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  • 1,2,4,5,7 are bull shit, and make wide ignorant assumptions on a broad and diverse group of people. I agree with 3 except the assertion they are female. They are TRANS women. 6 I can see how some may view this as a down side but I want children and I don't mind being supportive of my SO during that time of the month. Lords know she has to put up with me being a grump and or moody every once and again.

    (PS: I have no problem with transgender people. If they are happy with who they are then I say good on em! But I will not agree that they are on some base level superior to average women. I think they should be judged and viewed as we all are : individuals with their own strengths and weakness.)

    Respectfully,
    - Mr. brick

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  • I couldn't even make it though the dumb ass list.

    1) easier to get along with.
    Bullshit
    2) more open minded
    More damaged actually
    Didn't hear 3
    4) more feminine?
    What the fuck? How? Hahaha
    You're a guy.

    I couldn't get past that. It was just too dumb.

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  • I only agreed with the first few. Past number 3 I thought they were all BS, except for the period one.

    Even with all these “benefits” though, it doesn’t matter. If someone has a penis, whether they identify as male or female, cisgender 100% straight men are biologically incapable of being fully sexually attracted to them. Heterosexual men sexually prefer biological women, AKA people with vaginas. A transgender woman would have better luck if she instead pursued bisexual or pansexual men.

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  • I dated a few transexuals being nisexual myself but it was too much work, they constantly need validation and are real drama queens. Also they either all have a serious mental conditions or medication and hormones they take mess them up. A transexual man I dated started getting very violent in the end.

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    • Violence is never okay, but it’s probably all that testosterone. Men can’t even handle taking extra doses. How is a female to make transgender supposed to handle that? I feel like they’re hurting themselves pretty badly with it.

    • @mermaidrocketship That is partially false about the testosterone, it's a common misconception.

      In actuality testosterone has a strong pro social effect on behavior in the absence of a threat.

      Men also do not naturally develop relational aggression, while women do beginning at age 2.

      Male and Female brains are also physically different, largely between grey and white matter. Grey matter, higher in men's brains, while white matter is used more in female brains, the difference this causes is significant.

      So women taking test is probably something that needs a lot more research and no doubt it seriously fucks things up.

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  • No, I I don't. He's a dude, just because he got implants and stuff doesn't mean he's not a guy. He's biologically still a guy, whether he wants to admit it or not

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  • I tried to have an open mind and listened to all the arguments presented in this video but as expected, my mind remains unchanged. I will still respect trans people by their preferred pronouns, but I can't ever date a trans female, simply because your genes, not society, still say you're a male, regardless of what kind of modifications you attempt or how feminine your personality is.

    As for each of the eight presented arguments, I have a response to each one:

    1. " We are easier to get along with than your average girl."
    This is very untrue. I've found that I REALLY need to watch what I say around trans people, more so than than average cis males or females. It's their feelings that take priority above all else in any social situation.
    2. "We are more open-minded than cis-gendered girls and more willing to try new things."
    I can't exactly prove you wrong but I seriously doubt it, especially since this argument isn't backed up whatsoever.
    3. "We are very strong on the inside and we've been through a lot."
    I don't doubt you've been through a lot, but the part of being strong on the inside is arguable. Reason being, words tend to hurt way too much. Unfortunately common sense should be enough to know that's a sign of weakness rather than strength.
    4. "We are more feminine than your average girl"
    No. You're not more feminine: you're more insecure. Trans women tend to (yes, I know they don't always) go WAY over the top with fashion which takes away from the femininity and the realism of it all. If you look like a diva rather than an average girl, then you become unbelievable and we suspect something. (Though I'll admit the person in the video did not do this.)
    5. "We appreciate the little things more."
    That's completely unrelated to whether you're cis or trans. I didn't get that growing up too, and I surely very much appreciate the little things.
    6. "We cannot get pregnant."
    That is a huge DISadvantage. And no, most guys don't agree with you either. Believe it or not, there are more men who want to become dads than those who don't. This "benefit" only appeals to f*ckboys.
    7. "We don't get periods."
    Yes, periods are an inconvenience, but one most of us are willing to deal with, whether it means waiting, working around, or in some cases even just working through it. But news flash: No periods = No pregnancies. Please refer for the above for the rest.
    8. "Anal 100% of the time."
    To me that just sounds like an individual preference. And she also said "There's no other way we can have sex." That statement alone contradicts this being a benefit. I want to have vaginal sex and so do many others.

