Guys- what makes a girl "dateable" versus someone you just want to be friends with? (Page 2)
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I uh, unfortunately have an issue with this where all my female friends are dateable to me, but it's how they act that tell me whether or not they are interested. Not that it matters though, I've kind of been trailing away from dating because every relationship I've had has failed in the end
Does she make me nervous when I speak to her? Do I feel butterflies when she touches my shoulder or arm or something? When I see her do I immediately smile? If when I think about her is it usually me embracing her with a hug?
If any of these are things that I feel then that means she is more than merely a friend to me.
There just has to be a connection. There have been conventionally beautiful girls whom I've met and did not experience that with, and there have been "Plain Janes" who've rocked my world, so it is much more than aesthetics.
I had a date last weekend and she was basically just socially dumb, she kept talking to random strangers that clearly didn't want to be interrupted and was asking questions that were borderline racist (she's new in town, from asia). Made it so awkward that I basically didn't want to be seen with her.
She was hot though, 1.80m as an Asian girls was a new one for me, so as a dumb penis-owner I wasn't speaking up about it. I'd hang out with her, but no way I'd want to introduce her to my family.
You let the wrong head control the date there, didn't you? LOL
But thank you for making a point! Even with her looks, her personality and manners were a turnoff. I'm glad to know looks aren't everything for most guys :)
I mean, there's no way to know beforehand and she didn't hurt anyone, so I could let it go.
Won't deny that I gave her more leeway because she was hot though. If a dude reacted this way or a girl I wasn't physically attracted to, I would've probably said that they were being rude. Now I just won't go on another date with her, haha.
Hmmm good question, sultry dressing any boon over 28b finding out all her underwear was stole. no seriously maybe a little mystery something in her eyes has made it hard to concentrare for days after seeing her , there's that tension. E
Betweenyou both when ever your together. Where a woman you wanted as a friend. You don't feel that same tension. I will answer that later good question
When they show care and interest in who you are and your well being no matter how or what others have said or how they may have heard of you
Most of the time it's a feeling. Most people know if they want to at least hook up with someone with in like, 5 minutes of meeting someone. You can ask the same of girl's. I have had way to many dates and I got friend zoned as soon as they met me. Lol
For me it's important that we're compatible before I think of her as someone I want to date. Everyone of course has their own measure of compatibility. A girl who meets all five of mine becomes "dateable". Otherwise, she's just an acquaintance.
I didn’t think I could have friends who are girls. For dateable if she’s cute and makes me sigh. Personality wise she should have positive energy and have the same interests as me and be fun loving, compassionate, intelligent.
I guess I wouldn’t be as attracted to her if I sensed she gave off a stuck up vibe, was rude, or mistreated other people. Also I don’t find flawless looking girls as attractive
From my perspective, I like girls who can make conversations interesting, what I mean is when you are having fun listening to her as much as talking to her she is the one. All the others are just hook ups.
Attraction, if there's things about her that are deal breakers like lots of tattoos or piercings, or smoking or drug use, sleeps around, obnoxious, dramatic, or if she's been with one of my friends, stuff like that is why I would never date her and just stay strictly friends
If the chick is hot then she is datable. However if she is ugly but can consistently score really good weed, then she's not dateable but definitely worth being friends with.
Basically someone with whom I feel sexual chemistry that I would also like to have as a friend.
Honestly best answer 😂
Thanks (ㆁωㆁ)
number 1 is relationship status. im not sure if i have any female friends irl that i wouldn't date. at this point at least.
Depending on the individual, could be anything.
For me?
Well, for starters, if she's married or in a relationship we won't be more than friends. Same if she drinks too much or is too into recreational chemicals.
If she's married, she really shouldn't have close Friends of the opposite sex. It's disrespectful to her husband. Plain and simple it is
@bamaslamma I've had married work friends of the opposite sex several times. I mean, we generally didn't hang out outside of work (unless their husband was there also) but did socialize at work a lot. In fact there were a couple that I did sometimes see outside of work. And nothing happened - mature adults aren't controlled by their hormones.
it depends if she's hot or not obviously, no one would choose a girl that doesn't attracted them sexually
When I see a lady and I can't stop thinking about her that's how I do, but I'm settling right now
Honestly? If they are a good person and dont try to screw me over or drag me down.
Misread that you want what makes them dateable. My physical attraction to them.
Basically if I wanna bone you or not. If I do you are dateable. At least at first. If not ill be friends. Then later on is mainly personality. If we get along and have common interests.