What makes a guy want to be in a relationship? (Page 2)

Question

Is there specific things that guys look for in a girl so they would like to be with her for a life time? 
If yes! What are your standards?

Chiral · Answer

Honesty so there can be complete trust, absence of narcissism/attention seeking, genuine concern for wellbeing of others, sexually open minded.

Barrabus_the_Free · Answer

Believing the lies he's been fed his entire life.  As soon as he stops doing that, his desire to ever be in another relationshit takes a nice dive.

NineTailedFox · Answer

I feel that for me, when I'm looking for a partner, I'll look at how many common interests and if she has a personality that I'm looking for :D (For example, caring etc.) Hope this helps! :)

thephoenixhd · Answer

Only few things are she showing her original self In front of him, she empathizing him in every way and understanding him that's what most of us want

pervertedjester · Answer

I wrote it all down here

sophia141 · Answer

I think they want to be able to call someone theirs. Maybe they want to have a connection no one else can have with them.

MecheD · Answer

Just you in general having the same love for yourself that you had when you met.

Crims · Answer

Basically just a best friend. Someone who is your partner in crime, that's the person you stick with

heavygear40k · Answer

I don't know of anything that makes me want a relationship. I can give you 5000 reasons why I don't want one though.

Mynameistrey · Answer

I want to be in a relationship when my heart tells me and not my dick. I'm still learning which is which at my age lol

Names93 · Answer

When I know being with that person actually yields benefits for myself too. When it won't be countless dates that I have to arrange and pay for. when I meet a girl that isn't take take take.

important_nihilist · Answer

A feeling of mutual understanding and "we against the world".

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I look for a girl whose Quiet, Laid Back, Shy, Has a great personality.

TheShadowS · Answer

I look for competitive, and over the top people, in a contrast to my calm, and laid back nature

rockhaha · Answer

Only guys who are ready for a relationship will want to be in a relationship

ZJKoA · Answer

Dedicated to her life goals, confident, classy, fashionable, dreamer, loyal, decent, honest, Cute and funny For me, this is the real beauty

Anonymous · Answer

At a first sight, guys do look at your face and your body frame. at least I do. Then it comes down to the nature and compatibility of the two. But at first most of the guys do think that if I can be with her for the rest of my life just looking at you.

Anonymous · Answer

A guy can like anything in a girl, her beauty, her body, her mentality, her character, her sense of humour etc. It varies from person to person. Personally I love girls with ok figure, basic education, good communicative skills, nice, funny and caring personality. And if you are talking about relationships, a guy just wants her, to have her, to spend time with her in a romantic way

Anonymous · Answer

Depends heavily on the guy. But typically if they can see a future and believe you’ll make a good mother for their children, they’ll want a relationship.

Anon-ymous1 · Answer

Uhhh... ideally nothing. Girlfriend status > wife status. But if she makes us happy, if we're just happy being around her, that's enough. But usually she's the one pushing the long term thing, not us.

shiv962 · Answer

can't say there are some specific standards but they are the choices everyone have.

Mindsets2020 · Answer

It changes on the girls and the maturity of the man...

xmasterx · Answer

That would differ from man to another but a good looking faithful one would be an ace i think

DaTruth01 · Answer

Everytime i desribe what girls that guys wanna date look like all the girls call me sexiest... well fuck it most of u won't find a man and u won't even know why

BeautifulAngels · Answer

I think, love is important for guys to have a relationship

Johnmiller123 · Answer

If you’re not ugly and there’s a connection between personalities BOOM we want a relationship.

Stonescribe · Answer

Friendship. Knowing that even if it doesn't work out you'll still be friends.

Ruith · Answer

A specific things.. i don't thing so It varies person wise and also many relationship strts with attractions nd depends on couple

ConsciousHuman · Answer

In general just someone that "fits" with what I am doing, and the things that I want to do in the future.

Anonymous · Answer

Because they truly want one and know it in their heart they do.

najikadri · Answer

Regardless of outer appearance and femininity, if she was honest, respectful, appreciate and understand me then I would think that will make me seek a long term relationship with that girl.

claw09 · Answer

Depends on the guy as well as his and her current situations.

AdamED · Answer

Chemistry, attractiveness, comfort, sexuality, personality and effort!

es20490446e · Answer

Why people have a lower chance of being liked back on Tinder than in real life?

Greaver · Answer

For me the fact that you aren’t alone anymore and have someone to vent to

trexel · Answer

Yeah its called giys grow up and wanna start banging pussy instead of looking at it on the computer screen nobody can disagree with me there

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Sex.  My standards are she must be cool, sweet, open minded, God fearing Christian, loyal and did I mention cool? Oh yeah.

NickoN · Answer

there are no standards as such, it is to do with my taste and the looks and intellect of my potential girlfriend

locutus · Answer

If I'm dating I'm always looking at long term but once you know you can't live with something either you end it or talk about it I'm not going to stay with you if I don't think I will last

saket333 · Answer

Every guy looks for different things like I had like a girl who has a good sense of humour and is cute. Has some wits but other may go for some sexy chick also.

Seandoh · Answer

For long term, I would want more of a friend, but more intimate than a friend

TheCrazyBoy · Answer

If she hits character and a fine personality we want to have a relationship with

ZenaYTSquad · Answer

Some guys don't wanna be alone and want a girl that they care about each other

Tommy223 · Answer

As Danny Sexbang's sister said. "For a successful relationship all you need is a best friend that you want to bone"

Anonymous · Answer

Probably to have her around and not have to keep looking once he finds one with all the qualities in them that he is looking for

scooogy · Answer

If I see myself happy with her in every single aspect of my life, then I'm hers.

Jordan26 · Answer

He needs someone more than friends close to his souls

DNB1994 · Answer

Physical attractiveness and emotional attractiveness

greNader · Answer

Instinctual drive to reproduce and group to increase chances of survival

AndroGodslay · Answer

It depends if the guy is a nerd, or playboy or something like that or other. All u need to do is win his heart

megafredmc · Answer

Is she worth my time.. is she smart.. does she have things going for her like a job and where does she want to be later in life

karthik_niki · Answer

She should be open Hearted person Which she may share her personal feelings to touch him This makes him to think about you

Pharason · Answer

Definitly not adopting kids ^^  I think we are on a relationship when we trust the other one like no one else.

KkrishnA · Answer

Caring, being honest, behaving childishly, and telling him his importance..  This will make perfect relationships for either of them

OUTLAWCOPE12349 · Answer

The fact of having someone to be there after a long day of work , to cuddle and hold and love etc...

askawaymam · Answer

Some guys will do it so they are not alone. me I always see if things feel right

SeifA · Answer

For me i don't like her to be too attached that's a thing

jahlove · Answer

Yes guys we a wife in d streets and a sult in d bedroom

Brendan_js · Answer

Some one who's nice and funny, and is independent but still needs you there

IAmDepressedPlzHelp · Answer

Not have to be the one to always start a conversation or making up stuff to do

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