I don’t feel anything when I kiss my boyfriend, why?

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We have been dating for 2 months now but I don’t really feel nothing special when we kiss...

viviannine76 · Accepted Answer

Hey there! I actually relate. But I've had this happen with multiple guys. The first guys I ended up breaking up with for other reasons, but the guy I'm with now I 've been with for over a year. He's amazing but I usually don't feel the magical sparks, butterflies, or whatever when we kiss. (I'm quite sure it's also because one or both of us just aren't good kissers lmao.) But real talk, I think you should tell him and see if he feels the same, and have a chat about it and eventually decide if you guys work together or if this really is a sign of not enough chemistry.

Musiclover10009 · Accepted Answer

I can honestly relate with this but I found that maybe I didn’t feel the chemistry between me and him but maybe you should try and talk to him about it in a non- attacking way cause maybe he’s not fulfilling what you want, that sounds complicated but I think you get what I mean.

genericname85 · Accepted Answer

that's a very hard judgement for someone who doesn't know either of you. could be cause your expectations are just above what is normal. could be cause there's no affection.  impossible to tell.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

My girlfriend and I built up the relationship emotionally first and didn't kiss for the first two months, so it became much more special.

Genie23 · Answer

*There's no chemistry *No affection or- *he's a bad kisser lol

Hazey · Answer

I’ve had this before. It honestly is because you just don’t have the chemistry.  My new boyfriend, when we first kissed it was honestly something I’ll never forget.

Finchie40 · Answer

Do you still have sex with him? Do. you enjoy sex with him? During sex do. you like kissing? Some people do think kissing is pointless, I usually don't get any feeling from kissing either basically I use it as a way to show a girl that I really like her let her know that I like her and want to see her more or I use it to have her shut up and take her clothes off lol

Imme330 · Answer

If you're not feeling anything when you're kissing him if you need to end it because there's nothing there

Pamina · Answer

Sounds like you like him more as a friend than as a romantic partner.

Malita55 · Answer

You most likely don’t have emotional connection with him. Or he’s a bad kisser lol

Adeline_Ash · Answer

I don’t think it’s something major... unless I’m missing oout on stuff. Sometimes I feel like my heart stops for a second when I kiss my boyfriend but not always

SparklingNight · Answer

Do you feel like it's a good feeling but no butterflies? Or does it provide no positive feelings whatsoever?

Avallach · Answer

That is being close and sensitive - lips are one of the most sensitive spots of human body If you are close with ur partner and touch a tender spot somewhere else then nobodys there to judge you

Anonymous · Answer

Wtf are you expecting to feel? What do you think life is a movie and every time you kiss, your life goes to a cutscene with fireworks going off? Grow up woman

MustangGT350 · Answer

My ex have told me she loves kissing and so she had enjoyed it. Ok. I didn't feel enything except touching my lips to hers, oh her tongue too and some teeths... i love her and still do - not dramatically but still love her.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Time for a new boyfriend. Don't waste his nor your time.

Lea96 · Answer

- You are not physically attracted to him - There is no chemistry  - You think you love him but you don't  - You are asexual

TheBestUsername · Answer

Hmm. That sounds like my first kiss. Thing is, she didn't actually love me and just wanted to have fun, and I didn't have much of any feelings for her yet either.

Bananaman177 · Answer

How much does being on artificial hormones affect your feelings?

pasoccer · Answer

Either lack of chemistry, or he's a bad kisser, or you're just not into kissing.

mamamia92 · Answer

Why don't you feel like a camestry any more inbettwine both of you hun x

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Maybe you're not an overly emotional kisser? As in you don't get turned on by kissing?

Anon-ymous1 · Answer

Why are you asking us? We can't answer that for you.

PolitesaurusPecs · Answer

How could anyone besides you know the answer to this?

ooAngieoo · Answer

probably no chemistry

Anonymous · Answer

It could be that you've gotten out of the "honey moon" phase of the relationship very quickly. It could also be one of those two options

nosh27 · Answer

Why are you still with him is the question you should be asking your self?

chad003 · Answer

you need a new guy. and also need to be horny when you kiss

azzntittiz · Answer

Maybe because it's not a Disney movie.

BOUNTYGUY9 · Answer

get a new guy or girl

Anonymous · Answer

you don't have chemistry

LuWe22 · Answer

Kissing don’t feel special ever

thottiana · Answer

The two options are literally the same

NucDylan · Answer

Have you felt something with other guys before?

ryanne · Answer

people only feel when they kiss in movies

fuzzylamba · Answer

I think you meant to say, I don't feel anything.

Anonymous · Answer

Do you have emotional numbness?

Anonymous · Answer

maybe you're kissing the wrong head?

nickdell · Answer

You've been kissed too many times

ahmedjals · Answer

There is no chemical reactions between you

Kifer · Answer

Both options.

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