It's not a social thing, it's a mating thing/instinct based on fitness to provide and fitness to breed, and THAT is what bled into social norms. This is how humans always behave. Girls like the guy with the nice car when few other guys even have cars, right? same thing.
The majority didn't have nice cars during the great depression and women were still marrying men. It's a generational Marxist feminist hypergamy thing.
@ThisAndThat While I don't 100% agree with all points in your first statement, mostly because Cars were only one of endless examples I could have used. In that era (depression) any man who worked at a bank and could afford to live alone was a fine catch for prospecting young women! But, alas, I must concede your second statement rings especially true today. it's sad, in some ways, how the voices of the very few can sound so annoyingly loud in everyone's ears without mercy.
I mean if both parties are fine with it I feel like nothing. Something I could see in the future is people not feeling as valued because it's all based on finance. Me personally I would have no issue giving companionship in exchange for nice things. It has the potential to give a bad name for the majority because of the minority.
I think most men have no problem with women who are OPEN about their gold digger ways.
What frightens men is the possibility of meeting a "nice girl" who HIDES her gold digging intentions, and rinses him clean once they're married.
I have no doubt that some men are happy to date physically attractive gold diggers, in that case the exchange is reciprocal (her looks for his resources). But most men just want to avoid the gold diggers who pretend not to be gold diggers in the beginning.
In all honesty I think the term golddigger is just another phrase for hoe with high standards... Men do not always like women for their physical attraction but for their internal attraction there is simply no point having a physically attractive lady if she can't speak to you respectfully
Yes it is. A woman stays with a man for his money, leave him when he gets broke. A man stays with his woman just for her looks, and as she gets older or suffers an illness or whatever that's causing her to not be as attractive anymore, and you leave her. Same shallow attitude and no one with that attitude deserves a relationship.
what's bad with being a gold digger is that maybe the guy wants a relationship, maybe he's in love with her I don't know and but she just wants his money, so you know, it will break his heart. If she's a gold digger, once she finds someone with more money she'll leave him, and that shit is not okay>.< it's just a fucking hoe
You a pick me ass female lol girl talk about men who use woman for their looks about body what’s it she loves him? What about when woman get old and their old fucking husband cheats for a younger woman and now uses that cash for and starts fucking with the same goldiggers he said he hated smh
Emmalouise03 you’re mad cuz you’re a pick me and I love how you’re a woman but you can only talk about woman and not men and when they hurt woman fucking pick me ass b lol ew girls like you sound desperate 😂
@Roxilicious sorry, I've seen enough stuff in my country and sometimes on this site that has convinced me that equality between men and women is not what feminists want.
Also what's wrong with being a pick me girl nobody's perfect it dosent make them any less and it sure as shit dosent show your desperate it shows your humble and not stuck up which is attractive
Cocoacolaaddict let me get this straight you want me to feel sorry for men getting used but than not talk about woman getting hurt? Pretend it’s less important than when a man gets hurts? Nope sorry I’m not defending men on this one I see a lot of you defending liking woman for her looks and say that shits not shallow when it really is. Men aren’t any better for liking woman for their looks you guys are just as shallow and f’d up period
And well dchris that’s not my problem I’m my own person and go by exactly what the definition means try and argue about what kind of feminism I am and watch how dumb you end up looking I 100% hate when people try and argue with me over choosing to be a feminist and than trying to tell me who I am and what I believe passed on that you don’t 💁🏽♀️
And you’re gonna look dumb once you actually ask about my actual viewpoint on topics 💁🏽♀️ I’m very feminist try me nothing about me is man hating but I definitely see this as some bs bs this is not right
Yes it does men always want to use does two wrongs make a right after they do something shitty and don’t want woman acting the same because suddenly we are gonna be mean and bad woman nope save it this is what guys deserve for treating woman like rag dolls you can just use if it’s pretty to you and throw away to you find the prettier rag doll tf lol but let woman be with men for their money right
I go for normal guys who make me laugh and treat me good 💁🏽♀️ oh and since I can, I go for attractive men only and no big guys or guys with pimples and no shorter than 5,9
