The good news is life can only get better for you from here. If you are being honest and have hit rock bottom life will get better. I mean it has to right? You said it's the worst today.
Here's a list of all my experiences 1st Friendzone/Rejection "**SARA**"
The girl i tried for in high school (24) but who friendzoned me is getting married to a scumbag piece of shit. (21) who cheated on her with a teacher She started dating him when me and her were seniors and he was a freshman he was caught sexting a teacher caught on the news and now the girl I want is marrying him and A TEACHER HERSELF
and now everybody is happy that they're getting married it's like I'm living in the Twilight Zone that people forget that he cheated on her with the teacher and got caught on the news. And the only type of women who like me or unattractive and obese so when it rains it pours. i hate my life and i hate her fiance.
Girl i love has a boyfriend and she's in love with him and it depresses me beyond comprehension that she loves him and she will never love me. I'm absolutely fucking depressed.
Everybody else wants them to get married except me, i fucking hate her boyfriend he ruined my life. I asked girls on here if he's better looking than me and they all said yes he was and theyd rather date him than me. Can anybody give me advice thats beneficial for me? Not advice that only benefits her boyfriend, cause reality is if you say "If you really love her youd be happy for her" or "move on", that has no benefits for me it only benefits her bitchboy punkass boyfriend.
And again to recap she doesn't love me she loves him nobody feels bad for me because everybody else wants these two to be married already and the only type of girls who like me or unattractive obese girls so I don't get a bright side or a silver lining or happy ending that benefits me all of those is a losing situation for me or I end up with either nothing or what doesn't make up for what I lost out on.
I told her I love her she rejected me then a week later she had me meet with her only so she can set me up with her fat ugly friend
My high school prom date whose a family friend and who i had a crush on for years, she made out with another guy in front of me and fucked him in his car and because she stayed at my place she invited him over to make out with him on MY DRIVEWAY.
**So tell me why should I have to die alone or settle for a fat ugly girl when all that bullshit happened to me?*
Every think its your outlook of yourself. You want girls to notice you. Stop being negative about yourself. Thats a big turn off and make them run the other way.
Well the same could be said for you too. What are your attributes? What are you bringing to the table? Your described yourself so far as picky, broke, obese, and short. Now short and a virgin is fine, but the others aren't. I'd suggest caring for yourself and getting your life together before expecting someone else too. And your considered picky to me, because of this. People like someone with security and support. We don't want to be thinking were settling for a dead end. Your priorities need So e readjustment dude. So...
That'll have me feel as if I'm so ugly that i have to pay thousands of dollars for a woman to be willing to fuck me for an hour. Not exactly a confidence booster.
lol, most escorts cost $200 an hour and make the experience pleasant.
It's just sex and unlike most women, escorts are HONEST about needing to be bribed. Most women are resource intense and require a lot of time and money.
You see Ivan, when you complain about be fat ugly poor broke and virgin and don’t do nothing to fix then you are of the big retard and repel the woman and no woman want kiss retard.
I don't think you're ugly. I can see that you're not exactly slim, but you don't look overly fat.
You're actually fortunate, because you have relatively masculine features, and a pretty symmetric face and good skin etc. Also, women don't tend to want a guy that weighs less than them, in my experience.
You're lucky, because all you need to do to become quite attractive physically is to find some kind of exercise you enjoy and do that. Maybe try CrossFit. If you build some strength, you'll look quite attractive.
Can't do anything about your height. Just live with it.
If it's any comfort, I'm 6'1'' and suck with women. My brother is shorter and has had girlfriend I would hardly even dare talk to, they were that attractive. I used to play soccer with a guy that was super short - he had a really cute girlfriend too. So there's hope.
Don't obsess about the virginity stuff. Let it go. Experience is overrated. When you do have sex, just enjoy yourself.
Look for a job (or go back to school). If you already have one, look for a better one, or work on getting a promotion where you are.
Above all, go out and meet some girls. Just meet them casually, through leisure activities that interest you. The more you do stuff like that, the more likely you are to get experience talking to girls and eventually more.
