Where would you draw the line with friends of the opposite gender when in a relationship? (Page 2)
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If i did have an opposite vender friend.. I would draw the line if he talks about my body, if he tries to get me to break up , if he talks bas about my boyfriend etc
Not bas but bad
I would particularly drawn the line at the going to each other´s house , but i think staying at the opposite gender for the night could potentially be dangerous specially if the other person gave some hints of being interested.
All fine depending on the situation. It's hard to have a blanket this is acceptable, this isn't mindset because every person is different
I've never understood the logic behind not having friends of the opposite gender when you're in a relationship? Like, why? Sounds like you're isolating yourself from the world. Lame.
I picked "all of these are fine", because they are.
Everything except staying the night there would be fine, if I knew him well and I knew that it was just friendly.. some guys pretend to be friendly just to get close and I realize the rebuttle to that is well it doesn't matter if she doesn't want that. K fine but doesn't mean I have to trust this person alone with my women when I know he's up to no good
They were ur friends b4 & unfortunately poss after. If he can't take u & the way u r towards others then he's not completely happy with u & maybe implement a case where u slip away from ur friendships through that. Talk frankly with him & be open & honest , see what he has 2 say it may or may not be written in the stars. Hope it goes well whatever you decide.
Hanging out in groups is fine. They shouldn't be making new opposite gender friends once in a relationship.
It really depends on the friend and even more on relationship. For me tge line is formulated like this - i dont do anything i would have to hide from my partner.
I think that they are all fine lol When you both know that you are just friends then I don't see anything wrong with it...
all are fine. guy friends are the same as girl friends. as long as you both want to be JUST friends
Um, don't cheat. Two people of the opposite sex can just be purely friends. All of the options listed are fine.
all of it is fine so long as the relationship is platonic
going to each other's houses alone. I would draw the line there
Depends on the mood and situation, sometimes talk breezily, other times as seductively as possible.
If you’re just friends why should it matter? Why control them because you’re insecure?
As long as you're no kissing or being overly affectionate (like close cuddling, sleeping in the same bed, kissing, etc) it's all fine
If you are not cheating on your SO everything here is perfectly fine. The line is when you start cheating.
All of these are fine.
BUT you may care about managing your SO's feelings or insecurities if any.
Hanging out 1 on 1 and going to each other's houses is a recipe for disaster. Ultimately, if your significant other is uncomfortable with what you're doing then you shouldn't do it.
I don't draw the line. I enjoy the company of women under any circumstance. They can friend or lover I never get tired of their company !!!