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Money does matter but is not the defining item. I like a woman who is able to take care of herself. Not rich but not broke living paycheck to paycheck. They may not be bad people but I don't want to hear about how you can't get your car fixed or the rent is late. Self reliant may be the best word. Of course if she has a house, boat, nice car, good clothes I could date her as well.
Love is what is important at the end money is nothing as long as you are with the person who you can see yourself with forever that is beautiful. That is wealth to me
It would dependon why they were poor but if it was a good reason i wouldn't mind and if they were roch i think itd be kind of awkward tbh but it wouldn't be really a problem
I don't want to know anything about her money, her debt, I don't want a joined account and I don't even want to live together. LoL!
Been there done that.
I just in it for the love. : )
If she can contribute at least $350 to $400 per month towards the mortgage, utilities, etc. and pays for her own transportation, clothes, entertainment, etc. then that is good enough for me.
If she had too much money, my main concern would be if she thought she was better than others just because of money and treated other people badly because of it.
I don't think most women care about the MONEY, they like a man who is intelligent, hard working and capable. If you rank high in these three characteristics then you probably also have some money so it may appear as if most women want a man with money.
Finally, someone understands!
I just want someone who can support me even if it’s on the low end
I would never date anyone because I was after their money.
Nor would I ever date any one that was after mine.
As long as they work, have an education and are not lazy, I don’t mind how “rich” the person is. It doesn’t mean anything about their personality and how interesting they can be.
Yeah, if you have a job that requires you to be working 60 hours a week and live in a big bustling city then unfortunately I’m not interested. That rules out most wealthy people. I’m not into that lifestyle. I want family.
No. Money doesn't help happiness. If things get tough and push come to shove my partner needs to be able to roll with the punches or she will be dismissed. I can't fight for you if you can't fight for yourself
No. I married a girl from a family who weren't poor, but had far less money than mine, and it was fun showing her the finer things in life. We've been married for 53 years.
Now that I’m young I wouldn’t care at all, but in the future I would date a man only if he was at least wealthy.
I mean, if we could have nice vacations, a car, allow our children to do the activity they want and so on.
So nothing exaggerated, but we should have the money that allow a normal life
I wouldn't so much unless she was in major debt. She has to be worth it.
I do however believe women care how wealthy a person should be because I worked in a lot of low paying jobs and nearly every woman treated me like I didn't exist. They always had a boyfriend paying everything for them. I was just their entertainment.
A guy with a stable job and comfortable income is attractive. A guy with no job and no stability is not attractive. I'd rather date someone with no money than too much though. Money spoils people.
Hey do you like Dr Pepper?
What has that question got to do with any of this?
No I don't
Because if the dude hates Dr. Pepper then you guys are have things in common. My massage is date people that share same ideas as you. For example a Mormon will never date a Jewish for example.
For your information, I'm dating a guy without any income at all. I only have relationships with people I like. I'm just being honest. If I was in a situation where I had two guys asking me out that I get on with equal amounts I will go for the guy who is more stable. It's better to think logically before getting into any relationship, if you don't it is destined to fail eventually.
I don't care. I'm poor as dirt so I think dating someone with much more money than me wouldn't work anyway.
Well you actually aren't that poor. Also it doesn't matter. How do you have that phone and internet...
OK, poor for western Europe standards
I'm still on a grad's salary, so I want my fiancée to be able to take care of herself financially, at least until I am advanced enough career wise.
All he needs is to be able to afford a family decently and that's it. I don't believe you need a lot of money for that especially if you know how to spend money wisely, but it does depend from country to country.
I don't expect him to be rich, but make enough to take care of himself. If I can do it, so should my partner. Unless for a very good reason.
Not really.
As long as my date is self-sufficient and independent, able to pay off his expenses, able to afford simple luxuries such as watching movies, occasional concerts and not borrowing from me for everything, that is fine with me.