Hey there! I actually relate. But I've had this happen with multiple guys. The first guys I ended up breaking up with for other reasons, but the guy I'm with now I 've been with for over a year. He's amazing but I usually don't feel the magical sparks, butterflies, or whatever when we kiss. (I'm quite sure it's also because one or both of us just aren't good kissers lmao.) But real talk, I think you should tell him and see if he feels the same, and have a chat about it and eventually decide if you guys work together or if this really is a sign of not enough chemistry.
I can honestly relate with this but I found that maybe I didn’t feel the chemistry between me and him but maybe you should try and talk to him about it in a non- attacking way cause maybe he’s not fulfilling what you want, that sounds complicated but I think you get what I mean.
Definitely, it helped us learn to know the real person first, and not just fall in love with the physical aspects of them. It also made it feel way more special.
I’ve had this before. It honestly is because you just don’t have the chemistry. My new boyfriend, when we first kissed it was honestly something I’ll never forget.
Do you still have sex with him? Do. you enjoy sex with him? During sex do. you like kissing? Some people do think kissing is pointless, I usually don't get any feeling from kissing either basically I use it as a way to show a girl that I really like her let her know that I like her and want to see her more or I use it to have her shut up and take her clothes off lol
I don’t think it’s something major... unless I’m missing oout on stuff. Sometimes I feel like my heart stops for a second when I kiss my boyfriend but not always
That is being close and sensitive - lips are one of the most sensitive spots of human body If you are close with ur partner and touch a tender spot somewhere else then nobodys there to judge you
My ex have told me she loves kissing and so she had enjoyed it. Ok. I didn't feel enything except touching my lips to hers, oh her tongue too and some teeths... i love her and still do - not dramatically but still love her.
Time for a new boyfriend. Don't waste his nor your time.
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Wtf are you expecting to feel? What do you think life is a movie and every time you kiss, your life goes to a cutscene with fireworks going off? Grow up woman
No you can love someone but not have physical attraction towards them , as you can fall in love with a very ugly guy because of his personality but when it comes to physical stuff it's a different matter
Hmm. That sounds like my first kiss. Thing is, she didn't actually love me and just wanted to have fun, and I didn't have much of any feelings for her yet either.
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