Not really. Every person is different. For me personally, I do not actually kiss someone until I feel comfortable around them. This tends to be after 1-2 months of knowing someone. I've been on dates with men who started pressuring me to have sex with them. I immediately dumped them. Anyone who tries to pressure you into doing something that you don't want to do is a loser and not worth your time.
If they have a problem with the way I do things they are perfectly free to leave and find someone else.
Kissing and holding hands by the end of the first date. Making out after the first 3-5 dates. Strictly fondling for a month/month and a half. Then sex. Then after having sex a few times, then oral. That’s my weird ass comfortability timeline.
Not really. Like you said, it varies and no schedule. However when we start dating, I think something should happen by the third date. Could be anything, but something. Even just a hug. I'm thinking about someone I dated once, and we went on 3 dates and nothing at all happened. I wasn't really feeling a "spark" or connection with her, and I'm assuming she didn't either, but she also wanted to continue dating which I wasn't sure why? Maybe she thought it might take a little longer?
If we’ve both had sex before it’s probably going to be instant to weeks after being s couple.
If one person hasn’t had sex it can sometimes be a whole different timeline. Realistically it’s about them getting comfortable with that step in their life though, much more then “that step in the relationship”. And that’s okay.
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I don't really have a timeline for that. I just go with the flow and do what feels right. I like to give the guy a surprise kiss on the first date tho.
I personally, go deep in communication really fast, so for me it's important to make a mental and spiritual connection on the first conversation, even if it's not on a date.
If that happens, I can wait for the physical stuff, but usually when conversations are good, passion is also there and it's shown by touches, looks, words. That, for me, is way more than holding hands, etc.
No timeline per se. Its just a feeling aboit how things have gone and where they are going. If things take too long them you need to talk abput expectations. Communication is always key in a relationship, especially in the early days
I have never had a guy who didn’t want to advance to the next level, so I take things at my pace
I don't have a timeline because it takes the fun out of it. It is more personal to go at each other's pace and get physical when both people are comfortable.
Yes i bring my timer everytime i see them and tell them that once the timer goes off we get intimate. 😜😎
There’s no timeline for that. As long as you feel comfortable enough to enjoy the moment, I believe it’s all good!
Not to a sense. All I know is that I only have sex after we are official and are together for some months
No. Only if I'm deeply in love with him and trust he has the same feelings.
I'm kind of beyond caring about chasing tail. If they don't have sex, i don't really care. If she's fine at literally everything else, cool.
I usually say after 3 months, then intimacy can be more applied.
Yes it would bother me if it hadn't happens after a period of time
When comfort level is there
sex by 3rd date or there is no 4th date
Wish I could say that I've had intercourse
Case by case
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