Well I’m not gonna date a guys who’s homeless or on drugs or has no life plans even if I have my own already I just would feel like he doesn’t take care of his life and that would mean he wouldn’t even be able to be a good boyfriend since his priorities aren’t straight to start but I would date a guy with any old job or living situation as long as he’s doing something
@Roxilicious well there you have it your still using him in some small way it may not be huge but you are still using him to provide for you may still genuinely like him and love him but your still using him for his money because you wouldn't date somebody you have nothing to gain from its the same with guys and looks a lot of guys look for someone who looks decent don't have to be beautiful or anything but he's still using her looks slightly which would be indicating towards sex so women use men for provision and men use women also for sex but it dosent mean they don't also genuinely like each other
And there’s nothing to gain from that other than knowing you’re with someone who actually cares about their situation and cares about people around them it shows they have a good character
@Roxilicious you also said you wouldn't date a man who hasn't got his shit together I. e nothing to gain you said you want a man who at least has a job so they can at least provide for you that's still using their money because if you went you would reject their money all together and just provide for yourself
But it is women are attracted to strength which is security knowing their safe and provision so they are fed and looked after and men go for looks because it intrigues their drive for sex sex resulting in children
I didn’t not say I want a man to have a job so he can at least provide for me stop making that up lol I literally said it’s because I want to know they have goals and plans just like me 💁🏽♀️
And wrong that’s not how society works today woman don’t wait for a husband to come take care of them especially not here in America 🤦🏽♀️ that’s how the past was today we all working and doing what we have to and yes men still choosing To date like before and just wanting to go for good looking woman makes you guys the shallow fucked up ones tf at least goldiggers with woman aren’t all of us but with men that’s mainly all of you
@Roxilicious I never said you didn't say that in fact I said you did I added the provision thing because its common sense you want a man to have goals like you so you know your not dating somebody you feel is beneath you hence why the no drugs thing you want somebody you feel is your equal and worth your time not somebody you feel is going nowhere
Choosing a woman who looks decent is the same as choosing a man with a stable job its biology its just the male and female equivalent looks to attract men to make baby's and provision to provide for the woman and child ad well as maintaining a reliable partner
@Roxilicious no not in the slighest there are many great non beautiful women just like there are many great homeless guys without jobs but neither gender chooses them because they want somebody they deem better they want quality or rather they want someone who can fulfill their needs but neither of them are beneath anybody because they were people like them once nobody is just born homeless or with the issues they face they have just fallen on hard times
And what about ugly woman? At least the broke homeless guy still has a shot but ugly woman are literally just thrown away and never loved like trash for the rest of their lives
You know why I would never do some dumb shit like that again though? He clearly was someone who didn’t even care about himself in the first place and not once throughout that whole time did he show signs he wanted to get better 🤦🏽♀️
@Roxilicious well if you are telling the truth then that's news to me and probably a one off and didn't you say earlier you wouldn't date a homeless guy?
That’s the way most people who choose that lifestyle are and I’m here in the real ass gutter so I know how people end up on those streets drugs for the most part or sometimes foster kids and the mentally ill when they loose everyone they love
What you think? Of course girls are dating broke men that happens all the time woman run on our emotions a lot of woman date men regardless of how they are because woman are loving like that it’s not often woman go for money and that’s the truth
@Roxilicious iv never ever met or heard of a woman who didn't want a stable man with a job stability equates to money in modern society and I won't lie to you I don't see much lovingness coming from women these days all I see is women putting men down
@Roxilicious I had to look up what 'a pick me' means, and wow, I was talking about gold diggers. I wasn't talking about anything else, u judge me because of an opinion I have on something that has nothing to do with feminism. You don't even know about my opinions? I got tons of them, I'm defending women too, but you feminists don't understand what equality means. Why should we ONLY talk about women's perspective? Why not men's perspective as well? If we don't do that, then BITCH ITS NOT EQUALITY.
