Why do guys always unmatch with me almost immidately after our hookup? (Page 2)

Ishcah23 · 2019-10-25T11:30:12Z

You will probably say that he deleted his tinder or whatever or to forget about him. I thought the same the first time I got unmatched after our hookup! Then my next date did it and then the next one after him. It's just like 'wtf?' we had a good time so why does this always have to happen? I'm scared after I meet someone they'll just stop talking to me for no reason which makes no f***ing sense. It's either them unmatching me or Tinder is deleting my matches. What annoys me the most is that they tell me how beautiful and hot I am and how they "can't wait to meet". So why are guys so full of bull s**t that they think dating is a game? What happened to feeling and emotions? How do you suppress your human feelings when jerks like this do this f***boi s**t? Tbh I don't give two sh**s for these loosers as their the ones that are missing out on me and the other coutless other girls that face this b. s. I just think unmatching is a double sword that 1 can be used to block creeps, weirdos etc 2 can also be used against you. Even when I take the convo over to SC it comes up with 'pending for (f***wit) to accept your friend request after he already added you. So this isn't exclusive to Tinder. Also you talk to them for ages and get to know them and then they do this. Seriously they are retarded as I'm not always looking for a relationship, all I want is not to have a hookup that only last not even one night. What are they scared of developing feelings? You know who I think the real 'pussies' are? It's MEN well not all MEN just some of ya are f***ing emotionless wanna treat me like a object kind of MEN! So if some guy out there can tell me why are guys doing this? And when will it stop? That will be good as I'm so close to deleting Tinder. I also think Tinder doesn't want people to connect emotionally which it is completely fucked up as I mean it's a dating app so can't we have something that focuses on emotions rather than just sex? Why does tinder have to be superficial?

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BrotherFrost Follow
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You're practically walking naked in an all-men jail and complaining that you always get screwed.

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- Ishcah23
  
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  Why would I go to an all men jail I'm a woman?
  
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- BrotherFrost
  
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  It's a metaphor.
  
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Anonymous
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It's the same with us. Women do this all the time also. Tinder is a total waste of time.

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Hunter7754 Follow
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Men are 'emotionless' because we've learned thats what women respond to.

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Avicenna Follow
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Tinder? Well, it was obvious what he wanted.

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TheFlak38 Follow
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you served your purpose. That simple.

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- Ishcah23
  
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  It shouldn't be like that. That's that simple.
  
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- TheFlak38
  
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  of course it should. That's the correct way. YOu decided to whore yourself to a coorporate giant. The man is the customer who pays for all the super stuff. And you're the insecure hooker asking for her narcissistic supply.
  
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- Ishcah23
  
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  @TheFlak38 I decided to whore myself to a coorporate giant? Are you calling every girl on Tinder a whore or a hooker? I'm not insecure or narcissitic I'm just sick of the b. s. "of course it should" I doubt you'd be saying that if you were a woman or in my shoes
  
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- TheFlak38
  
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  yes. Tinder is an online brothel. All women there are willingly whoring themselves to that brothel. And all men are the customers. This online brothel made over 8 billion last year. All of this money has been generated through narcissistic women like yourself obsessed with their phones and the selfie culture in which you have to get naked and fuck in order to win the competition.
  
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- Barrabus_the_Free
  
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  I really wish that I could give your "Tinder is a brothel" reply a thousand, no, a million thumbs up.
  
  She knows what the reality of the situation is, but she won't admit it.
  
  Rationalization... HAMster!
  
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They might have only been wanting sex

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- corporateDrone
  
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  I have to agree. Apps like tinder help dehumanize sex and relationships. Yay for progress. 😐
  
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- Ishcah23
  
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  @corporateDrone Whoever is making these app I want to cut their dicks off!
  
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- corporateDrone
  
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  Well that may not be the healthiest of reactions but I can understand your frustration lol. Ever thought about taking you photo down for your profile? Most guys looking for a quickie aren't going to bother with a no photo account. Just a thought.
  
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- Ishcah23
  
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  Oral sex to be specific
  
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- JamesRandiDebates
  
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  So you're meeting guys from Tinder, giving them a BJ in the car, and never hear from them again. Do I have that right?
  
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- Truthatanycost
  
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  I take it you knew their sexual health history before doing that?
  
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- Truthatanycost
  
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  @corporateDrone Apps are simply tools. How we use them is what makes the difference. Or in the case of tinder. Not use them...
  
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- Alex_988_2
  
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  @JamesRandiDebates lol she's a whore who gives bj to strangers in cars...
  And doesn't even take money. Cheap pussy lmao
  
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i would guess cause the hookup is all they wanted.

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MannySimms Follow
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Poor hygiene?

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