I'd stalk them and always sneak up on the guy. And find my way to always be around them. Ever sneaking up on them and scoping out the places the hang out. Then my daughter would be like, "daaaaad" all whiney like. And it would go to death's ears and yeah. I would do that. 😎
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First, I would congratulate her on getting past me since I am a very super aware person who has amazing attention to detail. Then I would ask to meet with the boy over dinner and get to know him. Then, when he leaves and she thinks she is off the hook, ground the shit out of her and take everything besides her bed out of her room. I would have some of my police friends and former shipmates watch over her when I am gone (I know enough people to keep 24 hour surveillance if needed since we all work different shifts).
If that was not enough I would have my daughter spend a week with my mother. My mother is the type of person who, if she knows what my daughter is being punished for, will respect whatever punishments I have imposed and will punish her further to the extent I allow. My mother is a retired Army sergeant with all the time in the world on her hands. However, my mother can be VERY blunt and graphic towards another female if she feels the need, so it would have to be severe for me to involve my mother. I promise a week being punished by my mother would straighten ANYBODY out.I don't remember exactly what happened. All I remember being really angry. She said I'm going outside for a minute and then I heard a truck drive off. I called her and spoke in the kind of controlled voice like when you are going to blow.
He brought her back I went up to the pick up truck to walk her to the house. I slammed the truck door and to be honest I didn't do it on purpose but it had a nice effect. Don't remember what I did after that. That boyfriend was not a keeper.I would be very worried.
I wouldn't cut off social media because I want her to be able to talk with friends
I would not let her go out with friends for about a week
I would sit her down and explain to her why I am doing what I am doing and that it isn't because I am angry but because I was scared about what may have happened to her, hoping that if she knows I am not angry and that I am legitimately worried about her safety, she may be able to take the news better.
I learned that when growing up, you tend to get angry and try to ignore your parents when they say they are angry at you for doing something, so I want to grow up as a parent who sits them down calmly and tells them why I didn't want them to do what they did.
I might even tell her that if she brought the guy over to me and I spoke with him for long enough a couple times, she might be able to go out with him, I feel like it is a fair way and keep us on the same page :)Honestly..
Ask her to test that Guy!.
And prove to me that he is good enough..
If not..
Then I will make sure to teach her that she doesn't gets permanently damaged..
But if she has asshole Boy attractive syndrome..
Then I will tell her. She is destroying her.. Life.. And record this in video..
I won't stop her..
That way she will just fight me..
I would let her make mistake..
Because when that asshole breaks her heart she will know what i meant to say..
I will show that video of me warning her..
And I will then be there when it happens..
And not laugh in her face but support her emotionally and teach her right from wrong..
So she finds her way back to Love with a worthy Guy..You gotta let kids learn lessons they don't want to take from you on their own. The best you can do is make sure they actually learn something from what their doing and try to help them see whats wrong early enough to protect themselves.
And if warranted, cut the break line in that losers car and plant a ton of felony class drugs in the glovebox where he keeps his registrationI would be incredibly impressed she managed to get out with out of the alarm or the dogs barking not to mention the mile run to the gate to meet him if she wants it that bad go for it but I doubt that will happen I scared my sisters prom date si bad he literally shit himself
Not because I don’t approve of the boy, just because she snuck out. I would punish her.
Exactly what you would do. Ground her for a long time and take away almost everything she's got for fun. She'll only get to use a flip phone until I decide otherwise; people need phones this day and age. But no smart phone. I'd also rig up an alarm system around the house that I will turn on as soon as it's bed time. If it goes off, she's gonna get even worse punishments.
Depends why I dont approve of him and how old she is because my daughter is gonna learn self defense and trigger discipline
well id tell the boy he can kiss my ass if he thinks my daughters seeing her again... id prob be really overprotective of her.. I've always wanted a daughter by the way!
She'd be grounded. And the boy would be dead. And probably buried in 80 different places.
Well of course punish her but that’s totally normal teenage behavior, I was sneaking out late to have sex with girls my mom probably wouldn’t have liked when I was in high school lol
I would be pissed, yes. But in thid context, i'd be her father. Not her Overlord. I think parents must accept the choices of their children.
I don't have a daughter so I wouldn't do anything because I can't, because she doesn't exist.
I would fein fatherly disapproval and make sure they are being safe. Honestly though this was me as a kid so the apple doesn't fall far from the tree.
Well I'd tell her that she can't date until after she graduated from school and ground her from everything and she can't leave the house
Stuff like this is just one of many reasons I won't have a kid, because 50% chance it'll be a girl doing stuff like this and god knows what else, nope, not happening
I would drive to the boys house and beat him up in front of her
When a woman watches a man get beat up, she doesn't feel attracted to him anymore.For me not to approve of someone is pretty hardcore, so I would be extremely upset.
I would explain to her why he isn‘t a relationship fit for her. I would do same with my son also.
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