



As an African American man who can see it from both ends of the spectrum I'm going to tell you that you should give every man not black or white or Hispanic Every Man a chance to impress you. The best answer for this question is the following yes there are African American men that have created a stereotype that we are players and that we're just trying to get ass and things like that. There's also a culture of that type of behavior shown in music videos and through the media. However we don't have to feed into those stereotypes. Lamar is a man who took interest in you and all you need to do is give that same interest back Katie. Give him a chance he is a man not black not white he is just a man who is interested in you
Thank you!!!
I appreciate this answer and you’re honestly right
You're welcome and worth it take this advice and do the best that you can with it
White guys are players too. It's just that white guys will think about marriage more because they can afford it and there's pressure from family to look respectable. That's all. For a white guy it is either a status thing or a guarantee of sex in the future without having to chase it.
Everybody is caught up on the race factor, and did anyone even notice he mentions his race at the end! Like wtf. I am not racist, I’m just naturally more cautious around black guys. Sorry, but it’s fact.
Okay? Great. Lots of girls aren't attracted to black guy faces. That's really all that you're saying. So what?
Lol no that’s not at all what I’m saying.. most of my friends think black guys are hotter than white actually.
They say that to your face to lie to you. It's called virtue signaling. It's meant to make them look more caring and sympathetic to people. But that's not who they swipe on Tinder on dates. It's probably not who they crave.
Lol okay bro.
He seems alright, I’m just wondering how you get someone to write that much to u 🧐 That’s some grade A communication
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Black or not. It shouldn't stop you going for it. Whilst it is a stereotype, white guys are the same too. Many black guys that I know are quite loyal to their girls and they too expect their girlfriends to be otherwise you should never tell someone sorry for cheating on their ass if they're cheating.
It's not about race. Most guys are players. Everyone points it towards race. Plus you are racist if you think someone is a certain way because they are a certain ethnicity. It's not the race, it's the person. And you ARE racist if you think race is the cause of them being players.
Regardless of race, he sounds like a dork and doesn't know how to talk. Bringing up race shows he's a little insecure to. All guys can be soft.
Does his race matter?
Shut up. I clearly stated I’m nit racist, but I’ve seen more black guys play my friends than white guys. That’s just being honest, maybe it’s just where I’m from. I don’t know, so yeah. The racial comments can stop, thanks 😊
I’m so sorry I didn’t mean to come off that way
I was curious :/
I just know how people get on here. So I’m sorry now actually.. but really his race doesn’t matter, I’m just naturally more cautious around them.
I know I’m sorry it came across that way
No hard feelings my friend. Lol
Good luck to you :)
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I’m blue..
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