    Again, I tried to have an open mind.

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  • "I am so sick of guys saying they won't date transgender women or that they're not gay... and I am OVER it, like so over it, because they are to be respected"

    Uh, no you're not. Unless by "OVER it" you mean, "sick of letting men get to decide who they can and cannot date". You are free to do what you want to your own body, but you are NOT free to lecture other people on who they get to be with, just because you have gender dysphoria. I'm sorry and that sucks, but my sympathy ends where your entitlement begins. I respect your right to be trans, but I will not be guilted into finding you attractive and nothing you say or do will change my mind.

    "I think a lot of guys don't really realize how many benefits there are to dating a transgender girl..."

    There are literally no benefits to dating a transgender girl. In fact, you go on to say "there will be disadvantages and things that suck, that biological couples that don't have to go through", so not only are there NO benefits--meaning we don't even start at baseline--but there are disadvantages, so we'd be actively participating in behaviors that would produce a net loss. Great.

    "... there are lot of things as well that we can offer that cisgendered females can't", I STRONGLY doubt that, but I'll humor you. Go on...

    1) "We are easier to get along with than your average girl", she just called out Your Average Girl for being a pain in the ass. That is not a point for trans-women people, that is a point AGAINST women in general

    2) "We are much more open-minded than cis gendered girls", what the hell does that even mean? "We're willing to try new things and who are we to judge?" Clearly not; this entire diatribe simultaneous makes demands and judgments of cis gender men. You can't have it both ways.

    3) "We are very strong on the inside and we've been through a lot", ALSO not a point in favor of trans people. Show me one person who hasn't faced hardship of some kind and I will show you a fantastical utopia called "In your dreams"

    4) "We are more feminine than your average girl", that couldn't be more of a contradiction if you said "black is the new white". If I put on makeup, does that make me more feminine? "We like getting our nails done, doing our hair...", would that just make you a gay dude who's really into fashion?

    5) "We appreciate the little things more, like holding our hands in public...", again, NOT a point in favor of trans-women. Straight women do this as well, only if they want

    6) "We cannot get pregnant, for obvious reasons", not being able to get pregnant is NOT a plus, it's also a negative. If I'm with a girl, I want to have the option of getting her pregnant. If this means you don't have a vagina, that's an additional negative.

    7) "We don't get periods", might be the ONLY positive of dating a trans-women... unless, this is because--as already explained--there is no vagina

    8) "Anal 100% of the time", so is this confirmation of "no vagina"? I mean, I'm not a sexpert or anything, but I'd wager that anal vs vagina sex feels very different and your average guy would prefer vagina more than 50% of the time. "as we're developing as a society, a lot of straight men are into anal", maybe in porn, but the straight men on average are still probably not THAT progressive. Also, comment if you're a guy and give a ratio of your vagina vs anal interest. "... a lot them actually prefer it to vaginal sex", [citation needed]. "there's no other way that we can have sex really", that's suppose to be a good thing?

    "So, I hope I may have opened up some of your minds a little bit", let's see here:
    A) Only 1/8 of your claims was valid, but you get points on a technicality
    B) Two of your "actually points" was just negatives against women (which your are trying to portray yourself as "one of", so self-discount by extension)
    c) Majority of your points apply to gay men just as easily, so no points given

    Final Results: D-*

    *Points for effort

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  • 1. Easier to get along with than CIS females.

    I could never get along with an everyday trans "woman". Most of the are brainwashed. The only one I get along with is Blair.

    2. Much more open minded that CIS girls.

    That's not an absolute truth. Some people are open minded and some are not. Their sexual orientation has nothing to do with it.

    3. Very strong women since they took risk of becoming trans even though they knew people would hate and persecute them.

    Strong? A lot of trans folk are damaged and suicidal.

    4. Accepts being feminine and try more to be pretty than the average girl

    LOL. No. A lot of trans are not even close to being "pretty".

    5. Appreciates the little things more like holding hands or kiss inn public and don't have expectation of money being thrown at them like many CIS women do.

    I've never had trouble finding a real woman that appreciates the little things and aren't money hungry.

    6. No periods

    So? Periods are a NATURAL occurrence that most WOMEN go through. They have ovaries which cause that to happen. Trans do not... cuz... uh... they're not biological women.

