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Would women rather try and tame "Savage Alpha Males" then simply just date nice guys? (Page 2)
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Yeah women have this obsession with trying to change men... it's disgusting if you ask me
The only change I want to make is to make them happier. Why do men seem so depressed these days? š¤ Men need to learn to relax and stop stressing so much.
I think the term āsavage alpha malesā is hilarious.
that's a loaded question. even statisticians know that asking women anything along these lines (and most especially about sex itself) leads to unreliable data because they don't tell the full truth and often times rather say what makes them look good
God no.
Girls love this. Omg. The way they look up at you when their mouth is full and they can't speak and a big crumb from the sandwich they made that you're eating falls right in their face. Lmao but dead serious.
Lol stop lyingggg š„“š„“š„“š„“š„“š„“š„“
If girls ever admitted that they secretly love being bossed around it would spoil the fun.
Any women that tries to tame an Alpha deserves to be thrown over his lap and have her ass spanked till she submits.
What i like doing is being attracted to bad boys and then try and change them.
When i succeed in changing them from what i was attracted to in the first place? I blame them for me not being attracted to them anymore.
So i dump them.
That's kinda funny...
An honest woman. Never thought I'd see the day.
Honestly from my experience girls tend to be in a mix of wanting both someone whose a good fighter but at the same time someone who is emotional and as for the question why guys are so depreas
With all these people telling what to do or be it's kinda hard to live up to every expectations
So ofc we be depress if we failed or something
Sometimes but eventually you realise you can't change a man
So then you go try to change different man and start all over
@SpearsAndStones yep probably
You're still a prisoner to bullshit thinking if you use terms like alpha males.
Alpha seed Beta need is real. Sorry but you are misinformed.
Yeah, I'm gonna take the word of virtually everyone with any knowledge of anthopology, instead of some uninformed dickweasels on the internet who fell prey to some PUA twat with some bogus terms to throw around.
If that were true I certainly wouldn't want to show my face or my name in the comments but I do... unlike you sir who cowardly hides behind ANON. Please... I am not hiding... google knows me well and so does my 50k followers. So please don't insult me with this PUA twat stuff... it bores me.
I'd rather date a nice guy... I'm to sure the other guys will ever truly change
i need a man who really cares me like unconditionally except this fuck all men
"Alpha guys" can be nice guys... i saw a few, so yoy get the answer
Im not the OP so I don't know what his thought is, but here is mine. Alpha guys CAN plausibly be nice; however, in our society the three traits that "alphas" generally share are 1) boldness/recklessness, 2) physical size and 3) being super into themselves. Two of these tend to correlate with bad behavior and the last is just physical size. It is easier for bad men who don't care about others or consider the consequences of their actions to be alpha.
Nope, someone had mytake on that and had a youtube video with a guys explaining what alpha really is. In reality, alpha guys are confident, caring, successful and many more. The"nice guy" type is usually insecure/frustrated about something and acts nice just to survive in the society, alphas are the ones that can be genuenly nice. Sure, there are naturalky nice guys that aren't super frustrated and they just lack the confidence of an alpha and there are guys that are confident assholes, not "nice guy" type of asshole. I know q few guys that are bold, determined, polite and many more without being players and assholes. I also saw guys that weren't very muscular but were still hot because they had a good bone structure and still had some muscle definition.
You don't have to keep repeating this exact same argument. We've heard it a million times and it has come to closer to representing reality any time it's retold.
In our culture (USA and west) we value things like individuality, strength and charisma. If you go to a place like Poland you might see people who value kindness or Afghanistan you might find people who value hospitality or in China you are more likely to find people who value selflessness. But we don't value those things. We value people being strong and super into themselves. That is what we glorify.
We are also taught to demonize men in our society. Young boys are taught to treat girls like princesses, young girls are taught to be weary of men. THAT is why you see men with a lot of bravado as being good across the board and men without it as being uniformally bad (you claim even their kindness is a ruse).
There are no ALL good and ALL bad men. The fact that you see men in such black and white terms shows that you haven't thought about it that hard. You just repeat this one argument over and over in hopes that one day that will make it the truth
would men rather date someone they like rather than simply someone they really don't like in any way?
Men don't get a choice
In fact, liking someone is the best way to make them bored of you. If you aren't just trying to get laid, your intentions are seen as suspect, as everyone knows men only want to get laid.
And if I did get a choice between dating someone who consdiers my feelings and someone who doesn't but they're sexy, I know for a fact I would choose the former. But you're a woman, so any choice you make is the right one. So go ahead and keep bitching about toxic masculinity while you validate it in your personal life.
