The second guy was my guy friends brother. He didn’t want to go anywhere with me and I found him quite boring. Him and I still get along.
So both of these “relationships” were very uneventful and I don’t like to count them as relationships but they did have the relationship label.
What do you think? Do they count as relationships?
Most Helpful Girl
Relationships can count in your youth as you learn about relationships and yourself.
However, what you described was not a relationship. If you feel nothing for the other person other than friendship, it’s not a relationship. If you feel nothing at all and it was a blind date, it was a blind date gone wrong. The problem with youth is there is never the status of dating, everyone jumps to being bf/gf (or any combo). I can even begin to count the “boyfriends” I had for one horrible date in highs school. They were failed dates. I don’t count them as anything more. But I do recognize my relationship in highschool and younger as (albeit awkward) relationships.
Most Helpful Guy
Yes, but they are unlikely to last. They can be considered practice