What’s worse... rejecting someone or ghosting them? (Page 2)
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Ghosting is worse.
I understand prefer to ghost.
It feels safer. Sadly its natural. We hate it though.
Rejection can be very hurtful if not done kindly.
Some girls especially are super hurtful. I don't know if they get some sexual release doing that or if it is just their ego.
So I'd prefer if you ghost me instead.
I'd rather be told personalaly if you have no interest say so. it's definitely worse to be ghosted in my opinion
Ghosting is worse, just be direct with him and let him know you're not interested it might hurt him but I think it'll lessen the blow than just flat out ignoring him.
Ghosting them and leaving them in content and wonder as to what they did wrong. Just tell them you don't want to be with them and why, there's no such thing as a white lie
I think going ghosting because you don’t get that closure
I guess, ghosting.
There is an explanation and talk in the rejecting.
If you rejected him several times and he still doesn't Stop, just block his number
To me, ghosting or blocking is the next step if rejection doesn't work.
Ghosting at it's cleared and over if you reject them
Ghosting is worse because it makes the other person confused. Better off telling them “hey, it’s best if we look for other people without moving on”
It's not worse once you wrap your head around the person's lack of social skills. It's very common today to be entirely socially inept and clueless and to hide from responding like a human being. Deficient people do that (and always have - it was previously their avoiding contact or simply not answering their phone/getting a family member to do it all the time)
"hey, it's best if we look for other people without moving on.". @kales96 What the hell does that mean? If I'm looking for other people, I'm moving on.
Message me and I’ll explain
I only read your 'WITHOUT moving on' now - assumed it to be 'AFTER moving on'.
That is hilarious (and entirely true - the ghoster generally wants to keep you close for an indefinite period, which is what the bother is about - you have no idea how much space to retain for them, yet you feel bad just leaving them (in case they are in need of help you could provide))
Definitely ghosting but if you’ve rejected them and they dont stop, hey, you gotta do what you gotta do
Both are bad , but rejecting is kinda honest so I'd go with rejecting but only if you're nice and not harsh
Rejection can't be polite from a woman point off veiw... so be brutally honest... tell him he's not measuring up... boom. eAsy... can't argue what can't be argued...
Men don't ghost boys do a lot, it's a cowards way out and more hurtful to the receiver.
You can always say it exactly how it is and get appreciated for it. Women just seem socialised to prefer to lie to some extent (at least in America)
ghosting is way worse like 500 million times worse, have some integrity.
If he doesn't get the hint maybe just spell it out to him as plain as possible as just ignoring him will hurt him more
I prefer rejecting than ghosting because when you reject someone you give them clarity, if you ghosting someone that just mean.. just like howie rejecting everyone who want to shook his hand, better than leave them hanging 😁
Ghosting is much worse. I'd rather a guy straight up said that he just doesn't like me than leave me wondering about why I'm unworthy of even a goodbye