@SpearsAndStones i just will always date someone i like sorry that upsets you
That isn't the upsetting part. It's the quality (or lack thereof) of people you choose to admire that is upsetting. I find bad people attractive too... Then I control my impulses and act like a mature adult. But it's ok, you're a woman, so you'll go make yourself a victim so you can come back and try to get us all to feel bad about it.
Yeah. I would. I tried dating a nice guy. He was too much of a pushover.
Can you define that? Like what did he do that made him a pushover
@SpearsAndStones he was passive. He let me do whatever I wanted. I could talk to him crazy and wouldnāt do anything. My current boyfriend would be like āwho you talking to like thatā but the other guy being a nice guy wouldnāt say anything.
So instead of the onus of responsibility being on you to treat him with respect, it's his responsibility to "discipline" you? Like you're an adult right?
Ladies and gentleman, I give you "the empowered woman"!
@SpearsAndStones is that what I said? No itās not. I donāt want someone who is a push over. Itās not gonna work for me. Hell at least I gave him a chance.
What you said is "he let me do whatever I wanted." That's how you describe a middle school substitute teacher or a baby sitter. You said you could "talk to him crazy." So instead of putting the responsibility to treat other people with respect on yourself, you've relegated that responsibility to a man. It doesn't matter who you like, that is INCREDIBLY self centered and immature to expect men to have to be the ones to tell you how to behave.
@SpearsAndStones I said I āCOULDā talk to him crazy I didnāt say āI talked to him crazyā I never disrespected him in any sort of way. That was just an example buddy š
Oh that makes a BIG difference. *Sarcasm* also if this never happened then how the hell do you know what the other guy would have done? I'm thinking you got caught saying something really stupid and now you're story is kind of falling apart lol
@SpearsAndStones well it wasnāt stupid. You asked for an example. I gave you one. š¤·š½āāļø We dated for long enough. He did other things that I just didnāt like. One time a group of guys were giving him a hard time cause they knew he wasnāt gonna do anything and he didnāt even stick up for himself because heās a pushover.
No, you gave me an example and then turned around and said, "but I actually don't do that!" Lol nothing you say about yourself will be an honest appraisal. And bitching about a guy not standing up for himself (which you definitely just made up or you would have used this example first) is a funny thing coming from women, most of whom on this thread are arguing it's GOOD when men walk all over them.
@SpearsAndStones fool I didnāt make anything up. Believe it or not. I really donāt care. I gave you examples which I shouldnāt have cause it doesnāt matter anyways. I donāt want a nice guy. I dated one. So get over it.
Most definitely. Alpha men are beyond sexy.
When a man is assertive, knows his place as a man. As long as he leads, I'll follow
This alpha/beta shit on here is boring and played out.
Most women would rather be spinsters and die alone, than with a nice guy...
Haha yeah. They will tame
you with the power of pussy.
Shit, I don't know which one I am, lemme take a test.
No because I don't think I can tame "savage".
Absolutely, this is why EVERY guy should follow the alpha route. Those are the men EVERY woman wants. They won't admit it though
Maybe. It all depends on the woman. I've found Women to be complex.
Both of them can gtfo my face
Whoa easy killer!
fr tho
Women love a challenge so they'll always go for the most interesting people
Of course. There is nothing quite as unattractive as being a nice guy.
yes of course. silly question.
l don't know
Well that is an honest answer!
We all want the bad boy to settle down for us or do we? Most of them don't so can't really say.
but that will never happen a bad boy to settle down
What makes them bad boys? The better term is fuckboys because that is what they do. And only that what they are after.
@TrustOfWorthington You want to know? Go watch LEGENDS OF THE FALL. You will then understand.
šsure
@iamlisasmith The perfect movie of what a true alpha male is... not a pretty site but very true.
I loved that movie. Brad Pitt is the bad boy, the player but he also was a nice guy hehe
Okay I am sorry but this movie is awful I am out.
@TrustOfWorthington The lesson is there if you wish to receive it. It shows what an alpha male is and the beta's who can't compete. Get some education... it might give you some perspective. The movie itself doesn't have to be great.
Lol alpha males only exist in their own heads
Tame?😂
That looks confusing.
Some women do that.
i wouldnāt do that
Of course they would.
Lol you guys just want attractive men not bad boys
YES..
Nice guys are creeps
I love training men
Does it work?
More often than not
Nice. How do you do it?
Tis my secret. Lol jk I just donāt like having to explain it every time. Iām a femdom and sexual sadist. That should help
Ohhhh hahaha. I see.
It doesn't work. This is a person with a fetish (probably a dude) who wants people to ask about.
Most likely.