Could not have said it better!
Meh. 1-3 are valid. The others are just kinda opinion controls.
Don't forget the price of cigarettes
That's not something that's bad about cigarettes. That's just obscenely high tax. It is, in fact an acknowledged morality tax.
Yeah, I'm a big fan of the morality tax. What I meant is that the price is super high but they prioritize buying cigarettes instead of useful things, which is a bad thing about dating a smoker.
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A few more things: The smell is stronger on yourself than someone else. Second hand smoke: umm if someone’s blowing in your face, you can ask them to stop. Health wise I do tell him I want him to live longer. But my aunt who’s been smoking for years since a young adult is now 50 and still running strong
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Family impacting!My family smoke/smoked, they use 'Vape' now, drives me insane!Cannot think straight when they puff away at the piece of shoddy whatever and blow plumes of smog, screws everyone else in the room. Wouldn't say 'Hate' but a hammer would put that crap out of their mouths. Having a different family would have been better.My input; smoking impacts the child's life. The parents do not deserve to be/have children!
Damn, apologies posted in wrong part!
These factors would also play a game in your potential relationship.
That said, they're not unchangeable, they can be manipulated, and can be developed by having other bad habits.
Therefore, unless you have these properties too, you would have a hard time dealing with em' unless you're intelligent enough to influence them for the best.
90% of relationships between smokers and non smokers fail due to smoking alone. ...
It's certainly possible but is it an actual statistic?
I read it somewhere... It wasn't something flippant. And being that I rarely smoke a cigar... as in this year I haven't smoked one... But otherwise I smoke no cigarettes and find the smell repulsive and did date this guy who was a smoker and found myself encouraging him to quit, which he never responded to... I know I could never live with someone who needed to smoke inside the house or whose clothes smelled of cigarette smoke... I've smelled people like that and, again, repulsive.
I think if after a while of being with a smoking girl whilst she would know I'm not very fond of people I like hurting themselves, it would be at least decent to try to stop smoking
You're never going to get someone to do something whether it's good for them or not. They have to decide that on their own, in their own time. It's best they've done it before they've met you due to their love for themselves and their health.
How to make your man stop smoking:"Either you can suck on your cigarette, or I can suck you-- CHOOSE WISELY!"
Smoking makes breath smell like gutter.It makes lungs worthless.. It makes person stamina shittySmoking also is like investing into getting cancer. And why would I date a girl who is killing herself daily.. Slowly.. She clearly doesn't love herself and cannot ever love me..
Why do you ask?
I love how people acting like its only cigarettes. This should go for weed, hookah, cigars, etc
Causes asthma and other diseases
It seems like they weren’t saying it was wrong to date a smoker, but rather asking for the disadvantages of dating one. People can smoke if they want. I think the reason people might be giving looks to a smoker for lighting up a cigarette is because of the damage it might cause to the people around them. My grandmother died from secondhand smoke, so I understand this; my brother has asthma, so smoke would aggravate that a lot. Overall it makes sense. But yeah there’s nothing inherently wrong with being a smoker or dating one. People do as they please.
They get it they just don't care source: first hand experience