What I meant was more that if you hang out with them, their skills might run off on you a bit. That tends to happen with the people we surround ourselves with - they affect us. But maybe not of they consider you a "lost cause". You may find other guys who are. good with girls who have more hope for you.
Work on yourself lose weight, make yourself qualified for a better job. You're still young and you'r not helpless instead of complaining about it do something about it.
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The good news is life can only get better for you from here. If you are being honest and have hit rock bottom life will get better. I mean it has to right? You said it's the worst today.
You know, you need to expand your notions of physical beauty. Of course a woman you date wants to feel appreciated and attractive. Don't you?
I get told to date women who look like Christine Sydelko but I'm obligated to think she's better looking than a perfect 10. I get no help
Here's a list of all my experiences
1st Friendzone/Rejection "**SARA**"
The girl i tried for in high school (24) but who friendzoned me is getting married to a scumbag piece of shit. (21) who cheated on her with a teacher She started dating him when me and her were seniors and he was a freshman he was caught sexting a teacher caught on the news and now the girl I want is marrying him and A TEACHER HERSELF
and now everybody is happy that they're getting married it's like I'm living in the Twilight Zone that people forget that he cheated on her with the teacher and got caught on the news. And the only type of women who like me or unattractive and obese so when it rains it pours. i hate my life and i hate her fiance.
AND THEN 2nd Friendzone/Rejection " **ASHLEY** "
**TL;DR**
Girl i love has a boyfriend and she's in love with him and it depresses me beyond comprehension that she loves him and she will never love me. I'm absolutely fucking depressed.
Everybody else wants them to get married except me, i fucking hate her boyfriend he ruined my life. I asked girls on here if he's better looking than me and they all said yes he was and theyd rather date him than me. Can anybody give me advice thats beneficial for me? Not advice that only benefits her boyfriend, cause reality is if you say "If you really love her youd be happy for her" or "move on", that has no benefits for me it only benefits her bitchboy punkass boyfriend.
And again to recap she doesn't love me she loves him nobody feels bad for me because everybody else wants these two to be married already and the only type of girls who like me or unattractive obese girls so I don't get a bright side or a silver lining or happy ending that benefits me all of those is a losing situation for me or I end up with either nothing or what doesn't make up for what I lost out on.
I told her I love her she rejected me then a week later she had me meet with her only so she can set me up with her fat ugly friend
3rd Friendzone/Rejection **ALEX**
My high school prom date whose a family friend and who i had a crush on for years, she made out with another guy in front of me and fucked him in his car and because she stayed at my place she invited him over to make out with him on MY DRIVEWAY.
**So tell me why should I have to die alone or settle for a fat ugly girl when all that bullshit happened to me?*
How about pull your head out of your assistance? Get on an anti-depressant like you clearly need. Go on the Mediterranean diet, get some exercise.
And grow a pair.
If i lose weight and attractive women still don't like me then what am i supposed to do
The first step is pulling your head out of your ass.
Ok you insulting me with the same line isn't helpful
And it's kind of annoying how with all those experiences you don't acknowledge a single one of them
But I'm right, none the less.
Go get on meds and get therapy.
No "attractive" woman?
That is hilarious!
Haha!!
Hello short fat guy. I am a tall fat guy. Nice to meet you.
A word of advice. Get over it.
Bro if your putting that your fat and ugly than how do you think woman will view you if you dont respect yourself.
I'm doing atkins diet but if i lose weight and hot girls still don't like me what am i supposed to do
Well good job on the diet but how do you try to approach these women? You need to have a level of confidence in yourself.
Ya women have become very materialistic these days. Rare to find good Women like we once did
The new generation of women is mediacore at best 🤷♂️
Every think its your outlook of yourself. You want girls to notice you. Stop being negative about yourself. Thats a big turn off and make them run the other way.
That depends, are you looking for that perfect "10" girl?
Just not 1s to 5s and have everyone expect me to act as if they are.
Well the same could be said for you too. What are your attributes? What are you bringing to the table? Your described yourself so far as picky, broke, obese, and short. Now short and a virgin is fine, but the others aren't. I'd suggest caring for yourself and getting your life together before expecting someone else too. And your considered picky to me, because of this. People like someone with security and support. We don't want to be thinking were settling for a dead end. Your priorities need So e readjustment dude. So...
