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If a girl ask you "what are we" does that mean she wants a relationship? (Page 2)
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Could be. Could also be that's she's just a manipulator and wants to know how you see what's between you to know how to manipulate you more effectively.
Always keep your guard up man. Know her motivations behind her questions.
It means she wants to have a long boring talk about your relationship. She also wants to you to stop finishing inside her.
She probably wants to know the status of your relationship, whether you're a couple or only friends with benefits and what she means for you.
😂😂😂😂
Nice name & cat.
Are you dating her exclusively? If yes, let her know
Maybe she wants to take the relationship to the next level we need confirmation before taking it to the next step we need assurance so we don’t make a fool of ourself
why spent time if he’s not worth it
Well it means she wants to put a word on the "we" and know what she means to the guy in questions. She wants to know where this person's interest lies and whether it is worthwhile to continue on this way or just move on.
No. She’s just asking you how you feel. If just friends, fine. If dating, fine.
Not necessarily she could just be confused about why you treat her a certain way.
It just means the relationship is too complicated and she doesn’t know where she stands I've asked guys that when i was confused if we are dating and i should be loyal or if they are just having fun and i should move on to other men
She want to know if you are considering her as girlfriend and if yes, move away and afar
Yes, it means that, of course. because a girl doesn't ask this out of the blue, I think she's feeling something and she's in love
No that means she's trying to define what it is that you have. Women like to know what kind of relationship is it
It's a test to see if there is a future or if she's just wasting her time.
She either wants tou to be her boyfriend or she is genuinly posing it about the relationship. 😸
Um what? If you are dating her that means you are her boyfriend. 🤔 I don’t get you guys.
Not necessarily
Yes necessarily. That’s what dating is.
there's a difference between dating and being in a relationship. Dating you’re trying to find someone compatible and get to know each other. you're NOT EXCLUSIVE. A relationship implies exclusivity and therefore, a boyfriend/girlfriend label. I’ve been dating a guy 9 months. he's not my boyfriend. But we aren’t seeing other people by choice despite the option being there. WE HAve no relationship. So no dating does not make you boyfriend/girlfriend.
No there isn’t. There’s no such thing as dating around, you can talk to different people, but you are not dating them unless you are in a relationship. N yea then you aren’t dating that guy, you are seeing him. I don’t know why you would call that dating.
Umm not at all. People go on dates before getting into relationships. To figure out compatibility. Websites and apps are called DATING apps and sites, not relationship apps. You don’t end up in a relationship with everyone you go on a date or even several dates with. By your logic, everyone in a relationship is married. Dating and relationships are two separate things. You don’t have a relationship with someone you are dating until you both agree for it to be more than just that. You are not boyfriend and girlfriend until a relationship has been established and you absolutely can date more than than one person at a time. You’ll learn this as you grow older and mature a bit.
They are dating apps and sites so you can get into a relationship. Dating and messing around are two different things. Simple.
AND AGAIN dating does not make you boyfriend and girlfriend. But based on your last response you seem to realize I’m right. Glad you’re Learning.
No you are wrong. What I said doesn’t correlate with what you said in any way.
You are not boyfriend and girlfriend until you are no a relationship. You are not in a relationship until you both agree you are making each other official. A relationship is the step after dating. You date to see if you would be compatible as a couple. Then you agree to be a couple. You don’t become a couple with every person that you date either. You are not in a relationship with every person you go date with. BY your logic, you’re already a couple simply because you are about to have a first date.
If you are dating someone you are in a relationship. It’s very simple. Very simple. Believe what you want 🤷♀️
You’re just a teenybopper who doesn’t really have much experience with this stuff. But you’ll learn as you grow older what the difference is, and you’ll remember this conversation and realize just how young and ignorant you were on the subject. Enjoy that day.
But let me ask you, are you in a relationship with every person you sleep with? Even one night stands? FWB?
That day won’t happen for me to enjoy it. I know what I’m talking about. N obviously no that’s something different.
You think you know what you’re talking about. And I don’t blame you for thinking that way. But you’re a teenager. You dont have experience yet and your lack of response to my last question proves your innocent ignorance. You’ll learn one day that you are so far from wrong
You can tell me how much experience I have. Anyway, I know I’m right.
If ur under 20 dont get serious just hit it and quit it no matter what she says trust me
She is wondering what type of relationship this is, and wants certainty.
It means she has no idea what's going on. And... she's clingy AF
It usually does
Label may matter to her. It's a trap. She want to name it. Mostly girlfriend.
Yeah. She wants a title. Go ahead and call her your girlfriend
As soon as you stop dating anyone else and are exclusive to one girl then she is your girlfriend by default.
Yeah, she does. But I agree, it's a bit early and rushed
No it means she wants to know where she stands with you
Yes it means she wants to be in a relationship with you and wants you to say it!
