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Is it better to not tell my boyfriend that I cheated on him? (Page 3)
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Face reality and accept ur lost, that's the way to become more mature. Tell him and what should happen will happen.
Yes, tell him. He deserves to decide whether to be with you or not.
You made the choice to get drunk, you made the choice to go to his house... this isn't some horrible mistake. It was TOTALLY avoidable.
If he meant so much, you wouldn't have talked to the ex in the first place. That's right, not even talk.
If he means so much to you, you tell him... Don't be selfish.
You're not doing him a favour. You don't wanna spare him the painone. You're jist trying to protect your own ass. He desrves to know whom he's wasting his precious time on.
he is not wasting time with me, im not a bad girlfriend
and yes im trying to protect him not myself
Well you are a cheating slut that is not trustworthy.
In your update you said you are and always will be a good and faithful girlfriend, you've already proved that to be untrue. Who's to say you're not going tyo get drunk and fuck your ex again? Or some other random dude? Your track record is not in your favor.
And you're right, your boyfriend does deserve someone good and clearly it's not you because you don't even think it's a big deal.
when an under 18 years old had an ex 2 years ago you know she is a troublemaker. well he chose you, his fault. you do you, people hardly change.
Hahahahah on me savage
@jackmaxim its not so early tho, i had my first boyfriend when i was turning 15 and now im turning 17 many people date earlier...
What I don't care bout the age the fact you ain't blow ya boy but blew and fucked the other guy is what got me laughing listen you won't stop you just don't understand yet give it some you'll see haha good luck kiddo
@jackmaxim thanks, im gonna need all the luck i can get now. And i will stop i promise. And i never blowed my boyfriend because i hate and am afraid of blowjobs, if i wasn't as drunk as i was i would never blow my ex or anyone
You admitted to blowing him twice all's fair he's winning and as an ex cheater yeah you will eventually especially if you're not getting caught but hey I'd be really happy to be proven wrong so be the good girl you claim
@jackmaxim i will, i promise i will
@_@ Jk B)
Remember guys! Bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks
Thots like her are pump n dump material!
Selfish. When he finds out it's going to hurt more. Dumb. Do him a favour and get away from him, he deserves better.
The term "cheated" is erroneous and stupid. Anyway, keep it to yourself.
Why have a relationship if you are going to cheat.
@Shaunmunro its not like i planed or wanted to cheat, it was a drunk mistake
@Shaunmunro it was just accidental sex not real sex like a bf/gf would have
@Shaunmunro Again, the term "cheat" is erronous and stupid. It means nothing. We aren't playing a board game here and there are no rules; it's just life. And a relationship does not mean you own the other person you are with. They are not your property. You have love and feelings and understanding for them, with them, but no one is perfect and sexuality is complicated. It's normal and natural for people to be attracted to lots of other people, not just one person. For some reason a lot of people have decided that normal thoughts and feelings are actually bad, rather than normal, which is unfortunately a common theme throughout Western civilized history because people are idiots.
You blew him and fucked him Hahaha what you mean that's full on togetherness shit right there
then face the consequences. your problem not ours
Relationships are a contract. There are rules in contracts. Funny how that fell apart for you pretty fast! You just don't want to admit that being in a relationship means you have responsibilities. Sorry that's not how things work. You get a girl and she goes and screws 10 guys behind your back but she doesn't tell you... You don't find out but she has now opened you up to the stds and other infections of these men and thier sexual partners before... So yeah, there ARE rules, between you and the person your in a relationship with. If you ignore them, your not in a relationship, your just a liar.
@lastchancemotel... A contract. You're serious. Okay? Well, enjoy not having any freedom once you sign that alleged "contract."
This is why marriage licenses have to be... *Gasp!* signed! If the woman is that special, hell yes. If you don't believe in marriage, because the only difference is your saying they can now punish you for it? You shouldn't bother lying to someone, just stop.
@lastchancemotel Fascinating. Continue.
A relationship is a verbal contract between 2 people, the rules of said contract are in general unspoken unless discussed between the 2 parties (ie. Open relationships) upon marriage the couple officially recognizes the relationship under the law of the state to give legal basis to decisions made in benefit and and against both parties under the understanding that entering into this agreement both parties are involving their entire lives and should be seen as one unit, regardless what the rules of the contract between the 2 are. Which is why in most states adultery must be charged by the other person in marriage and is held up (with proof) unless it was already agreed upon, in which case it would be thrown out of criminal court.
@lastchancemotel Yes, yes, go on
That's it. If your in relationship and you do something that effects each other without knowledge from the other party you have breached the contract "cheated the rules." Although most people only use the term cheated in reference to extra-relation sexual activities, due to the fact that it's where most people draw the line in relationships between friend and more. If you have moved to friends with benefits the only thing you are required by these rules (by the social norms) is to let the other party of the situation know of any possible stds. (Guess what... It's a legal thing too)
@lastchancemotel I still don't understand, please continue
Then just Google the laws behind verbal contracts, cross reference the laws of marriage and adultery, look up legal cases and state laws (cause like Georgia, a woman leaves a marriage with as much as she went in with, regardless of why the divorce is happening). But to end it comes down to, you haven't obviously had that trust broken to an extent that you could ever claim any level of emotional co-dependancy or you regularly break that trust yourself and you will never understand in which case, because you don't care to be held responsible for someone else's feelings. This is a personal issue for you if you don't see the problem with cheating on your wife or girlfriend, and you should be ashamed for being so willing to hurt someone else, these are psychopathic tendencies, they don't make us stronger, just less human.
@lastchancemotel You know a lot about this, tell me more
"omg why can't I go party, you don't trust me!"
example A
I am disgusted. you can't trust these thotties
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You nasty ass cheating ho bag sluty bitch. Tell him if you respect him at all. Then I hope he leaves your sorry cheating ass
Yes tell him so he can find someone who is more faithful
im faithful it was just a drunk mistake
No that's no excuse. You fucked up and have to tell him. Don't lie
YOU SAY YOU LOVE HIM BUT IF YOU DID YOU WOULDVE STAYED YO ASS HOME LOL BITCHES ain't SHIT You are less than life
I’m not even going to read the detail
Yes tell him
but the detail is important, its why im considering not telling him
It's always better to be honest and open. Tell him. I would like to know it.
If you have redirect and care for him, you will tell him
You did a mistake when you cheated if you didn't tell him this will be the second mistake
Tell him, if it was me on his place i would want to know. And then i would break up with you
You're such a narcissist.
no im not
Yes you really are.
thats so mean, why would you say that? i dont deserve this treatmeant
Nah, your boyfriend didn't deserve to get cheated on. You definitely deserve this treatment.