As I said. There is plenty of research on that matter. Not only biological, but psychological.
In the end though the biological reality will almost always be reflected in the psychological reality. And absolutely nothing wrong with it - even if some people try everything to fight their biological reality.
Yes, but a lot of psychology stems from a persons biological circumstances. With this data i can see a lot of men prefer a dominant female (even if not most), which if not surprising, is interesting. As you could perhaps correlate that with the changes within society. How people view sex and relationships I mean. I just think it's cool. 😛
And as you can see there are a lot more guys who like a dominant girl than there are girls who like a submissive guy.
Quite frankly - the competition among men is quite a bit harder to prove oneself to be "worthy". There is an interesting study about sexual economics by Roy F. Baumeister. You should be easily find it as a. pdf.
Anyway, the point of it is that essentially women have the supply and men the demand. Aka women decide the "price" for their sexuality and men have to prove that they are capable of "paying" it. And I am not talking about money, but about quality, social status, etc.
So considering women decide the "price" it means there are a good chunk of men who are incapable of "paying" it. For example - biologically speaking we have twice as much female than male ancestors. Those men just fall flat and out of the equation of having reasonable chances for intercourse.
They are the bottom of the quality-barrel. Not necessarily, because they are (though some really are), but because they lack any sense of confidence, masculinity and willpower to improve.
So what's left for them? Either they start striving for improvement or they accept their fate. If it's the later, it is often developing and expressed in some weird sexual needs. Cuckolding would be a pretty extreme example of that - but feeling inferior to women and thus desiring a dominant one is a pretty common one among those kind of guys. Putting the woman on a pedestal and just acting like a backbone-free weasel.
Oh, and while women control the supply of sex, men control the supply of commitment. So it kinda balances itself out.
@iLala_Water submissive women generally tend to leave everything to the guy: Making the first move of approaching them Asking them out Arranging every date leaves every decision up to the man as if they like being controlled
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I like my men submissive in the day and dominant at night ;)
Dominant
Without a doubt !
Nothing beats a dominant woman!
I like a dominant man but I always attracted submissive ones
I am absolutely dominant and boss over my partner haha. Or I try to be lol
Gosh. Wish I had a partner like you :p
@chetan_doku black men and white gals for me
I'm not black. Though things are similar in that case ;)
Honestly, I think it is better to have dominant parents, because they need to guide you as a kid, not the other way around.
... lol
@The-Three You know there are those cases..
You misunderstood the question 💀
@The-Three Oh no my English is bad :( :(
Lol it's a sex question
I prefer dominant! I want a partner who knows what he wants and doesn't do whatever I say
That's an obvious theory. Though I prefer dominant women
A man who doesn't desire a submissive woman is not a man. It's that simple.
A "man" who desires a strong, independent "woman" is in the closet.
My boyfriend is dominant and i like that but sometimes we switch it
Definitely dominant, I'm super shy so it takes a confident man or woman to drag me out of it!!
I can work with either or. I would become more stressed in time with a submissive guy, though.
There is plenty of researcdh on your hypothesis, so its obvious you are correct.
Biological yes that's obvious, but in the reallife execution of it I wanted to see if I would be surprised by the results.
As I said. There is plenty of research on that matter. Not only biological, but psychological.
In the end though the biological reality will almost always be reflected in the psychological reality. And absolutely nothing wrong with it - even if some people try everything to fight their biological reality.
Yes, but a lot of psychology stems from a persons biological circumstances. With this data i can see a lot of men prefer a dominant female (even if not most), which if not surprising, is interesting. As you could perhaps correlate that with the changes within society. How people view sex and relationships I mean. I just think it's cool. 😛
And as you can see there are a lot more guys who like a dominant girl than there are girls who like a submissive guy.
Quite frankly - the competition among men is quite a bit harder to prove oneself to be "worthy". There is an interesting study about sexual economics by Roy F. Baumeister. You should be easily find it as a. pdf.
Anyway, the point of it is that essentially women have the supply and men the demand. Aka women decide the "price" for their sexuality and men have to prove that they are capable of "paying" it. And I am not talking about money, but about quality, social status, etc.
So considering women decide the "price" it means there are a good chunk of men who are incapable of "paying" it. For example - biologically speaking we have twice as much female than male ancestors. Those men just fall flat and out of the equation of having reasonable chances for intercourse.
They are the bottom of the quality-barrel. Not necessarily, because they are (though some really are), but because they lack any sense of confidence, masculinity and willpower to improve.
So what's left for them? Either they start striving for improvement or they accept their fate. If it's the later, it is often developing and expressed in some weird sexual needs. Cuckolding would be a pretty extreme example of that - but feeling inferior to women and thus desiring a dominant one is a pretty common one among those kind of guys. Putting the woman on a pedestal and just acting like a backbone-free weasel.
Oh, and while women control the supply of sex, men control the supply of commitment. So it kinda balances itself out.
And of course mankind isn't solely biological, but it still affects us to a good amount.
Switch its nice to have options. Both are fun. But what I want one day may be different from the last.
Actually I love my boyfriend who can be both. Maybe a bit more dominant but both is hella sexy
Do you have to be one or the other? I feel like I want a guy thats a mix of both
Technically it's correct. As far as evolution goes. Personally, I prefer a switch.
I can play any role but naturally I tend to enjoy strong more dominant women.
Either is fine I’m sure i could do well with whichever
I'm dominant by nature so she's gotta be submissive or we're not gonna last.
Submissive. I have other men to compete with. I don't need to compete with my lover too.
Dominant because with submissive women it can feel like I'm doing all the work.
It really ends up being the case while submissive men do a lot of work.
How do you mean?
@iLala_Water submissive women generally tend to leave everything to the guy:
Making the first move of approaching them
Asking them out
Arranging every date
leaves every decision up to the man as if they like being controlled