Either go in with the intention of paying, or let your intentions be known BEFORE you get to the restaurant. Both are acceptable.
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depends if its a mutual liking then split it if not the women will let the man pay
feminism don't want equality they want to take over society. the moment a guy brings up the dating bill feminist instantly say the man should pay always.
My first date was a movie with my boyfriend and he paid for everything
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I’m a woman , and I would appreciate if he’ll offer to pay , that’s a plus points for me but at the end I’ll always ask to split it , but I won’t remember him offering
That’s totally fine i am not asking you to go out with me and i get plenty of girls even ones like you lol all i am saying is thats what most men would do. Men have an instinct to hunt and provide take that away from him and you take away his manhood.
Oh look here is your white knight lmfao and whats so cringy about that? I am just being honest unless thats just salt i smell coming from you? (; I mean don’t worry bud if you beg and white knight on your knees long enough a girl will one day have pity on you and take your virginity away lmfao
@vald9inches What does this have anything to do with white knighting you imbecile. Or do you just throw around buzzwords because you have nothing else to say? If you dont know why, what you said was cringe, i have nothing else to tell you.
Its obvious you are running to her protection because she is so obviously helpless and needs you to defend her even though our conversation had absolutely zero to do with you lmfao and yea I don’t need your lousy explanation as to why its cringy because I know and everyone else here knows that you are just whit knighting and salty af with your micro 1” inch baby dick and frustrated you can’t get laid and lose your virginity lmfao
@vald9inches "Its obvious you are running to her protection because she is so obviously helpless and needs you to defend her ". Man, and i thought women overthink too much. Cringe, bro. Also seems like i hit a nerve
@SngBirdy wow is that really all you got? you dont have any other better comebacks other than qouting what i said and saying its cringy? there was zero overthinking this it was pure simple math 1+1=2 but whatever dude you are seriously trying way to hard here with your pathetic attempts to get me mad and everyone here can see it too lmfao but good luck losing your virginity kid ;)
@vald9inches "better comebacks ". Oh, you belong to those people who see the internet as a battleground. How many internet arguments have you won today? Im also quite impressed if i can say that. I was certain i was talking to a 16 year old until i saw your age. Its hard to stay this immature for such a long period of time. Thats a achievment in itself.
@SngBirdy lmfao hey congratulations!! you actually stood up for yourself!! we are making progress here! my friend life is a battleground weather on the internet or in real life if you don't back your shit up you are going to look weak in the eyes of everyone doesn't matter what kind of platform you are on. that little tip is on me ;)
@vald9inches I dont need to back anything up. You are cringe, immature and you are making a fool of yourself, and thats very obvious to anyone who has eyes. You do all the backing for me already. Thats my last post.
I know that some cars are lemons, some stocks fall, and some teams lose the game. If you never take a risk you never get the reward. Paying for a meal for someone is worth the opportunity for a long term relationship. I know some women do that, but I also know most don't.
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Split the bill on the first few dates, if your an average guy.
If you're a man and you got the money, splitting the bill - ever - is a shameful thing and wouldn't even cross the mind.
split it-it shows both can be just as committed as the other
Either go in with the intention of paying, or let your intentions be known BEFORE you get to the restaurant. Both are acceptable.
depends if its a mutual liking then split it if not the women will let the man pay
feminism don't want equality they want to take over society. the moment a guy brings up the dating bill feminist instantly say the man should pay always.
Just pay... what does it matter... its just food., if you're taking her out on a date, come on. Let her enjoy the evening.☺
I don't mind paying on a first date. But then we aren't going to a fancy restaurant on a first date either. FIrst date is to learn about each other.
whoever is richer should pay. I hop eI will pay everyone's bill. I mean I hope I will be the richest one.
Always split on the first date.
That way, no chance of being taken advantage of, and if the date doesn't go well, well no one feels cheated.
