Because the savage alpha males get more poosay. If a girl sees a guy beating poosay off of him obviously that tells the girl he is considered attractive and his seed is strong with the ladies which is good for her potential children and the selfish spread of her DNA
I think a woman must date with a man who fits with her. It means on my opinion don't tame savage alpha males, don't date with nice guys either. Just try to mature until she can recognizes a real man. First advice, if someone believe in alpha male-nice guy dissociation, very likely he isn't a man. There are many types of men: generous, intelligent, strong, athletics, adventurer, funny... If you define a man in the disjunctuve alpha-nice. You must grow up, leave the house and look outside. So as you can see how alpha beta relations doesn't exist in reality (yes, they exist but are more strange and usually goes to a toxic relation which I expect isn't what you wish for your life) and it's more a leader-follower relation in which the roles change everytime.
Why take on a job as a lion tamer when you can get along with pussy cats that much easier?
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Why do people choose to use these terms? Is it because they're too scared to use the terms weak, strong, superior, inferior, dominant, submissive?
If you use the correct terms, it's obvious why a woman would prefer a strong, dominant, superior man as opposed to a weak, submissive, inferior man.
Unfortunately, superiority itself usually comes with an attitude of superiority. Weak men call them assholes. Other superior men call them friends. We shit-talk each other and give the honest truth because we can handle it. It sucks having to walk on eggshells because you're afraid the truth is gonna hurt someone's feelings.
When it comes to women, they think a man should obey them even when he's strong and dominant. It doesn't work that way. Get a damn dog.
Some would and some wouldn't. If i knew he was savage before we began dating then I wouldn't date him. If he started to become savage later in the relationship then id try to tame him, but if he doesn't put in the effort to change then I'll leave him.
If you wouldn't date him if he was savage then why wouldn't you break up with him if he became savage? Why bother taming something you would of never dated to begin with?
Not saying you would know... but why try and tame something you wouldn't of dated to begin with? I feel like you are dodging my direct simple question here.
It's whatever your definition was when you made the statement. It's how you define it not me? So just tell me what you thought it meant? There is no right or wrong answer here.. . ya know! Just dialogue.
Im just gonna go with the google definition which is violent and uncontrollable. I thought when you said savage you were just exaggerating how some guys feel the need to be in control sometimes or something like that. I wasn't thinking about a violent guy because women in general don't prefer a violent man so in my head i was like "is this man dumb or just exaggerating?" So I just assumed you were exaggerating. Anyway, in the context of the google definition of "savage", no i wouldn't be with or tame a violent man at all.
I wouldn't say tame but I just don't like a nice guy as much, they tend to be gents and aren't able to act as casually as an alpha male. But I don't bother with training them cause it's not a problem I encounter, the "alpha" males that I've liked so far are actually nice inside once you get to know them and are caring guys. so yeah I'd rather an "alpha" male
There is a sense of accomplishment to be the one that "ties him down" in a way, but that isn't to say that thats not how it should be. Dating nice guys can be difficult because sometimes nice guys aren't nice at all, they just come across as desperate. In the end, its the confidence that draws women to the alpha males, but it is the challenge that makes them stay
Strong guys are naturally seen as better providers (and protectors); so, it would make evolutionary sense that they're biologically susceptible to outward expressions of such a status.
Some women would but being alpha and being savage aren't necessarily the same thing. Savagery is something punk kids try or low IQ types and crazy people. Alpha men are in control of themselves they decide when they're savage and when they're not. Otherwise they'd just be regarded as dangerous thugs and not move up the hierarchy.
Why does being savage make a guy the alpha male? It makes him an animal not the alpha. A Rottweiler is savage but its owner is calm in control and is the true alpha.
Just have lots of money (or appear to) and give them way too many compliments and you can get them. Treat her like crap, cheat on her, don't follow through with plans you make together and just apologize and promise to do better next time, but actually continue to behave the same over and over and you would find plenty of women that would want you.
At least that is how many women around my age behave.