    7. Not slaves to hypergamy and more loyal.

    More loyal? I've met many trans "women" that hop from relationship to relationship. They only care about sex.

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  • well i know it hurts their feelings if people feel gay for liking a transgender woman, cause a transgender women is litterally nothing but a man pretending to be a girl.

    obviously they're easier to get along with, cause you're a bro and bros think alike, that doesn't make me like dick.

    they're more open to try stuff, cause they're a man xD i mean in the sense that they were socialized like a man being way more ok with sexual stuff, while women are more repressed.

    every one goes through tough shit but yeah i can see how pretending to be a woman fucks you up, cause peoples reactions aren't nice most times.

    i don't agree that you're more feminine than women at all. they just overact the female gender stereotypes to compensate for their glaring physical masculinity.

    you don't get periods. yeah nice but you also don't have vaginas and can't have children so that's a deal breaker.

    note: i didn't call them men to offend or provoke. i call them men cause they are biolobically and i have sympathy for the condition that makes you feel like your body is the wrong gender. i'm happy i don't have that and i probably won't ever understand how hard it is to live with that HOWEVER to me and to any biological definition gender isn't changeable. yeah you can have surgery and then what once was a penis will look somewhat like a vagina and hopefully you feel better like that but to me it's still a man.

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  • I am a 100% ally of trans people. I want them to have every right and protection everyone else has. I see genuine transphobia as really disgusting bigotry.

    That said, I do not agree with this video. I do not find myself inclined to date a woman that is not cisgendered. It just doesn't do it for me, and that's the way it is. I'm not the manliest guy, I am quite the rebel in fact, as far as gender norms go. But at the end of the day, despite my nail polish, several piercings, long hair, and slender framework with gender neutral clothing, I am still a straight man. I don't see any situation where I date someone who does not have the physiologically female genitals. I don't date someone to just be friends, I date someone I want a sexual and romantic relationship with. Most girl I date are bisexual, again, I have a lot of LGBT+ friends and people in my life. I just don't think I could reconcile my actual psychological needs and wants with what a transgendered girl (who may be a really great person) could offer.

    I know people say that this preference is transphobic, but I disagree. I'm the last person who would be a bigot (but I imagine there are many unironic bigots in this thread, whose beliefs are really unfortunate). I'm trying to explain that I am a cis-hetero male, that's my sexuality. I did not choose this, but I only date cisgendered women for that reason.

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  • I think she can appeal to a lot of men. Especially those who don't want kids and love anal. But I think as a society we're not there yet and her net is much smaller than a cis woman's for partners.

    I don't get why people say that men who date trans women are gay, especially if she's post op or looks like a biological woman. Gay men aren't attracted to femininity.

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  • I will pass.

    Also that man's statements regarding women, I do not care for...

    I will take a woman over a mentally ill man. (Though he has my sympathies.)

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  • At first I thought that transgender people are quite normal, like the rest of us, just have a mind/body switch, meaning a guy in a girls body and vice versa, but the more of them come out the more I think they are fucking mental. They idea of straight men being into girls with dicks is ludicrous and preposterous. They be ill in the head for sure.

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  • No. Just, no.
    Just because I would rather be a voluntary celibate for the rest of my life than date you, doesn't mean that I disrespect you, or deny your humanity.

    We all have dating preferences. Some are reasonable, and others are not. Nevertheless, it's none of your business.
    Being attracted to a segment of the population (i. e. straight men) where the majority of them don't want to date you isn't their fault.
    Get over yourself.

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  • Anal even.5% of the time is NOT a benefit!! And why wouldn't you have sex the normal way? You've got the equipment now, why not use it?

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  • There are no benefits.. full stop end of story end of discussion. If I'm dating I want a biological woman because at some point i want kids, two men, no matter how many surgeries they have no matter how many hormones they take cannot have a child together..

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  • I totally and absolutely respects all gays, lesbians, and trans people. But this... this makes no sense to me. I AM a moderate liberal, but I am also big on logic and rationality. And... well, for me personally I prefer a woman who is BIOLOGICALLY as in naturally born as a woman. That's just simply my preference.

    If other people have other preferences, good on them! To each their own!

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  • How can you group all transgender women together, and say as a group they have these benefits? The physical / biological facts, yes... but the personality traits, no

    Isn't the point to judge people as individuals, not based on stereotypes

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  • 4 minutes and 47 seconds?
    Could you just list the things in the video so I don't have to watch it?

