I’m becoming bitter towards women. How can I have a better mindset? (Page 2)

[winterfox10]

I've found that there is a lot to be said for creating a consistent, authentic "you," in as many aspects of life as possible. Are your clothes, hobbies, friends, consistent with the version of you that you want a woman to see?

[alice55]

Which kind of women are you attracted to? Cause this can be the reasons why you only fell on bad one.
There's a things it seem good men fall on bad women and good women fell for bad men.

[357Cal]

Don't look at it as bitter against all women! Just bitter against certain types. Look at it as narrowing the field down of what and who you really want

[Ari310]

I do not know how to have a better opinion because I have become bitter towards men mostly.

[HelpImDying]

You're not becoming bitter, you just aren't pussy blind anymore. Basically you see women the same way women see men. You realize they aren't perfect angles

[Reach500]

Have you tried online dating? That way, you can screen out qualities you don't want and screen for the ones you do want.

[rosscore728]

Go suck a dick and I bet that bitter taste will put away and kind of bitterness towards women. Or if your digging it just go with it

[Guanfei]

The thing is, you're like that because the women you've seen weren't exactly the best person. You need to find a decent woman to see that not all of them are terrible.

[Vitorhea]

Try getting out of your comfort zone. Go to places you've never been before, open yourself up to new experiences and just try to enjoy yourself. Try going out on dates with different kinds of women. I'm sure there's someone for you out there :)

[Meatunnel69]

Girls screw either your wallet your pride or your penis it’s a fact of life love is fire and easy to get burned

[Pete671]

take some exercise, go to mindfulness classes, eat well and sleep better,,,

[Manuel2]

As you have been let down by women so many times, you might have lost your faith in them

[Agape93]

You do realize everyone goes through this at some point, right?

[Asker]

Sure.

[Agape93]

Then why are you getting bitter? Seriously, it’s not a big deal.

[Asker]

You don’t really know my experiences other than a vague description. I’m not asking for sympathy, but rather advice. You’re dismissing how I feel entirely and blindly saying other people go through it, so why does it matter for me. I feel this way for logical reasons. It’s self explanatory as to why I feel this way. Overcoming it is my question. I didn’t ask if other people feel this way.

[Asker]

Being cheated on in a four year relationship is a big deal to me.

[Agape93]

You’re not unique, nor is your situation. But most people grieve and move on. But instead you get bitter against people who did nothing to you. So I’m sorry, your feelings are not exactly my top priority here.
Hell I was cheated on, beaten and raped by my ex. He lived with me for two years. Know what I did? I fucking moved on. Why can’t you?

[Asker]

I didn’t say that I was unique. I understand a lot of other people feel the same way. What I’m asking is for advice on how to overcome this obstacle. None of what you’re spewing onto me is relevant to my question. That’s unfortunate about your story, but I've faced battles as well. I’m a combat veteran and you’re treating me as if I’m a snowflake because I’m simply asking for advice. The problem isn’t that I can’t move on. The problem is that I’m seeing a continuous pattern of girls I've been dating the last two years. It’s not just one person.

[Asker]

My feelings don’t need to be a top priority. But if you can’t answer the question, or add any value, and keep detailing entirely, then what’s the point of your response? I don’t really need an emotionally tough shit kind of speech. Nor do I need you to cater to my feelings. I’m not seeking sympathy. I’m seeking logical and real solutions to overcome this problem.

[Asker]

derailing *

[Agape93]

Since you can’t extrapolate my advice, then I’ll make it plain. Figure out why you feel the need to become bitter to innocent people for the fuck ups of some people. Find out why you’re not looking elsewhere for a better class of woman.
It’s called introspection. Try it.

[Asiful112]

Try to think positively. Then ur mindset can be changed

[Massageman]

Maybe hang around with a different crowd?

[Dkc123]

It's either you're a mgtow or destined to be 😂😂

[Anonymous]

Try dating outside your race :)

[Twalli]

Find girls in different places.