys would be scared of commitment, but you should not go for the players anyway

1smooth28 · Answer

I would never cheat but I am reluctant to get into a relationship because I'm scared it might not work out and that I won't be good enough.

helphelpimdying · Answer

Nobody hates commitment. People hate committing to things they dont want to commit to, or aren't ready.

imredheaded · Answer

You probably know more "players" because they are more likely to be getting around more. It's an observation bias.

RationalMale · Answer

Because it's a lot more fun to be the ex boyfriend she still pines for than to be the browbeaten loser trying to buy her flowers and chocolate and tell her no she doesn't look fat.

oviadam · Answer

In my case, I loved a girl from the core of my heart but my parents spoiled everything, I still love her, knowing that now nothing will really happen 😕

That2kKid21 · Answer

Most of them? No. Maybe like 20% or less of guys cheat on their girlfriends. We don't as a mass hate commitment. We're just not jumping at every opportunity to get married... Lol.

Anonymous · Answer

Stop going for players. I know the rest ‘aren't good enough’ for you but that’s your problem, not theirs.

Thebruja · Answer

Can't generalize. Every man is different in his own head.

Yug29 · Answer

I love commitment and i will happy get married to someone i love

winterfox10 · Answer

It's not commitment so much as the lack of emotional stability in modern relationships.

Jay84310 · Answer

Because we all know that even paradise has sunsets... and one may get lost in the night.

CaptainShadow · Answer

Bruh you women cheat way more than men do its just a stereotype created by movies

shaque2545 · Answer

I love commitment. Just finding the right woman to commit to is the issue.

TrIsTaN-_ · Answer

Less freedom, and being a womanizer is glorified by socal media

Akilies2401 · Answer

I can't answer that one. :( But i have seen more girls go fornthe player than the boyfriend

awesometjgreen · Answer

We don't. Stop getting men that don't want commitment

Wwwyzzerdd · Answer

We hate wasting our time on whores who don't stay committed or are incapable.

hish85 · Answer

I think boys and girls are the same from inside, it's only like girls don't express themselves as boys.

Boris88 · Answer

I think every Guy if he meets the right girl is not afraid. Only afraid if he is not sure about the girl.

Seppelson · Answer

I don't know about other guys but I hate to be single. I am always in a relationship. Now it is almost five years and I don't fear commitment

Nahid1234 · Answer

Because it is easier to meet and fuck, then leave. I have no problem with it. Just need a girl that is willing to want to know me.

JoeyC2789 · Answer

Guys don't hate commitment the girl moves too fast when i comes to marriage or sometimes it becomes one sided like a Raiders game

LordPK20797 · Answer

You don't know most guys. We don't take pride in cheating. Listen, personal experience isn't enough to generalize about 49% of the world.

psychosam · Answer

I hate it but I'm not a cheat, ever, I just find commitment boring, feel like I'm settling down, and I'm too young for that shit

Anonymous · Answer

For my part i don't hate it. But i hate it when girls feel entitled to commitment.

Krumpir · Answer

I wouldn't hate commitment. I am not trying to be player. Actually, I am not trying even around single girl atm. Relax Kiki, just look harder! ;)

wildanderson77 · Answer

Most men who have once made a commitment to a woman.. Found there kids, and everything they own taken. Then sued to pay some hussy for child support.. only to find that was the plan all along

rock4hard · Answer

Your opinion is right kiki98 but all guys are not same but those who does such things it may be their past life like ( jilted guys) or may be they are coward to commitment...

Deepan_DC · Answer

Because they may be in fear of getting cheated.. so think think and think before getting committed.. even though the time plays a vital role in boys and girls life...

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