It ALWAYS happens what do you mean lol there’s always broke ass families and couples walking in the streets together and yes those are real life woman making bad fucking decisions in the name of love 🙄 and men tbh don’t deserve good treatment for the most part
Of course it dosent like I said there are great unnatractive women and great homeless jobless men it dosent make them less it just means they won't get chosen
I’m not a man hater but I can still see the bullshit that men do 💁🏽♀️ it is bullshit that all of you think the exact same says and it’s socially acceptable but woman are not allowed that because if we all thought the same like goldiggers men would never allow that shit to happen let’s be real everything woman can be is all due to how men react to it period
Not always some women abuse their husbands my dads wife when he came home from a hard days work he just wanted to relax when she has been at home chilling all day he asked her to make him a cup of tea and she told him to make it himself she also hit him over the head with frying pans so no not all women treat their husbands right and yes I agree with you both genders are shallow but it dosent make it OK to be shallow ourselves if we want to build a better world we must first become better ourselves
And woman get abused more often either ways actually look at the domestic violence charts the sad part about it is most woman will experience domestic violence at some point and I don’t agree with domestic violence against men at all but I’m js that’s a lot more likely to happen to woman and yes we’ll talk to men about it because it’s still you guys who are more likely to be shallow I don’t see not one woman on here agreeing to date men for money and actually trying to defend that but I can see plenty if not all men on here defending loving woman for their looks
@Roxilicious You're such an angry feminist, just chill wtf;-; lol I'm not super submissive, but I'm not a feminist either, I'm just in the middle. But you're just angry, and I shouldn't have to delete my opinion because you wouldn't shut up:3
@Roxilicious yes that's true its more likely because its easier when your a lot stronger but its really a gender thing studies show that women molest little boys more than men do it just goes to show when you have more power its easier to to bad things its not a gender problem its just the individuals who chose to behave badly
what does submissive and feminist have to do with eachother what exactly do you think feminist all do in relationships Emma? 🤦🏽♀️ you do realize you sound fucking stupid right lol and than girl move on with yourself tf lol I’m not gonna stop replying I’m still talking to him 💁🏽♀️
And Coca-Cola that doesn’t make it right and it’s actually really sad if you think about it and I don’t know about that maybe true because I know my cousin when we were young got molested by his aunt and he told me I still am keeping it a secret though he never said anything and I still see her I swear sometimes I wish I could kill her I can’t stand knowing what I know
@Roxilicious you sound stupid judging me without knowing me, and talking about something else than what my fucking opinion is about with some random guy on the internet for hours.
@Roxilicious how about you get your slutty ass out of my comment section bitch? if you support gold diggers then you're a SLUT. And if you NEED to keep talking with this guy, then why tf don't u message him? u are both such drama queens not being able to STFU. I'm not fuckin responding more, and I won't delete my fucking opinion, I'll just block u instead ugh
Well statistics only report what's reported we don't know about the unreported incidences a lot of men are ashamed to report because of the pressure on society and for fear they will be called weak and ridiculed
Because it's stupid. No relationship is guaranteed to last so when/if he leaves you're shit outta of luck and can't do shit for yourself. Also a lot of gold diggers don't even love the guy, they're basically just leading the guy on and depending on how old he is hoping he'll die soon so they get his money. If you ask me that's a lot worse than guys having a preference for big butts or boobs, at least they aren't leading on someone who they aren't even attracted to.
"Hottie-digger", and gold-digger wouldn't be the same thing. A hottie would naturally attract a man, gold-diggers have one thing in mind only, and that is money, they couldn't care less about the person. And what's wrong with it? It's pathetic and immoral.
So you would be fine with spending the rest of your life with an old unattractive old fat guy who is rich? If yes, and all you look for in a man is money then go for it. You can also get a job for that.
If you want a romantic relationship with love involved, then gio for someone you like, otherwise there are plenty of desperate men that will happily waste their money in you.
