Would you date someone who works nights?

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Neelie1x · Accepted Answer

I've been in a three-year long-distance relationship which fell apart, primarily for lack of sufficient opportunities of intimate times together. There were many nights I simply wanted to be physically close to him but he was miles away.

Wowgirl30q · Accepted Answer

My someone works sixty + hours a week I'd rather nights

hilly90 · Accepted Answer

Yes, I myself work nights. It can be challenging, but if you both work at it it can work just as if you were working days

fashionguy17 · Accepted Answer

Yes. It's not a deal breaker. As long as they have a day off or 2 so we can spend time together.

pingiluv · Answer

I’ve done both, I worked nights myself and dated guys who worked nights not bad it only sucks when they work 5 days a week. I’m used to working 12 hour shifts

OlderAndWiser · Answer

1. If it is legitimate work and not "escort service," and 2. if they have a few nights off every week, I would not hesitate to date them.

Iwant2kno · Answer

Sure! Why not? I’ve worked night shifts before and it would be a pity if that disqualified me as a potential partner. 🤔😄

Jean-Marie_Céline · Answer

Of course, sometimes I work nights myself!

Anonymous · Answer

I would yeah. It’s not ideal if you never see each other but my plan is to do something with better hours (I work nights) so all of that flows better. It’s not bad short term for extra money but not for long term when you’re never able to achieve a balanced family life.
For me it’s only something I’d want to do for so long, and because my employer isn’t flexible on this I’ve decoded to go onto agency so I can pick my own hours dependent on available shifts until I find something else (plus it’s more money).

Fire_Fly · Answer

I’m actually dating some who works nights! 11pm-7am, we talk everyday and night. And in his days off Monday’s and Tuesday’s, we go on our dates.

I don’t think their work schedule should matter, they can’t help the hours they work it’s what they were assigned.

Biancs · Answer

😂 this guy I've been seeing and i both work night shifts bit opposite days. weve been seeing or well trying to see each other bit more lately. reaaaally trying. if things move forward we will probably just need to shuffle shifts at both places so we can work more similar shifts. weve been trading out to fit dates in on the weekends

fauchelevent · Answer

Sure. I work a mixture of shifts, between 8-4, 10-6 and 4-12, with an occasional midnight til 8am shift thrown in every month or so. I would be willing to try it

pleasestopthis · Answer

Someone who works nights, like, all week?
I worked night shifts too but I still had a couple days off to do whatever and relax.
It may work out, but in case you want family life with that person, it may be difficult.

Massageman · Answer

My wife stayed married to me and I worked full rotating shifts each week.
Now, my wife has to frequently work at night since her clients work all day.
We make it work even though our schedules are seldom in synch.

elissa23Trans · Answer

Yes, as long as he does a decent night job. If he is a chippendale, then I’m gone lol

ariadneR · Answer

Dont see why not.  he's supporting himself, why would I not? Seems silly otherwise

belle_kai · Answer

I have done and it didn't work in the end. There were also trust issues

JackSmy · Answer

Why Not? She's getting home, after her shift, and maybe we shower together and have a meal, then snuggle, sleep, until I have to get up and leave, hating leaving her!! :)

themomo84 · Answer

If they were worth it, I worked graveyard for 3 years and it's tough, believe me.

stravroula81 · Answer

I dated women who worked nights at times she a police officer.

ChiTown33 · Answer

I been on days for 11 years now if i did i would probably switch back to nights.

jgokgotit · Answer

I work nights so this would be perfect for me.

humanearth · Answer

Nope. I'm a very early morning person. Like 3 am

Kimsebilmesin · Answer

I wouldn't prefer but if i love him i would

Sha84 · Answer

sure then can date someone else at night

JessieLo · Answer

Currently do

Factshurt90 · Answer

I’d HATE it, but yea

Lauren-green · Answer

Yes I would

Meditatingsquirrel79 · Answer

Fine with me.

Exterminatore · Answer

Sure.

Cute_syrian · Answer

Yes i can

pizzalovershouse · Answer

not if I don't have same work hours

AtramentalIvory · Answer

Yes, I would

Hurdleez-Swampede · Answer

Absolutely. I wouldn't disqualify them for that.

corsiecuthbert · Answer

Yes my wife works 12 hour nightshifts

CubsterShura · Answer

I can live with it

damaster · Answer

Yes I would

davy8472 · Answer

Why not

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