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    • List:

      1. Easier to get along with than CIS females.

      2. Much more open minded that CIS girls.

      3. Very strong women since they took risk of becoming trans even though they knew people would hate and persecute them.

      4. Accepts being feminine and try more to be pretty than the average girl

      5. Appreciates the little things more like holding hands or kiss inn public and dont have expectation of money being thrown at them like many CIS women do.

      6. No periods

      7. Not slaves to hypergamy and more loyal.

    • Agree some and disagree others.
      Just being trans won't mean those points will always hold true for example.

    • Its Not cis Woman, it's Normal woman

  • Gross, I wish they would stop, no straight man wants another man, they want a real woman.

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  • 🤢🤢🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_SKdN1xQBjk

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  • Under no circumstance would I ever date someone who has deliberately mangled (or wants/intends to do so) their sexual features, endocrine system, and body chemistry. I would much rather just have a same-sex relationship. I have also been with people who are plagued with emotional problems, body issues, and identity issues and can tell you first hand that such people are best left to each other.

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  • The only benefit I could think of is the ability to one up virtue single nearly every liberal freak.

    It will also give you street cred with your local ANTIFA chapter.

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  • I'm not even gonna watch it, but anyone who is willing to date a transperson is crazy.

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    • Say it a little louder for the people in the back

    • @The_FallenOne I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings. The problem is not that people have mentally tough times, but that we don't treat them well, but try to change their gender.

  • I watched the whole video. I voted Yes. I agreed with the first 7 reasons, but disagree with the 8th (anal only). However, I would still have moral qualms about entering such a relationship.

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  • Im not dating a dude ever

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    • Well good for you. Are you open to dating trans women?

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    • also, in my language, gender and sex are truly synonimous.

  • If I park my derriere in a garage and call myself a Chevy, it does not make it so. In the same way, being male or female and calling oneself the other doesn't make it so.

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  • Benefits... being with a man as a heterosexual man, give us no benefits worth even a consideration.

    No pussy*, no dating, end of story.

    * A DNA based on, not a fake lookalike.

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  • Transgender people are mentally ill. Anyone who wanted to cut off his hand would be locked away in an institution, but one who wants to cut off his dick is given special considerations under the law.

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  • No. There are no benefits to it, if there were, there'd be no reason to point them out, they'd be self-evident.

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    • Nailed it. The fact that they have to make a list proves that there actually are no benefits. They're "pulling things out of their arse".

  • I agree with most of it, but none of those benefits would make me date one.

    A transgender woman may put in extra effort to look good, but that's because they have to in order to avoid looking masculine.
    They understand me because they were a boy for a good part of their lives. Enough said for me to say no there.
    A don't desire anal sex. The only way I would take part in anal sex is if I'm with a woman that desires it.
    I feel like an artificial vagina would freak me out and if they have a penis, that's a further indicator that they were born men.
    Not having any "accidents" is great but I want to be able to impregnate a woman. If a woman can't have kids, that's okay, but that benefit doesn't make me want a transgender any more.

    No problem with them as people, but I have no interest in dating them.

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  • Dating a man with fake tits*

    Reality is what it is, no matter the name you want to put on it.

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  • No, and even if I agreed with some of them I still wouldn't date one.

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  • Plenty of guy's like or don't mind a "bloody" vagina but most guys don't want a dick or a bloody asshole.

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  • Downsides: She's a dude.

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  • Any guy who dates a transgender makes you gay

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  • I don't agree with abominations.

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  • There are no benefits, that's just gross.

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  • But he is a man! so no benefits at all.

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  • That's a bunch of bullshit he mentioned there.

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  • I'd rather stop dating forever than do that

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  • Benefits for who? I only date real girls.

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  • No , I need vagina

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  • No..

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  • 17% actually said yes. Hahaha

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  • Most men do love anal so
    ~Mr Bails Extraordinaire

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  • More like 8 stages of cancer

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  • "GIRL"

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  • I agree

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  • what is she talk about?

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  • NO..

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  • Gender comes from mind and a lot of trans look actually better then most women so I would date arguably even have intercourse if feels like a woman

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  • I actually wouldn't be opposed to dating a trans if they were *totally* passable. I'd be fine with pre-op as well.
    What does bother me if trying to *convince* people to be into you for a way that you chose to be as if they're *supposed* to be attracted to you or else they're bad people.

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  • No thank you... MAAM.

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