Because i'm an adult, with a very direct approach to most things. Especially involving where my precious finite time is spent. Relationship isn't going anywhere, end it! Why continue the cycle of shitty jaded people in the dating world?
well yeah obviously but this is what we're evolving to as decency, intelligence, knowledge and proper behavior is not needed anymore in todays society. every animal will only develop skills that are vital for it's survival. as things become less vital, we don't continue using those strategies anymore.
Possibly. In the way technology is going, we'll have machines work so that takes more problems away. It seems that most technological advancements are from problems and then they don't have to deal with them. Online dating developed for solving the problem of finding someone ASAP and now they can do so easily. Once it gets to be bad, there is someone to replace them.
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It's a disrespectful and crappy thing to do, unless the person is offensive, a catfish/scammer, or you feel they are dangerous.
You've never read much classic literature, have you? Men used to ghost women all the time!
It's the new norm. You kinda expected it from guys n girls under 25. A guy just ghosted his job last week. Imagine his love life lol.
ghosting sucks but its not the end of civilization, take it easy
Maybe it's the beginning of the end?
calm down drama queen
That contact over the internet with people you never met is impersonal.
Ghosting has been happening for centuries. Just now it has a new name
It isn't that serious. More so than not people get ghosted by someone they barely know.
Maybe sometimes ghosting certain people is the right thing to do?
That's a new freaking word, I have never heard😁😁😂😂😂
That relasionships are just as easy to this away paper cup to some people
It only says something about the person ghosting, not about society as a whole.
The fact that it's so common does. It wouldn't have because so well known if it wasn't seen as normal.
If a person doesn't ghost, why should the fact that other people do say anything about that person?
It doesn't say anything about individuals. It says something about society as a whole.
People who don't do it and never would, are the same people telling me all time, "that's just how things are these days".
But the individuals who don't ghost are still part of society. Ghosting only says something about those who do so.
Nothing at all. Modern society have way much terrible stuff to worry about lol
Lack of empathy... being superficial is now the trend...
People are passive aggressive cunts?
Have you ever ghosted someone?
No. frtcds
Why not?
Because i'm an adult, with a very direct approach to most things. Especially involving where my precious finite time is spent. Relationship isn't going anywhere, end it! Why continue the cycle of shitty jaded people in the dating world?
They end it by ghosting. It's a really fast time efficient approach. So would you maybe use it in the future?
people can't stand confrontation anymore.
Isn't it a form of decency?
well yeah obviously but this is what we're evolving to as decency, intelligence, knowledge and proper behavior is not needed anymore in todays society. every animal will only develop skills that are vital for it's survival. as things become less vital, we don't continue using those strategies anymore.
Yes that is what I am afraid of too. They act like they still live in a jungle.
It means people are cowards
People try to avoid confrontation
People are insecure and scared.
It says we have technology.
So you think it's a normal thing to do?
Yes.
Interesting, thanks.
People don't want to deal with problems.
Yes. Does this say something about the future of our society?
Possibly. In the way technology is going, we'll have machines work so that takes more problems away. It seems that most technological advancements are from problems and then they don't have to deal with them. Online dating developed for solving the problem of finding someone ASAP and now they can do so easily. Once it gets to be bad, there is someone to replace them.