Guys, Is infertility a deal breaker? (Page 5)

[winterfox10]

No, not for me. Also, you are definitely NOT the only woman who doesn't like kids.

[Anonymous]

A woman who is infertile in not necessarily a deal breaker for me.

But a woman who doesn't like kids and who wouldn't willingly and enthusiastically carry my children if she could... now that's a deal breaker.

[Opinion Owner]

The reason it's a deal breaker for me is that your attitude about children and pregnancy is indicative of a personality that is not the kind I would want to have in a life partner, and obviously not as the mother of my children. I love and want kids and I would only marry a woman who shares that with me.

[Asker]

What i said may sound harsh but you got to admit it does look disgusting

[Anonymous]

That's very mean of you to say, please don't ever insult a carrying woman like that. I personally prefer a "functional" woman, in case I do want to have children someday.
I'm going to assume that your obvious disgust towards pregnancy is linked to your own infertility, but please take a moment to understand that these women are not at fault for wanting to bare a child and should not be scrutinized, especially by you.

[Asker]

Im not criticizing them and of course I won't say that to them. Everyone deserves to be happy and if thats what they want then by all means they can go for it.

[that_oneguy]

I wouldn't say so. If it was with the partner that I love then if we were to want children we could see someone about it. Or if it was a "fling" then perfect, I don't have to worry after.

[chickenneck75]

If it's not it might be when your ready for kids, when a woman wants to get pregnant she's on a mission. Here hormones are hard to ignore,

[Avicenna]

I would like to have more kids if she's a great partner, I could overlook it.

If I was younger and didn't have kids, it would be.

[red324]

The last thing I need right now is a kid, so not at all.

[Steve_Case]

I have adopted another mans children. I have raised 5 but only one of them has my bloodline. And I love them all the same.

As far as being infertile, I call that getting rid of the crib and getting a playpen. :)

[Anonymous]

For me yes. I don't fully believe you though. You sound like you're projecting and that maybe you are desperate to get pregnant but can't because of infertility so now you 'hate' pregnant women and want to 'lock them up' because you 'hate *seeing* them in public.'

Emphasis on seeing.

[Asker]

1. I am a virgin by choice so I don't know if i am infertile or not.

2. I hate seeing pregnancy since the age of 5 (earliest that i can remember)

3. I became a God mother this year and i had anxiety around the baby's mom (before she had him) and around the baby after she gave birth.

I have zero (0) desire to have kids. I had horrible experiences around kids while i was a kid and I've had horrible experiences with pyscho parents who think i want to kidnap their kids lmao

[HerryBells]

That is a hard one. I have dated a girl for almost 8yrs when I knew she could never have kids. I was at peace with it but now that relationship has stranded I would still like to have little mini me's running around one day

[roland77]

You are not 62, just 32. It is still possible.