Texting girls between dates - how often should I?

[ap1100]

How much texting should one do between dates? For example, after a first or second date, there will be seven days before the next date. I'll typically call once during this time, but text more often. I don't want to play games but I wonder if texting every day isn't a bit much. On the other hand, I don't want to be clingy like I have nothing going on.

[acubed25]

I'm one of those weird girls that doesn't think a guy iis creepy if he texts just to say hey everyday. But generally it seems like every other day or two is good for most girls. A lot of girls these days don't know how to appreciate a sweet guy or express exactly what they're hoping to get from a guy. There's a lot of immaturity and game playing that goes on but the females out there who have a clue and don't still act like they're still in high school are definately worth the effort.

[CharlotteXO]

I like it if the guy I'm seeing to text me once a day... even with a simple "hey, thinking about you. Looking forward to Friday." Just to touch base.

I think every, every other day is fine. As long as you're not doing the One Word Text conversations.

[ap1100]

Does the "thinking of you" really work after one date? Or two? It seems a bit clingy and stalker-ish to me. I'm not opposed to being nice, like making sure she got home safely, but I'm wondering if that really works?

[Littletad]

Keep it casual. One text every 2-3 days. If she initiates a conversation, keep it going. Just don't bombard her with texts when you're just dating.

[foolycooly1001]

text her when you want

[ap1100]

Good answer. But for some guys I've known, that's every 5 minutes. Not attractive. Some guys need to tweak "what they want" to be successful.

[foolycooly1001]

A woman should be able to tell you if you do something wrong to warn you.

[ap1100]

Explain. You mean a woman will say "you're being too clingy, but stop it and I'll give you another chance?" I thought women put guys on ice the second they found somebody better, got bored, or felt "uncomfortable".

[foolycooly1001]

They should be able to. if they don't, they're idiots

[ap1100]

Maybe I'm misunderstanding, but I don't think I've ever seen that. I've been on dates where the girl is making out with me, holding me, and asking when we meet up again, only to vanish after three more days of texting.

[foolycooly1001]

Yeah, they're bitches.

[ap1100]

Better to know early.

[foolycooly1001]

Maybe a girl could tell you more about how often to text. I don't play games.