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Is it wrong to be picky when looking for an ideal partner? (Page 3)
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I keep my standards low, but boundary’s high. Common sense, I don’t expect him to be perfect, I except him to be who he is. So I can get to know the person, asking my self if I’m compatible with this. Lol
The real person always comes out after a "committed" relationship (marriage). Before that, during the period of lust, everyone is at their best behaviour. What will you achieve by being too picky? You just have to be wise.
No. But one wants to be picky about the things that really matter long term, not the trivial shit.
Hell nah. Being picky is how I found the man I wanna marry. I dont know how itll go yet, but when you find someone that you truly want, i find that you're most happy.
It is all about what you are looking for. Aligning goals and values isn't picky, it is sensible.
I think its great to have standards but don't pass up a guy because of that one mole on his face. lol
The "ideal" is in our head and is never wrong to be picky if you look for something serious. Is something several don't get, to click with someone (a potential partner) don't mean you should stick to that person. Compatibility is important also.
You need a connection and attraction. People prioritize diferent things and have diffent set of minds.
No, I have the same issue and to me those are basic standards not picky.
No, it isn't. The morals, values, and beliefs are far more important to me than aesthetics.
I dont date hos or women who aren't going to give me a bunch of kids. I could have 20 hos so whats the point of dating one? I could have men as friends i dont need a companion, i need someone to make a family.
It's necessary to be picky.
Just don't be unreasonable about it: if you want an abusive relationship, pick a bad guy, because a nice man will never give you one.
Nobody wants to be in an abusive relationship
Try reading the opposite of that sentence
Yeah most women end up with assholes just like men end up with abusive women as well.
Totally agree. And abusive people can be difficult to spot.
After my second ex I always listen to what my friends and family have to say about the girls I date. External people can spot an abusive relationship much more easily.
Yep. My whole family on both sides hated my ex. So yeah, when my family doesn't like them or my close friends, I know it's BAD
Wow capital letters bad means "kill out of jealousy" bad😱
I hope it wasn't that bad 😅
Yes it is but it’s the right thing to do. Don’t settle.
I am very very picky but I feel like this small thing is the only thing I really want which is a good vibe and good chemistry. I just dont feel like Im interested in a relationship if those two factors aren't there.
yes. because characteristics that u dont like become bigger issues in the long run u either hold resentment or u lash out.
If they are small stupid things like you don't want to date him because his hands are ugly.
It’s vital to marry someone with the same ideals, especially when it comes down to morals, values and beliefs
No, not at all. It's called having standards. If you just take the first thing that comes along, you're a desperate fool
No, that's a person that you're (hopefully) spending the rest of your life together. So it's a reasonable thing to aim for.
The higher the bar, the harder to find one of course.