Girls, Women into dating, how much of a plus are muscular arms really?

[Anonymous]

Attractive or not?

As long as the person has a wonderful personality, how much of a plus are muscular arms? Is the muscle in the attached image attractive or unattractive, why?

[nopedydoo]

i think the arms in the image are too big for my taste. although i still like muscles, just a little less. but i would still prefer the muscles in the pic over spaghetti arms any day. i think it just depends on the girl, because each one will have different preferences. but obviously good arms are a bonus, they should never be the deciding factor for or against a relationship

[Asker]

Of course. It’s never a deciding factor, that’s why the question asks how much of a ‘plus’ they are. What sport suits this kind of build the most in your opinion?

[sagevalentineee]

Muscular men are attractive. It makes you feel protected when he is larger. He can protect you from danger and also carry the heavy bags ;)

[Asker]

That’s an insightful input. Do you like anything specific about the image? How does it make you feel? Also, which sport do you think suits this build the most?

[sagevalentineee]

Football? I like football players (soccer) bodies, tall, muscular, proportionate. Broad shoulders are sexually attractive. Did you know that men dance with their shoulders and women with their hips because that's proof of your masculinity/femininity to the opposite sex. Shoulders on men is real thing. Strong legs and thighs are also sexy. I also think a man can get away with being hairier if he is more muscular. Henry Cavill for example has a lot of hair, but it suits him because of the very masculine body. On the other hand I wouldn't be wanting any man to be struggling with himself over his body shape. To be proportionate and healthy is most important. I've just grown accustomed to the muscular shape as my boyfriend is a boxer.

[sagevalentineee]

I could add that being with a strong man in bed is different. He can actually life me up for a good 20mins with no struggle and is like a human fortress

[Asker]

The nuanced point about the hidden signal in dancing was an intriguing insight. Is there anything you specifically like within the image attached? Also, it’s great to know that your boyfriend is a boxer as I too am into boxing. Lifting and boxing is how the build in the image was achieved. What do you like about what you see in the image? Thanks for such elaborate, effortful responses.

[sagevalentineee]

Oh is that you? Actually the image is kind of grainy and unclear, I can't see enough of the body. Also you're very shiny ahaha. Although I can definitely tell you've got some great muscle there. It's attractive for sure.

[Asker]

Poor lighting and image quality! My bad! Thanks for your honest and informative response. Do you like the fact that your boyfriend is a boxer? Or you would’ve preferred him doing another sport like football as you had specified.

[sagevalentineee]

Oh, he's not a professional or anything, it's just for fun. I'd rather he play whatever sport he enjoys.

[Asker]

Of course, it’s his free will. But do you find boxing specifically a turn on or neutral?

[sagevalentineee]

erm yes it's pretty hot... I like watching him do it

[sagevalentineee]

whew things are getting hot in here

[Asker]

What visuals go through your mind as you feel it’s getting hot in there?

[sagevalentineee]

lol are we seriously having this conversation? so awkward. You're a man, not stupid, surely you can imagine what a girl likes? It's very sexy when he's freshly sweating, hitting the punch bag and I can see how strong he is. Also like it when he's a wearing a rolled up sleeves dress shirt. Girls are weak for forearms.

[Asker]

You are a nice woman, not stupid, and hence you know that men like to hear nice things even when it’s obvious! Your man is a lucky one indeed. Would you have enjoyed watching a good and intense boxing match between your boyfriend and me? (Crazy internet Questions! I know!)

[sagevalentineee]

no no no I don't like violence. I don't like it when he hits other people (unless they seriously deserve it) I'm worried he'll hurt himself and I don't like the bruises on his knuckles, they look painful

[Asker]

Totally understandable. Boxing is a sport of skillful striking where bruises and some blood are commonplace. He and me would’ve only competitively sparred in protective gear. Nothing to be worried about! But thanks for all the deeply insightful views! You rock!

[sagevalentineee]

Yes well, fighting scares me. I did see him beat up somebody once. It was horrible. Anyway, hope I was helpful, you're welcome <3

[Asker]

Hey there, I have a clearer image on this question (still grainy and tanned though), you can post an opinion there if feasible:

Girls, Women who like built guys, is this build attractive? Why or why not? ↗

[Gbabequestions]

The image is attractive only is the guy has more to offer

[Asker]

Understandable. What do you find attractive in the image? Also, what sport do you think suits this kind of build the most?

[Gbabequestions]

Muscles are attractive on a man. It’s the same as men finding curves attractive on women. Rugby probably

[Asker]

Thanks for the input! Which muscles do you like the most in the image? Also, apart from rugby, which other sport?

[Gbabequestions]

The biceps and hands look sexy to me. I would say tennis because having arm strength comes in handy there

[Asker]

Interesting. I’m actually into boxing, hope that’s not a turn off or is it?

[Asker]

I’m actually into boxing, hope that’s not a turn off or is it?

[Gbabequestions]

Hadn’t thought of boxing. Would be a turn off for me

[Asker]

It’s a combat sport for striking and self-defence.. as well as a great workout and endurance/strength builder. Sorry to hear it’s a turn off!

[Sarahr123]

I like big men because I feel even more small, dainty and feminine.

[Asker]

Intriguing. Do you like anything about the image?

As an aside, I feel very attracted to dainty, feminine women.

[Asker]

Do reply when feasible.

[Hurlyburly]

I'm not into big muscles therefore its either neutral or a minus, depending on how big they are 😅

[Asker]

I see. So the muscle in the image is sadly a minus then. Which kind of sport suits this kind of build the most in your opinion?