My first date was a movie with my boyfriend and he paid for everything
I’m a woman , and I would appreciate if he’ll offer to pay , that’s a plus points for me but at the end I’ll always ask to split it , but I won’t remember him offering
Duh, the man should pay. He's taking her on a date, she's not taking him on one.
It wouldn't feel right to me if she paid. i was raised old school.
Whoever invited pays. Simple.
And when has a woman ever asked a man out on a first date...
For my part, all the time. Don't know what rock you're living under, but come out, times have changed 😑
He is right though. That rarely ever happens to any guy.
I don't doubt that it rarely happens. But with the right woman, it happens on a regular basis
That won’t really work because no man will ever agree to have a girl pay for his meal
@vald9inches WRONG. If he persists on it, many man will give up and let her do it.
Thats up to his discretion but most would refuse that
Don't worry, we don't wanna go out with you either if you won't let us pay
That’s totally fine i am not asking you to go out with me and i get plenty of girls even ones like you lol all i am saying is thats what most men would do. Men have an instinct to hunt and provide take that away from him and you take away his manhood.
@vald9inches " i am not asking you to go out with me and i get plenty of girls even ones like you lol ".
Cringe
Oh look here is your white knight lmfao and whats so cringy about that? I am just being honest unless thats just salt i smell coming from you? (; I mean don’t worry bud if you beg and white knight on your knees long enough a girl will one day have pity on you and take your virginity away lmfao
@vald9inches What does this have anything to do with white knighting you imbecile.
Or do you just throw around buzzwords because you have nothing else to say?
If you dont know why, what you said was cringe, i have nothing else to tell you.
Its obvious you are running to her protection because she is so obviously helpless and needs you to defend her even though our conversation had absolutely zero to do with you lmfao and yea I don’t need your lousy explanation as to why its cringy because I know and everyone else here knows that you are just whit knighting and salty af with your micro 1” inch baby dick and frustrated you can’t get laid and lose your virginity lmfao
@vald9inches
"Its obvious you are running to her protection because she is so obviously helpless and needs you to defend her ".
Man, and i thought women overthink too much. Cringe, bro.
Also seems like i hit a nerve
@SngBirdy wow is that really all you got? you dont have any other better comebacks other than qouting what i said and saying its cringy? there was zero overthinking this it was pure simple math 1+1=2 but whatever dude you are seriously trying way to hard here with your pathetic attempts to get me mad and everyone here can see it too lmfao but good luck losing your virginity kid ;)
@vald9inches "better comebacks ". Oh, you belong to those people who see the internet as a battleground. How many internet arguments have you won today?
Im also quite impressed if i can say that. I was certain i was talking to a 16 year old until i saw your age.
Its hard to stay this immature for such a long period of time. Thats a achievment in itself.
@SngBirdy lmfao hey congratulations!! you actually stood up for yourself!! we are making progress here! my friend life is a battleground weather on the internet or in real life if you don't back your shit up you are going to look weak in the eyes of everyone doesn't matter what kind of platform you are on. that little tip is on me ;)
@vald9inches I dont need to back anything up. You are cringe, immature and you are making a fool of yourself, and thats very obvious to anyone who has eyes.
You do all the backing for me already. Thats my last post.
@SngBirdy lmfao ok sure kid whatever helps you sleep at night lol
Realize you're one of a kind, the vast majority of girls won't ask. Times have changed, but this hasn't.
its the 21st century, but I still believe that a man should pay for the 1st date
If the man takes the woman out, the man should pay. It's not that big of a big deal.
always always always split the bill until the relationship becomes official
If girls wanna be like "MEN should do this or that" then she better be lady like and feminine herself.
I'd prefer to split, personally
Split it it’s not 1930
I completely agree with Steve. As he said, real men already know they will pay on the first date.
But you do know that some women just go on first dates to get free meals and then never talk to you again right?
I know that some cars are lemons, some stocks fall, and some teams lose the game. If you never take a risk you never get the reward. Paying for a meal for someone is worth the opportunity for a long term relationship. I know some women do that, but I also know most don't.