I feel really insecure about my ugly, small, flat bum?

[Anonymous]

Every guy I have liked has rejected me for girls who have a nice, big bum and an overall thicc body. I went to the gym to get in shape. I've been going for 8 months and the only noticeable difference is that my bum looks only slightly less flat but overall it still looks flat. It has not grown in size at all. I read somewhere that having a big bum is all to do with genes and that some girls are lucky that they have genes that allow them to grow a big bum.

I've always been a petite girl. People tell me to eat more and I do but it doesn't make the slightest bit difference.

How am I supposed to find anyone to date when guys just want women with big arses?

[EclipseoftheHeart]

You really want a big ass? Have fat lipo and use that fat to inject into your arse like I've seen done on Botched to women who wanted bigger asses. I don't know why some find those butts filled with Jello so hot. You slap them on the ass and they jiggle for an hour.

[Asker]

I don't want a fake ass. I want a natural one. Fake ones look ugly.

[EclipseoftheHeart]

well complain to genetics then because it is your genes that govern that.

[Anonymous]

Eat a lot of avacado and do squats. Also drink a lot of milk and eat some Cream.

[Asker]

You think I haven't tried all that? I do all of that and it doesn't make the slightest bit of difference.

[Opinion Owner]

You can do plastic surgery but I don't Think its worth it or take estrogen but that can be dangerous and then you should check with doctor first

[Truthatanycost]

If you were going to the gym and training to get a bigger ass, you'd also need to have enough calories to make a difference as well. I bet you didn't...

[Asker]

Yes I did. I was (still am) eating 3500 calories a day.

[Logorithim]

You're fine. Any guy for whom a girls butt is a dealbreaker is one you dont want to date anyway.

[OlderAndWiser]

Why do you think that all guys want "thick" girls with big butts?

[r3or3o]

Couple thoughts. Are the guys you are going for the kind that a lot of girls go for? In other words, do you only like guys who are in the perceived top 20%?

Also, it's less about the size itself, and more about the proportions. 0.7 is generally the waist to hip ratio that most guys prefer, according to several studies.

[LoU_Hades]

not all guys and not always so big.

Probably a little bit training could help you to get smaller waistline more muscles on your thighs. That will make your pelvis objectively thicker.

[BrexitAteMyHamster]

Small bums are much better in my opinion. Some of us much prefer them.

[LiamSawyer]

I hate those big bubble butts, give me a cute small slightly rounded bum any day!

[Browneye57]

Yeah, you aren't changing it. To worry about it is a complete waste of time effort and emotion. Just rock whatcha got.

[goaded]

No. This has been another episode in the series "Simple answers to simple questions".

[2shredded]

Just out of luck I guess, have fun being single forever

[Asker]

Thanks for your kind words.

[2shredded]

Your welcome ☺️

[Sambelfast85]

Nothing wrong with a flat bum. I'm sure that's not a bad thing.

[LogicBomber]

Small bums are so much sexier than big asses.

[Joker_]

As you should

[Asker]

What?

[Joker_]

As you should