You are probably shy and she wants things to be official.
she might just wanna know if you're excluisve or not
She wants to know where she stands with you and what intentions you might have in the future
Lmao ig yes, but would have meant exactly opposite if u were already in a relationship 😂😂
They want to be your girlfriend and in a relationship
Women love to define shit and can’t handle just letting things be what they are.
"Letting things be what they are".. But what are they? Thats the question. Not everyone is on the same page in life. And it's not fair to assume. It's just a simple question and if it can't be answered then why would a girl waste her time for a boy who can't seem to figure it out. We aren't on stand by. However, the girl that doesn't ask this question isn't so serious herself because any girl who is committed would want to know. And honestly a guy would want to know too if he was committed to the girl if the roles were reversed. Just saying 😊
@kellbell2190 If you try to nail it down to a title, it will dissolve completely.
Nothing makes a guy vanish faster than a female trying desperately to leash him.
Women seem to assume "her plan" and "her time" is the only important thing in the world.
I hate when a girl says "Why would I waste my time with a guy who..." You are not a prize, you are not some important gift that we should be lucky to have. You are just another person, just like we are and your time and effort does not hold any more value simply because you have a vagina and think that it grants you the power to control or dictate another person's life.
If a commitment is something you expect from the start it should have been laid out at the start, but most females don't do that. They generally just get involved and think that sex will somehow make him want more from her. Then when it doesn't she gets upset. Don't be so vague with your intentions early on and then it won't be a massive deal later.
"Don't be so vague with your intentions early on and then it won't be a massive deal later". I agree with that. Expectations lead to heartbreak. And I do also agree with "nothing makes a guy vanish faster than a female trying desperately to leash him". Desperately is definitely the key word. When someone feels you "need" them to be happy its a huuuuge turnoff. And when someone feels you're trying to lock them down. But depending on the scenario the girl may never have intentions to cage the guy, she may just be developing stronger feelings and wants to know if she should just wash her hands of it and move on if she feels it isn't going anywhere.
I dont think girls have any power over men. Everyone deserves to be treated with respect, and especially in a relationship. Guys are just as deserving of all things they do for their girls. We dont get to just collect and call all the shots. I can see where you may think that because some girls may act that way, but not all girls are like that.
@kellbell2190 That's one of the most common misconceptions females have. If women knew the actual power they have over men, they would not be able to contain the mind fuck it would cause. Men die for women, men fight for women, men do everything in our power for women... women are the reason we do anything. Women are the case of our biggest accomplishments and greatest defeats. Women are our drug. We crave women like women crave shopping or chocolate.
Women can't conceptualize just how powerful they are over us. You make us stupid, literally. We actually lose our ability to think rationally. We are also terrified of you because you hold so much power to destroy us with a simple word.
You actually do get to call the shots, generally speaking, in a relationship or when it comes to sex. Basically, sex is a tool you use to get us to do things or reward us for doing things you want us to do.
I don't know a girl who wouldn't enjoy reading your post. You make some good points. I suppose its how a girl uses that "power" that defines her?
Not meaning to throw out the "define" word haha. But I couldn't bring my guy to his knees just "because I could". In a negative way.
How is it not the friendzone if nothing has been defined
People who are friendzoned dont hook up and go on dates right
If someone has to ask what they are that seems like the friend zone to me cause obviously it’s not indicated that one person or the other isn’t reciprocating feelings
Not necessarily, she wants clarification
She just wants to know where she stands.
Either that or she's having an existential crisis.
Yes 7 weeks is plenty of time to know that or not
Dude its been 7 weeks, what are you waiting for?
You obviously don’t know what dating means. Smh.
Do you? Dating doesn't automatically mean your in a relationship or being exclusive.
So what does it mean? lmaoo oh no I feel bad for her.
That your seeing if your compatible and could have a future together. You can't just jump right into it.
No offense but the adult world isn't like it is in high school. In high school those who are couples usually been talking for a good while and gotten to know each other before hand. After school most people who date started of as strangers. So you need time to get to know each other before you commit.
As an adult you think long term not just something that last a couple weeks or months. Most high schoolers are impulsive and just want a boo that's why most hardly last longer then a couple months.
We are human people *whrrrr* *kachunk*
she wouldn't ask if she wasn't interested in more.
Ugh I really don't like when people ask that😒
@LuvAsh Lmao why not?
She's just trying to flirt u..
tell her we are whatever we want us to be
Sure. It all depends.
I think she wants to define the relationship.
Dating a friend for 7 days? Sure.
Testing the waters
It means its tike to dump her
I 'd be ready to get married after 7 weeks
Sounds like she is interested in you!
Yes.
Just tell her that we are shit
Yes, most likely.
Yup she does
Yes, good going.
I think so
She want reassurance
Year old question
She wants you
Friends
Yes.
Good luck.