Can I just have a guy that’s nice but dominant but not an asshole. Also my friend told us about the guy she was seeing and how dominant and a leader he was at work and with his everyday life but when they were having sex he wanted to be submissive af. That’s a no.
Do women not realize that the same drive that makes someone want to dominate others (which serves no practical purpose in modern society other than to bolster ones' social status) is mutually exclusive with kindness? The only thing that can cause that drive to dominate is selfishness and a desire to control. Neither of which is something that a genuinely good person to will have.
So women are being asked whether they would date a primitive or uncivilized man who is the leader or dominate of their primitive/uncivilized group versus dating the proverbial, "nice" guy, eh? My guess is between the two option women would overwhelmingly prefer to remain home and invest in 'toys' and their imaginations to pacify their 'urges'.
It seems like no one here knows what an alpha male is. I define it as the man you should strive to become. The man that works his ass off on his passion and invests in himself and takes care of his body. Always growing, confident, charismatic, and successful.
As long as I know, those guys who use the term alpha male and specially on themselves are a big no and a reason to run away ceazy. Similar for those who consider themselves a nice guy. I prefer a more humble guy
The 'nice guy' is not even in the dating pool most of the time. The "savage alpha males" (assholes) play the numbers game. They don't approach women for their intelligence, beauty, or because they seem interesting. They approach women because they have a warm wet hole. There is no taming a guy like that and the nice guy is nowhere to be found.
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Because the savage alpha males get more poosay. If a girl sees a guy beating poosay off of him obviously that tells the girl he is considered attractive and his seed is strong with the ladies which is good for her potential children and the selfish spread of her DNA
I think a woman must date with a man who fits with her.
It means on my opinion don't tame savage alpha males, don't date with nice guys either.
Just try to mature until she can recognizes a real man.
First advice, if someone believe in alpha male-nice guy dissociation, very likely he isn't a man.
There are many types of men: generous, intelligent, strong, athletics, adventurer, funny...
If you define a man in the disjunctuve alpha-nice.
You must grow up, leave the house and look outside.
So as you can see how alpha beta relations doesn't exist in reality (yes, they exist but are more strange and usually goes to a toxic relation which I expect isn't what you wish for your life) and it's more a leader-follower relation in which the roles change everytime.
Why take on a job as a lion tamer when you can get along with pussy cats that much easier?
High Five!
Why do people choose to use these terms? Is it because they're too scared to use the terms weak, strong, superior, inferior, dominant, submissive?
If you use the correct terms, it's obvious why a woman would prefer a strong, dominant, superior man as opposed to a weak, submissive, inferior man.
Unfortunately, superiority itself usually comes with an attitude of superiority. Weak men call them assholes. Other superior men call them friends. We shit-talk each other and give the honest truth because we can handle it. It sucks having to walk on eggshells because you're afraid the truth is gonna hurt someone's feelings.
When it comes to women, they think a man should obey them even when he's strong and dominant. It doesn't work that way. Get a damn dog.
Some would and some wouldn't. If i knew he was savage before we began dating then I wouldn't date him. If he started to become savage later in the relationship then id try to tame him, but if he doesn't put in the effort to change then I'll leave him.
hmmmmmmmm
Mhm.
If you wouldn't date him if he was savage then why wouldn't you break up with him if he became savage? Why bother taming something you would of never dated to begin with?
How was i supposed know he was a savage if he became a savage after we got into a relationship?
Not saying you would know... but why try and tame something you wouldn't of dated to begin with? I feel like you are dodging my direct simple question here.
Can you define what you mean by savage first?
It's whatever your definition was when you made the statement. It's how you define it not me? So just tell me what you thought it meant? There is no right or wrong answer here.. . ya know! Just dialogue.
Im just gonna go with the google definition which is violent and uncontrollable. I thought when you said savage you were just exaggerating how some guys feel the need to be in control sometimes or something like that. I wasn't thinking about a violent guy because women in general don't prefer a violent man so in my head i was like "is this man dumb or just exaggerating?" So I just assumed you were exaggerating. Anyway, in the context of the google definition of "savage", no i wouldn't be with or tame a violent man at all.