Meh I just clicked something. But I only think it's bad if the rich person is being used without the person knowing that he or she is being used. If the gold digger takes advantage of a person who isn't aware he or she is being used... then I think it's bad.
Its cause it sounds like gold diggers only like the money the men have instead of the person himself. A nice ass is great but its still about who its attached to that makes it sexy. Doesn't have to be that big either. But I hope women still find rich men attractive for their personality too
I think it's fine to be a gold digger as long as the guy knows that you only want his money. Prostitution is legal in my country and I don't see why it shouldn't be.
For most, I don't object to it. In my opinion, most people (men primarily, but in equality times, we must not generalise) who are either stupid/willing/desperate enough, to in some way pay for the company of someone, well, they know what they are getting into, so what's wrong there. The person who does the "digging", well... one might suggest, that it is simply a line of work for people that don't go well with normal work culture, or who is just plain lazy, but still wants to live well.
This 'post' touches on a subject, but only seems to be trying to justify using others for money, with a flimsy excuse that the counterpart uses for looks... as if women don't also use for looks.
Look I know the stereotypes...
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Nothing. It's nothing for me but I don't judge the women who gold dig. There is obviously a market for them, rich men who doesn't mind throwing their money at a hot chick so she'll be with them. She's not using the man as i'm pretty sure he's usually aware that she's a golddigger and is fine with that.
it's not a double standard. men that are into bimbos are equally frowned upon as the bimbos themselves. men want beautiful women, women want beautiful men. that's how we choose the partner to procreate, however there are also other factors and being intentionally blind to those won't create a sustainable relationship. that's what is so bad about it.
But both genders like to have attractive partners, that doesn't mean we should use guys for their money. I mean everybody wants to date somebody that they find sexy or attractive, sooo why would that make it right for woman to use men for money?
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It's not a social thing, it's a mating thing/instinct based on fitness to provide and fitness to breed, and THAT is what bled into social norms. This is how humans always behave. Girls like the guy with the nice car when few other guys even have cars, right? same thing.
The majority didn't have nice cars during the great depression and women were still marrying men. It's a generational Marxist feminist hypergamy thing.
@ThisAndThat While I don't 100% agree with all points in your first statement, mostly because Cars were only one of endless examples I could have used. In that era (depression) any man who worked at a bank and could afford to live alone was a fine catch for prospecting young women! But, alas, I must concede your second statement rings especially true today. it's sad, in some ways, how the voices of the very few can sound so annoyingly loud in everyone's ears without mercy.
I mean if both parties are fine with it I feel like nothing. Something I could see in the future is people not feeling as valued because it's all based on finance. Me personally I would have no issue giving companionship in exchange for nice things. It has the potential to give a bad name for the majority because of the minority.
I think most men have no problem with women who are OPEN about their gold digger ways.
What frightens men is the possibility of meeting a "nice girl" who HIDES her gold digging intentions, and rinses him clean once they're married.
I have no doubt that some men are happy to date physically attractive gold diggers, in that case the exchange is reciprocal (her looks for his resources). But most men just want to avoid the gold diggers who pretend not to be gold diggers in the beginning.
In all honesty I think the term golddigger is just another phrase for hoe with high standards... Men do not always like women for their physical attraction but for their internal attraction there is simply no point having a physically attractive lady if she can't speak to you respectfully
Lol!
What a load of crap.
Being attractive is still part of that person... that is part of her.
Money is not part of a person, it is an external thing having nothing to do with his personhood.
Being drawn to youth and beauty is being drawn to HER.
Being drawn to someone's bank account is being a prostitute.
Sorry but it's the same shit. You don't love a person if you just love her appearance. Beauty and wealth can both be lost in a split second.
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No.
Not even close.