Stop depending on other people for your happiness.
I highly recommend just hiring an escort so when you do end up in a relationship, you're not totally clueless on how to fuck.
That'll have me feel as if I'm so ugly that i have to pay thousands of dollars for a woman to be willing to fuck me for an hour. Not exactly a confidence booster.
lol, most escorts cost $200 an hour and make the experience pleasant.
It's just sex and unlike most women, escorts are HONEST about needing to be bribed. Most women are resource intense and require a lot of time and money.
*intensive
On some sites they say they're $750 an hour
That's a rip off. Backpage used to be the go-to website but these days I dunno.
Even $200 an hour is a looot of money. If I was a woman, that'd be the easiest job in the world.
At least you can lose weight. I'm physically disabled and probably no one will ever want me and I literally can't do shit about it. Cry me a river.
So what's the point of your little guilt trip here
Believe it or not, I'm trying to open your eyes.
People like you make me sick.
I get told to aim for 250+ lb women and act as if they're perfect 10s or if not then I'm a POS. I'm tired of it
No offense, but uh, did you not post this a few times already? The exact same thing, word-for-word?
I added the bottom part to explain more and i was not getting any help in the dating topic room
Got it.😏
" if i can't attract good looking women my life sucks"
I prefer Plain Janes. They tend to have genuine personalities and interests.
A plain jane or a large marge is gonna get me laughed at and trashed on.
I was a few weeks shy of my 25th b-day before I got my first EVERYTHING!! (First hand-hold all the way up to first fuck in one night!)
Are you trolling us or are you really this whiney and irritating? Cos chicks hate that.
He has to be trolling because he asks why he is ugly every day it seems.
You see Ivan, when you complain about be fat ugly poor broke and virgin and don’t do nothing to fix then you are of the big retard and repel the woman and no woman want kiss retard.
What mistakes did you make with regards to women you're attracted to?
ugly fat short and poor.
I don't think you're ugly. I can see that you're not exactly slim, but you don't look overly fat.
You're actually fortunate, because you have relatively masculine features, and a pretty symmetric face and good skin etc. Also, women don't tend to want a guy that weighs less than them, in my experience.
You're lucky, because all you need to do to become quite attractive physically is to find some kind of exercise you enjoy and do that. Maybe try CrossFit. If you build some strength, you'll look quite attractive.
Can't do anything about your height. Just live with it.
If it's any comfort, I'm 6'1'' and suck with women. My brother is shorter and has had girlfriend I would hardly even dare talk to, they were that attractive. I used to play soccer with a guy that was super short - he had a really cute girlfriend too. So there's hope.
Don't obsess about the virginity stuff. Let it go. Experience is overrated. When you do have sex, just enjoy yourself.
Look for a job (or go back to school). If you already have one, look for a better one, or work on getting a promotion where you are.
Above all, go out and meet some girls. Just meet them casually, through leisure activities that interest you. The more you do stuff like that, the more likely you are to get experience talking to girls and eventually more.
I work and I'm in college at the same time but if I lose weight but attractive woman still don't like me what am I supposed to do
Do you have any friends that are good with girls?
Yeah but they don't help me cause of my weight they consider me a lost cause and know attractive women won't choose me
What I meant was more that if you hang out with them, their skills might run off on you a bit. That tends to happen with the people we surround ourselves with - they affect us. But maybe not of they consider you a "lost cause". You may find other guys who are. good with girls who have more hope for you.
*rub off
Work on yourself lose weight, make yourself qualified for a better job. You're still young and you'r not helpless instead of complaining about it do something about it.
*you're not
If those ugly girls can't do better then why should you expect to?
I'm asking for advice so that i don't have to settle
Become better. Exercise, dress well. Focus on your career and hobbies. Be interesting.
And if i do all that and still can't get attractive women then what am i supposed to do
Accomplish those things and only then should you worry about it not working.
Girls try to flirt with me all the time.
At what age do you think I kissed my first girl?
Gee, everyone must really need to hear this story, maybe you should go on Oprah or Dr. Phil
Try to jus not care or find someone who loves you, you will no longer feel bad about yourself