Gotcha! Thanks for the comments! You rock!
I wouldn't say tame but I just don't like a nice guy as much, they tend to be gents and aren't able to act as casually as an alpha male. But I don't bother with training them cause it's not a problem I encounter, the "alpha" males that I've liked so far are actually nice inside once you get to know them and are caring guys. so yeah I'd rather an "alpha" male
Yes.
Women are attracted to strong Alpha bad boys. It gives them the tingles.
Nice guys give them the Anti-tingles.
Anti - tingles LOL
I voted yes... But... I would never try to tame him... I'm along for the wild wild ride... Done with betas
There is a sense of accomplishment to be the one that "ties him down" in a way, but that isn't to say that thats not how it should be. Dating nice guys can be difficult because sometimes nice guys aren't nice at all, they just come across as desperate. In the end, its the confidence that draws women to the alpha males, but it is the challenge that makes them stay
Strong guys are naturally seen as better providers (and protectors); so, it would make evolutionary sense that they're biologically susceptible to outward expressions of such a status.
I want a decent person with an indecent (savage) sense of humor
That would be me. Lol
@red324 think I got one already :p but still, good for you!
Well you can just keep me in mind then 😉
Some women would but being alpha and being savage aren't necessarily the same thing. Savagery is something punk kids try or low IQ types and crazy people. Alpha men are in control of themselves they decide when they're savage and when they're not. Otherwise they'd just be regarded as dangerous thugs and not move up the hierarchy.
Behind every "savage alpha male" lies a deeply broken man's tragic overcompensation
Is that supposed to be an insult to Alpha males?
No, simply a psychological assessment. I find no joy in attacking the weak
Are you a psychologist?
Maybe. Are you a "savage alpha male"?
Absolutely not those guys are pussys.
Why does being savage make a guy the alpha male? It makes him an animal not the alpha. A Rottweiler is savage but its owner is calm in control and is the true alpha.
So you are arguing the term savage? delete the term and answer the question then? .. I will make it simple.
You're the one who linked savagery with being alpha. What is your personal definition of alpha. Please don't worry about keeping it simple.
OMG so is that a no? Okay.. thanks for the comments!
Lol coach
Just have lots of money (or appear to) and give them way too many compliments and you can get them. Treat her like crap, cheat on her, don't follow through with plans you make together and just apologize and promise to do better next time, but actually continue to behave the same over and over and you would find plenty of women that would want you.
At least that is how many women around my age behave.
Can I just have a guy that’s nice but dominant but not an asshole. Also my friend told us about the guy she was seeing and how dominant and a leader he was at work and with his everyday life but when they were having sex he wanted to be submissive af. That’s a no.
Do women not realize that the same drive that makes someone want to dominate others (which serves no practical purpose in modern society other than to bolster ones' social status) is mutually exclusive with kindness? The only thing that can cause that drive to dominate is selfishness and a desire to control. Neither of which is something that a genuinely good person to will have.
So women are being asked whether they would date a primitive or uncivilized man who is the leader or dominate of their primitive/uncivilized group versus dating the proverbial, "nice" guy, eh? My guess is between the two option women would overwhelmingly prefer to remain home and invest in 'toys' and their imaginations to pacify their 'urges'.
It seems like no one here knows what an alpha male is. I define it as the man you should strive to become. The man that works his ass off on his passion and invests in himself and takes care of his body. Always growing, confident, charismatic, and successful.
As long as I know, those guys who use the term alpha male and specially on themselves are a big no and a reason to run away ceazy. Similar for those who consider themselves a nice guy. I prefer a more humble guy
The 'nice guy' is not even in the dating pool most of the time. The "savage alpha males" (assholes) play the numbers game. They don't approach women for their intelligence, beauty, or because they seem interesting. They approach women because they have a warm wet hole. There is no taming a guy like that and the nice guy is nowhere to be found.