I have a strong preferance for white men, ever since boys no longer had cooties. White men have been very sweet to me and not shy about asking me out.
A common thing is the arousal about my mocha skin tone, full lips, "strong" figure, and firm temperment. Likewise, I am very aroused by the vanilla skin, beautiful eyes, stature and relaxed temperment of white men.
Whats odd is that when with a white guy, people make comments about how hot sex must be, how "cultured" he is, and how wealthy I must now be, and spoiled by him.
Well... okay, the sex is FIRE, those white guys tend to be more culturally aware, they make various wages, and do lavish kinda heavy. So there's some truth.
But, when my blonde girlfriend is with a black dude, we hear stuff like she has degraded herself, slutty, only wants his penis, can't be a real family - Its kinda brutal.
My thoughts is that given the country's history, white men still have a kind of "royalty," about them, or stereotyped aristocratic stature, whereas black men are the opposite. So, to put it Disney, a black girl with a white man, has this Cinderella effect, whereas a white girl with a black guy, has connatations of Lady and the Tramp.
Also, I think of a forbidden fruit tabooey. We used to be forced apart by law, but that doesn't stop attraction.
Weird topic I know, but I asked because while we were on our group date night, two black guys high-fived my boyfriend for having me, then the older white couples and passerbys kept complimenting us together. Not so for my blonde friend, who usually gets dirty looks or jokes about him ruining her credit and leaving her kids fatherless. Black men are great partners too!
Whats your intel?
Thanks!
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