Yes it is. A woman stays with a man for his money, leave him when he gets broke. A man stays with his woman just for her looks, and as she gets older or suffers an illness or whatever that's causing her to not be as attractive anymore, and you leave her. Same shallow attitude and no one with that attitude deserves a relationship.
what's bad with being a gold digger is that maybe the guy wants a relationship, maybe he's in love with her I don't know and but she just wants his money, so you know, it will break his heart. If she's a gold digger, once she finds someone with more money she'll leave him, and that shit is not okay>.< it's just a fucking hoe
We want to be loved for who we are not what we own
You a pick me ass female lol girl talk about men who use woman for their looks about body what’s it she loves him? What about when woman get old and their old fucking husband cheats for a younger woman and now uses that cash for and starts fucking with the same goldiggers he said he hated smh
@Roxilicious you’re probably a gold digger
@Emmalouise03 or a feminist.
Emmalouise03 you’re mad cuz you’re a pick me and I love how you’re a woman but you can only talk about woman and not men and when they hurt woman fucking pick me ass b lol ew girls like you sound desperate 😂
And what’s wrong with feminist? Somethings wrong with believing in equality between men and woman?
Sorry I think using woman is just as wrong as men getting used 🤦🏽♀️
@Roxilicious lol sure ya do that's why your defending gold digging right because you totally don't like being used?
@Roxilicious sorry, I've seen enough stuff in my country and sometimes on this site that has convinced me that equality between men and women is not what feminists want.
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Also what's wrong with being a pick me girl nobody's perfect it dosent make them any less and it sure as shit dosent show your desperate it shows your humble and not stuck up which is attractive
Cocoacolaaddict let me get this straight you want me to feel sorry for men getting used but than not talk about woman getting hurt? Pretend it’s less important than when a man gets hurts? Nope sorry I’m not defending men on this one I see a lot of you defending liking woman for her looks and say that shits not shallow when it really is. Men aren’t any better for liking woman for their looks you guys are just as shallow and f’d up period
And well dchris that’s not my problem I’m my own person and go by exactly what the definition means try and argue about what kind of feminism I am and watch how dumb you end up looking I 100% hate when people try and argue with me over choosing to be a feminist and than trying to tell me who I am and what I believe passed on that you don’t 💁🏽♀️
@Roxilicious didn't ask you to feel sorry for anyone just doubting the sincerity of your statement
I agree with you both are shallow but does that make it OK to behave the same in return 2 wrongs don't make a right
And you’re gonna look dumb once you actually ask about my actual viewpoint on topics 💁🏽♀️ I’m very feminist try me nothing about me is man hating but I definitely see this as some bs bs this is not right
Like guys who disregard girls because their not attractive is shitty and well I dont even need to go there with girls
Yes it does men always want to use does two wrongs make a right after they do something shitty and don’t want woman acting the same because suddenly we are gonna be mean and bad woman nope save it this is what guys deserve for treating woman like rag dolls you can just use if it’s pretty to you and throw away to you find the prettier rag doll tf lol but let woman be with men for their money right
@Roxilicious let me ask you a question a be mature about it what type of man do you go for what kind of guy is it your looking for?
What kind of question is that 🤦🏽♀️ next this has nothing to do with what we’re talking about
@Roxilicious it is relevant and your will define my next point
I go for normal guys who make me laugh and treat me good 💁🏽♀️ oh and since I can, I go for attractive men only and no big guys or guys with pimples and no shorter than 5,9
@Roxilicious what about money wise I assume at the bare minimum you want someone stable?
