Pictures are memories. I have a couple of my hated ex on social media, because a) they are nice pictures b) they remind me of where we went and what I did.
It may be the same for this girl. It is also possible that she might not even think about those pictures or give them any consideration.
If, however, she has pictures of herself with him everywhere and shows other tendencies of being hung up on him, well, different story.
i still have pictures with my ex and i don't see a problem. it was about 2 years ago now. we didn't end on bad terms so i thought it seemed petty to go and delete them all. if i had a boyfriend and he asked me to take them down i would. but for now i don't think it matters. i wouldn't say it's a red flag. you should ask her why she still has them.
It's not a red flag, in my opinion.
Just because they broke up doesn't mean that she didn't enjoy the memories and good times they once shared. Or she just didn't think about deleting the pictures. For some people, social media isn't so important that they feel the need to update it all the time.
Having an ex on social media does not mean you will cheat on your current companion or go back to them - it means you had an experience with this person that affected your emotions and don't want to discard the years of your life that you spent invested in that person.
Ya it's a red flag. I would never care for memory. Any kind whether good or bad. I would just delete them, block her, erase whatever is associated with her online. This all i would do even if I did not hv new girlfriend.
If someone has been using Social media, like FB, then their Time-Line could be long. Resulting in some photo's maybe being forgotten?
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s No, sometimes people can even forget they're still on there if they're that far behind in there photos, i think i even have some from years ago, but i have no tie to these people anymore, just haven't bothered to go back and delete them.
Honestly, no. I don't delete pictures but it doesn't mean anything bad. I hate my ex boyfriend but deleting the pictures of him would almost be like letting him win because then it would show i was so hurt I had to delete him, which I'm not. Pictures are just history, not the present.
They're just memories. Anyhow you're operating under the assumption that people were bothered enough to go back and delete all the old photos of their ex. Usually only people not over their ex need to do that. I would say it's more of a sign that she really does not care about him anymore. It could be a red flag tho, but it likely isn't.
It could go both ways, honestly. I know that if a guy I liked had pictures with an ex I’d question it some and be kind of bothered by it. But I think as you get serious into the relationship, I’d feel okay with asking them about it and I’d hope they would take them down as new memories are being created with me. Hope it makes sense
I dont see it as a red flag. I still have pictures of my ex on Facebook, most people I know still have pictures on their Facebook. They don't mean anything, they are just pictures. They're memories.
No, it's part of your past and therefore a part of who you are.
Some people just dont pay attention to this. Or they broke up on a good terms so she never was mad at him to delete all the pictures. I would just ignore that unless other signs that she is not over him pops up.
The memories were probably good or she just doesn’t care enough to take them down.
I like how it's always the women saying no. It doesn't matter if they were good memories. If you're in a new relation ship you shouldn't have to "remember" old memories with a different partner unless you're hung up on them.
No I wouldn't say redflag. They are memories and if you feel like you should keep them then go ahead
If these photos were from before she got with you, then it's no red flag
Red flag 100%. Why have romantic pictures of someone you're no longer with? I never got that.
I feel you're thinking too much into it.
I wouldn't consider that a red flag
No, a lot of people don’t delete pictures.
Red flag for sure.
Yes it is
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