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Is it shallow of me not wanting to date a smoker? (Page 2)
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All of my older family members smoke exept my mum I've always hated the smell of smoke and would always cough and asked people not to smoke. now im almost 18 hanging around smokers all my life.
i have been doing sports with smokers one cigaretes and one cigars and i dont mind it anymore. But i couldnt date a vaper i find it way to strong regardless of what they smoke.
No, its not. Smokers either can't handle the pressures of life so resort to cigarettes, or they wanna fit in with the rest of society like a bunch of mindless followers. Im not hating on them or anything, but they tend to attack people who dont smoke, so they can fuck off.
Absolutely not. Smokers destroy your health as well, that's a scientific fact (so all you smokers can shut up and get back to your slow suicide). Not to mention they stink. Who in their right mind would want to associate such garbage, let alone date it?
Absolutely not, it's a preference of yours and a rather healthy choice as you don't wish to be a victim of second hand smoke! There's nothing shallow about it!
Nope. You're not shallow. Developing good habits and being with people with good habits is a choice we make for our own growth and our families growth. If they want to date or marry you let them give it up.
I'm no Dr. But I don't think "gum, will keep them alive after contracting pneumonia or emphysema I quit smoking 4 years ago when a now ex f2f said she couldn't see a meaningfully relation ship with some one not likely to to live a full life. With all the evidence about the havoc wrought by Smoking, not to mention second hand smoke, why would anyone want to continue the habit, especially with their S. O. asking them to stop.
Not at all shallow. I wouldn't date a smoker either. As a matter afact I have along time friend since back in grade school. He is a heavy smoker & I have to keep trying to come up with reasons why I don't visit more often.
Your parents smoked cigarettes inside the house when y’all we’re inside. How nasty 🤢 it’s not shallow to not want to be with someone who smokes cigarettes. If they smoke cigs it’s a no go if they smoke cannabis it’s a go.
Nice. That's where I'm at lol
Smoking cannabis is still smoke, still does damage from that perspective. It may be LESS harmfull than tobacco cigarettes, but you cannot inhale smoke of any kind without negative effects.
And as a method of ingestion, it's a pretty big fuck you to everyone around you. Without significant breathing equipment they HAVE to partake in your hobby. Making the choice for yourself is fine, more power too you. Making it for others is not cool.
I would not be too far behind you - I would be very reluctant to date a smoker even if they chew gum and not smoke in front of you , you can still smell it of them and their clothes, it smells really awful.
My dad smokes, just recently though. My mom and dad have been married 35+, happily. My aunt smokes, she and her husband have been together for over 20 years. My cousin and his wife smoke, they've been together for over 10 years
You can't just say "oh, they smoke, they're a bad person"
Yeah but that's not what I'm saying, it's not about the person being a smoker honestly I couldn't care less IF it wasn't repulsive to me regarding the stench and how the person "tastes" like okay you can pop a gum in before making out but when I go down on a smoker lord help me :/ it tastes soo nasty and that's such a shame cuz I loooove to pleasure my man... besides that he will also smell of nicotine and second hand smoking is also a huge no go for me and especially my future kids, it's also unnecessarily spent money
Since I don’t smoke, I don’t want to date a smoker. That’s a dealbreaker for me.
Everyone I know that don’t smoke, are with people who don’t smoke too. You are not shallow or picky, that’s totally okay !
nothing shallow about it, I wouldn't date a smoker either. not only does the smell make me sick, second hand smoking is very harmful, and the smoker themselves would be smoking themselves into an early death
Not at all. It's a health hazard being around a smoker. Almost as bad is the smell that gets everywhere.
No its not shallow. When i am around smokers my throat starts to hurt and i feel sick, which is why i won't date one
NOPE, Not even remotely. It's a disgusting and deadly habit that actually shows a serious lack of intelligence and better judgement.
No, I love weed and don’t like dating guys that don’t smoke because they’re so fucking judgements, 🥴🤣 they be the main ones needing to smoke 💯and it’s fun when you can have sex and just talk while sharing a blunt with your boo. Do you boo boo !
I've weed a few times, and it's absolutely terrifying, so none of that fun for me😂
Why is it "shallow" to want to have a healthier life for you and your prospective family?
No, it's not shallow at all. It's very sound thinking.
No. It's a deal breaker to me too. Same for druggies.
It's not shallow of you, if that's your preference then you have a right to have that preference.
More common than the US? FARK me!
Not shallow at all. It's a filthy and disgusting habit.
It is definitely not that common here in the US? I'm on a team of 22 people and I am the only smoker on the team. I spent secondary school in Europe, Germany is a heavy smoking country. It is not bad here in the states, unless you live in Iowa.
Yeaaah in Germany it's on another level, it feels like every 2nd person here smokes
I remember, I loved taking the train up to Germany and I could just blend in to smoke. It was so easy, everyone was doing it. But, there is a difference between German Cigarettes and American ciggys, the EU laws are a bit more lax on the chemicals put into the cigarettes, meaning they don't pack them with extra chemicals. Here in the US they have certain laws that make the manufacturers add additional chemicals. Its awful, I moved here and the first 3 months I was sick and felt gross. That passed.
@nk1142 I always thought the smoking rates in america were comparable to Canada, and at least in SE ontario, it's somewhere around 70% smokers.
Australia when I left was around 22/23 % smokers
(of course with the fires that's upped by a few... Hey I'm an Aussie ex-pat with family there, I get to make the jokes!)
@Walrus_au I never had the opportunity to go to Canada, so I can't say from experience how much they smoke, how they smoke, where they smoke. In the US it is different in different states, some you can't smoke within 50 ft of an entrance, some only in designated areas, some allow indoors, some do not. It is hard to generalize the states.
@nk1142 There are similar laws, at least in Ontario. Approximately 0 people pay attention to them.