Well I’m not gonna date a guys who’s homeless or on drugs or has no life plans even if I have my own already I just would feel like he doesn’t take care of his life and that would mean he wouldn’t even be able to be a good boyfriend since his priorities aren’t straight to start but I would date a guy with any old job or living situation as long as he’s doing something
@Roxilicious well there you have it your still using him in some small way it may not be huge but you are still using him to provide for you may still genuinely like him and love him but your still using him for his money because you wouldn't date somebody you have nothing to gain from its the same with guys and looks a lot of guys look for someone who looks decent don't have to be beautiful or anything but he's still using her looks slightly which would be indicating towards sex so women use men for provision and men use women also for sex but it dosent mean they don't also genuinely like each other
Where did I say I’m using him to provide? Don’t twist what I said up I clearly said I want someone who has a plan EVEN THOUGH I HAVE MY OWN ALREADY
And there’s nothing to gain from that other than knowing you’re with someone who actually cares about their situation and cares about people around them it shows they have a good character
It’s not the same as men going for woman for their looks at all 🤦🏽♀️
@Roxilicious you also said you wouldn't date a man who hasn't got his shit together I. e nothing to gain you said you want a man who at least has a job so they can at least provide for you that's still using their money because if you went you would reject their money all together and just provide for yourself
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But it is women are attracted to strength which is security knowing their safe and provision so they are fed and looked after and men go for looks because it intrigues their drive for sex sex resulting in children
I didn’t not say I want a man to have a job so he can at least provide for me stop making that up lol I literally said it’s because I want to know they have goals and plans just like me 💁🏽♀️
And wrong that’s not how society works today woman don’t wait for a husband to come take care of them especially not here in America 🤦🏽♀️ that’s how the past was today we all working and doing what we have to and yes men still choosing
To date like before and just wanting to go for good looking woman makes you guys the shallow fucked up ones tf at least goldiggers with woman aren’t all of us but with men that’s mainly all of you
@Roxilicious I never said you didn't say that in fact I said you did I added the provision thing because its common sense you want a man to have goals like you so you know your not dating somebody you feel is beneath you hence why the no drugs thing you want somebody you feel is your equal and worth your time not somebody you feel is going nowhere
Choosing a woman who looks decent is the same as choosing a man with a stable job its biology its just the male and female equivalent looks to attract men to make baby's and provision to provide for the woman and child ad well as maintaining a reliable partner
And men choosing to woman who are good looking only is the same as saying ugly or decent looking woman are beneath him so what’s the problem 🤦🏽♀️
@Roxilicious no not in the slighest there are many great non beautiful women just like there are many great homeless guys without jobs but neither gender chooses them because they want somebody they deem better they want quality or rather they want someone who can fulfill their needs but neither of them are beneath anybody because they were people like them once nobody is just born homeless or with the issues they face they have just fallen on hard times
And that's actually not true unattractive women get partners too
And what about ugly woman? At least the broke homeless guy still has a shot but ugly woman are literally just thrown away and never loved like trash for the rest of their lives
And so do broke guys so 💁🏽♀️
What’s your point?
@Roxilicious actually no nobody wants a man without a job
Stop lying lol woman are always dating men without jobs shit my first real boyfriend was homeless and I took his ass in 🙄
You know why I would never do some dumb shit like that again though? He clearly was someone who didn’t even care about himself in the first place and not once throughout that whole time did he show signs he wanted to get better 🤦🏽♀️
@Roxilicious well if you are telling the truth then that's news to me and probably a one off and didn't you say earlier you wouldn't date a homeless guy?
That’s the way most people who choose that lifestyle are and I’m here in the real ass gutter so I know how people end up on those streets drugs for the most part or sometimes foster kids and the mentally ill when they loose everyone they love
But you can def tell who’s who
And yes I did I wouldn’t now because I definitely know the consequences of loving someone who was homeless/broke
@Roxilicious like I said nobody wants a nobody men and women both
What you think? Of course girls are dating broke men that happens all the time woman run on our emotions a lot of woman date men regardless of how they are because woman are loving like that it’s not often woman go for money and that’s the truth
And being homeless and broke is not the say as being ugly and being ugly doesn’t make you a nobody woman
@Roxilicious iv never ever met or heard of a woman who didn't want a stable man with a job stability equates to money in modern society and I won't lie to you I don't see much lovingness coming from women these days all I see is women putting men down
@Roxilicious I had to look up what 'a pick me' means, and wow, I was talking about gold diggers. I wasn't talking about anything else, u judge me because of an opinion I have on something that has nothing to do with feminism. You don't even know about my opinions?
