Just like some people like them more handsome than uglier or more rude than kind, there are people that like rich persons more like poor there are even people that like the poor as well.
I doubt you'd get so many women coming in support of a man dating only curvy women
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If you just see men as financial objects you're no better than men who just see women as tits and ass. Stop pretending like being a gold digger is something wholesome.
How is wanting your family well taken care of and a husband whose not stressed out doing slave labor wrong? The higher his pay the more likely the woman has of spending more time with her husband and him being healthy not killing himself working 100 hours a week
@flowers70 there is a Very big difference between mating with someone, who can provide enough resources for it and mating with someone primarily just because he's rich.
@flowers70 Where exactly do you live where people that earn more, have more free time? That is the opposite here in America. In fact, I don't know of anywhere where that is true. Typically, the more you earn, the more responsibilities you have and thus, the less amount of time you have for your family. Think Elon Musk, he works 80 hours a week on average. Most CEO's, same thing. So while I think your logic stems from good intentions, you're misguided on the amount of "time for family" most Rich men have. Unless you're born into wealth, hard work is the basis of becoming rich and I think you'd be surprised to find that a lot of rich men, don't really care about the traditional family life that you appear to be fond of. That being said, Rich men have more options. No shade, a lot of women fantasize about rich men, but rarely invest in themselves enough to be of value to rich men. If you're looking for love, its a totally different story (I don't judge, its your life), but if money is basically what you're looking for in a man, you should expect a rich man to be at least as shallow as what brought you to him in the first place.
@Pegases You're right. In the US and other conservative capitalistic societies the less you have to start with the harder you must work to gain more than someone who already started with more, who could grow that more quickly and with less time and effort.
She might be from Asia, like possibly Korea or China where society runs differently. For one thing, looks are considered for employment. Which means maybe people who look the way they want achieve more with less effort. One possibility anyway.
The difference between a gold digger and you is honesty and owning it. There are so many women in the world that any guy who is offended by your preference isn’t worth it ether way.
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meanwhile I'm sure the guys would be fine with only wanting to date hot girls
But you can’t date a wonderful human being if he doesn’t have the cash you want from him? Seems that money is more important to you, so how does that make a good partner. If you got your rich man and something happens to his wealth, do you kick him to the curb? If yes, the. How is someone not a gold digger if they could do that?
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There’s nothing wrong with it if your intentions are clear upfront.
But if ur using someone then that is wrong.
No it isn't wrong. Do whatever you want.. just let the guy know that's what you like.
yes. yes. "tell the truth". hangon. I've found an error in the plan.
@JSG4_ ♥♥♥ la la :-) :-)
is it the money or is it that they seem more dynamic or in the case of old money, better bred?
Yes. You are only dating them for money which is shallow. You can be stable and not have a rich man.
Just like some people like them more handsome than uglier or more rude than kind, there are people that like rich persons more like poor there are even people that like the poor as well.
I doubt you'd get so many women coming in support of a man dating only curvy women
If you just see men as financial objects you're no better than men who just see women as tits and ass. Stop pretending like being a gold digger is something wholesome.
Women being gold diggers.
Nothing out of the ordinary.
😑
How is wanting your family well taken care of and a husband whose not stressed out doing slave labor wrong? The higher his pay the more likely the woman has of spending more time with her husband and him being healthy not killing himself working 100 hours a week
@flowers70 Don't feed the trolls. omg lol.
@flowers70 there is a Very big difference between mating with someone, who can provide enough resources for it and mating with someone primarily just because he's rich.
Anyway, who cares? There are plenty of great girls who aren't gold diggers. Guys too.
@Robertcw well you guys bothered to reply so you care at least to some extend 🤷
Non gold digging women seem to be hard to find.
@Robertcw right
@flowers70 Where exactly do you live where people that earn more, have more free time? That is the opposite here in America. In fact, I don't know of anywhere where that is true. Typically, the more you earn, the more responsibilities you have and thus, the less amount of time you have for your family. Think Elon Musk, he works 80 hours a week on average. Most CEO's, same thing. So while I think your logic stems from good intentions, you're misguided on the amount of "time for family" most Rich men have. Unless you're born into wealth, hard work is the basis of becoming rich and I think you'd be surprised to find that a lot of rich men, don't really care about the traditional family life that you appear to be fond of. That being said, Rich men have more options. No shade, a lot of women fantasize about rich men, but rarely invest in themselves enough to be of value to rich men. If you're looking for love, its a totally different story (I don't judge, its your life), but if money is basically what you're looking for in a man, you should expect a rich man to be at least as shallow as what brought you to him in the first place.
@Pegases You're right. In the US and other conservative capitalistic societies the less you have to start with the harder you must work to gain more than someone who already started with more, who could grow that more quickly and with less time and effort.
She might be from Asia, like possibly Korea or China where society runs differently. For one thing, looks are considered for employment. Which means maybe people who look the way they want achieve more with less effort. One possibility anyway.
Not really but you are probably gonna be perceived as a gold digger.
No, it's just not realistic for the vast majority of women.
That's your choice. The same way it'd be a choice for a rich man to date a shallow and materialistic person
If you are sexy dont waste your time with some 9-5 chum. Get you a passive income CEO with 6 figure income. Money is all life is about!
Im a 9-5 chum and even I know this!
The difference between a gold digger and you is honesty and owning it. There are so many women in the world that any guy who is offended by your preference isn’t worth it ether way.
meanwhile I'm sure the guys would be fine with only wanting to date hot girls
It is your own business.
It is, but this is a platform made to know other people opinions...
My opinion is that it is her own business.
Don’t feel sorry for broke men cause they won’t feel sorry for you if you were ugly. Then heck yes. Date whoever you want
I think it's a preference, but it shows a lot of your personality.
Nothing wrong with that. They want educated, beautiful virgins so we can at least want a good income.
Who said that?
Thousands of guys.
You've dated thousands of guys. got it
No, I haven't but I know.
lol, I'm sure you do.
There is a whole lot more in life than a rich dude that knows your there for the cash out. It is really just a way that you sell yourself short.
But you can’t date a wonderful human being if he doesn’t have the cash you want from him? Seems that money is more important to you, so how does that make a good partner. If you got your rich man and something happens to his wealth, do you kick him to the curb? If yes, the. How is someone not a gold digger if they could do that?
Yes; such is the mark of the gold-digger; if he should become poor for some reason, the gold-digging thot simply moves on.