I got tons of them, I'm defending women too, but you feminists don't understand what equality means. Why should we ONLY talk about women's perspective? Why not men's perspective as well? If we don't do that, then BITCH ITS NOT EQUALITY.
It ALWAYS happens what do you mean lol there’s always broke ass families and couples walking in the streets together and yes those are real life woman making bad fucking decisions in the name of love 🙄 and men tbh don’t deserve good treatment for the most part
Of course it dosent like I said there are great unnatractive women and great homeless jobless men it dosent make them less it just means they won't get chosen
But woman always treat men right anyways unfortunately
And it’s both due to same shallowness
See that's the problem you say your not a man hater yet your saying men deserve bad things to happen to them
I’m not a man hater but I can still see the bullshit that men do 💁🏽♀️ it is bullshit that all of you think the exact same says and it’s socially acceptable but woman are not allowed that because if we all thought the same like goldiggers men would never allow that shit to happen let’s be real everything woman can be is all due to how men react to it period
@Cocacolaaddict can u two talk in messages or some shit, i'm getting too many notifications, this is pathetic;-;
And there’s always pick me’a like that Emma who allow it all to have a mans approval on being a good woman like it’s sickening honestly
Girl stfu delete your comment if it bothers you so much
Not always some women abuse their husbands my dads wife when he came home from a hard days work he just wanted to relax when she has been at home chilling all day he asked her to make him a cup of tea and she told him to make it himself she also hit him over the head with frying pans so no not all women treat their husbands right and yes I agree with you both genders are shallow but it dosent make it OK to be shallow ourselves if we want to build a better world we must first become better ourselves
@Roxilicious uh who said I'm that girl? don't judge me bitch
I see it too and I'm. the first to call people out when their acting like an arsehole
And woman get abused more often either ways actually look at the domestic violence charts the sad part about it is most woman will experience domestic violence at some point and I don’t agree with domestic violence against men at all but I’m js that’s a lot more likely to happen to woman and yes we’ll talk to men about it because it’s still you guys who are more likely to be shallow I don’t see not one woman on here agreeing to date men for money and actually trying to defend that but I can see plenty if not all men on here defending loving woman for their looks
You say we all think the same OK how do we think?
And Emma and if I did BITCH?
@Roxilicious You're such an angry feminist, just chill wtf;-; lol
I'm not super submissive, but I'm not a feminist either, I'm just in the middle.
But you're just angry, and I shouldn't have to delete my opinion because you wouldn't shut up:3
@Roxilicious yes that's true its more likely because its easier when your a lot stronger but its really a gender thing studies show that women molest little boys more than men do it just goes to show when you have more power its easier to to bad things its not a gender problem its just the individuals who chose to behave badly
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what does submissive and feminist have to do with eachother what exactly do you think feminist all do in relationships Emma? 🤦🏽♀️ you do realize you sound fucking stupid right lol and than girl move on with yourself tf lol I’m not gonna stop replying I’m still talking to him 💁🏽♀️
And Coca-Cola that doesn’t make it right and it’s actually really sad if you think about it and I don’t know about that maybe true because I know my cousin when we were young got molested by his aunt and he told me I still am keeping it a secret though he never said anything and I still see her I swear sometimes I wish I could kill her I can’t stand knowing what I know
@Roxilicious you sound stupid judging me without knowing me, and talking about something else than what my fucking opinion is about with some random guy on the internet for hours.
@Roxilicious of not but the point is its not that one gender is worse than the other it's the individuals who happen to be that gender
You sounded a lot more stupid though and okay? Delete your comment if it’s bothering you dummy lmao nobody told you that you have to deal with it 😂
I want to agree with that statement but statistics at least on rape and domestic violence cases show it is men more often.
@Roxilicious yes that's true and its horrible but the statistics of bad deeds rack up on both sides one is not worse than the other
@Roxilicious how about you get your slutty ass out of my comment section bitch? if you support gold diggers then you're a SLUT. And if you NEED to keep talking with this guy, then why tf don't u message him? u are both such drama queens not being able to STFU.
I'm not fuckin responding more, and I won't delete my fucking opinion, I'll just block u instead ugh
Coca as in bad deeds when you go to prison or like without getting caught bad deeds
And bitch you mad lol
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@Roxilicious both in general men and women are equally as bad as each other
That’s not actually true according to static’s and what you’re talking about
@Roxilicious hahha yeah laugh all u want u angry ass feminist, also, lose some weight u fat cunt
Well statistics only report what's reported we don't know about the unreported incidences a lot of men are ashamed to report because of the pressure on society and for fear they will be called weak and ridiculed
Because it's stupid. No relationship is guaranteed to last so when/if he leaves you're shit outta of luck and can't do shit for yourself. Also a lot of gold diggers don't even love the guy, they're basically just leading the guy on and depending on how old he is hoping he'll die soon so they get his money. If you ask me that's a lot worse than guys having a preference for big butts or boobs, at least they aren't leading on someone who they aren't even attracted to.
"Hottie-digger", and gold-digger wouldn't be the same thing. A hottie would naturally attract a man, gold-diggers have one thing in mind only, and that is money, they couldn't care less about the person.
And what's wrong with it? It's pathetic and immoral.
So you would be fine with spending the rest of your life with an old unattractive old fat guy who is rich?
If yes, and all you look for in a man is money then go for it. You can also get a job for that.
If you want a romantic relationship with love involved, then gio for someone you like, otherwise there are plenty of desperate men that will happily waste their money in you.
Personally I feel there is nothing worse or more degrading to the female gender, than a glorified pathetic female parasite/gold digger.
Meh I just clicked something. But I only think it's bad if the rich person is being used without the person knowing that he or she is being used. If the gold digger takes advantage of a person who isn't aware he or she is being used... then I think it's bad.
If both are aware, it's cool
Its cause it sounds like gold diggers only like the money the men have instead of the person himself. A nice ass is great but its still about who its attached to that makes it sexy. Doesn't have to be that big either. But I hope women still find rich men attractive for their personality too
I think it's fine to be a gold digger as long as the guy knows that you only want his money. Prostitution is legal in my country and I don't see why it shouldn't be.
Because you’re using someone for their money and that’s disgusting! Get your own money.
Finally a girl who is sane 😍
@Maximilian294 And I also have a job where I make my own money 👍
For most, I don't object to it. In my opinion, most people (men primarily, but in equality times, we must not generalise) who are either stupid/willing/desperate enough, to in some way pay for the company of someone, well, they know what they are getting into, so what's wrong there. The person who does the "digging", well... one might suggest, that it is simply a line of work for people that don't go well with normal work culture, or who is just plain lazy, but still wants to live well.
This 'post' touches on a subject, but only seems to be trying to justify using others for money, with a flimsy excuse that the counterpart uses for looks... as if women don't also use for looks.
Look I know the stereotypes...
Nothing. It's nothing for me but I don't judge the women who gold dig. There is obviously a market for them, rich men who doesn't mind throwing their money at a hot chick so she'll be with them. She's not using the man as i'm pretty sure he's usually aware that she's a golddigger and is fine with that.
it's not a double standard. men that are into bimbos are equally frowned upon as the bimbos themselves. men want beautiful women, women want beautiful men. that's how we choose the partner to procreate, however there are also other factors and being intentionally blind to those won't create a sustainable relationship. that's what is so bad about it.
Yeah seriously, I’ve asked what men desire in a woman on here and many say “hot ass tits etc”
It’s so dumb
I have seen some similar question here and many say things like honesty, loyalty, caring and intelligence.
But both genders like to have attractive partners, that doesn't mean we should use guys for their money. I mean everybody wants to date somebody that they find sexy or attractive, sooo why would that make it right for woman to use men for money?