The classic pump and dump. If that is the case he wouldn't have picked up at all I wouldn't have. He was asking your permission so much because we live in a post #meetoo time if it'd been me I'd have made you sign a consent waiver or Somthing no such things as too careful now.
I don't know maybe he is telling the truth the ,, end of next month,, seems a long time if I'm serous about a girl a long ass drive won't bother me.
But he did answer me in the morning and kept on saying how he’ll come see me. I know he’s made a mistake but I don’t wanna judge to quick and say he is lying. I’m just paranoid about everything. Once we was going to meet but he said he was going Amsterdam last minute and had to cancel. I honestly thought he was lying but he wasn’t so who knows.
Dosnt sound like it, on the other hand if I knew my girl was texting questions like this id think she didn't trust me, which today I guess I'd get it but it would sting a little.
Could he be be married or have a gf? If he's on a date with you, you should be his priority (unmarried/unattached of course). I'm assuming his sister is an adult and can figure her own shit out elsewhere. I'm a very blunt person and sorry to say... I think he used you. Time will tell... if he sees you again, you will have a clearer picture.
Maybe he isn’t in a good place at his life right now and he has family obligations? Or maybe he already had a girlfriend that he lives with maybe? This does sound a bit fishy... sorry to say
Yeah we’ve still been talking here and there. Like He said he’ll come end of next month cause he he's busy with work and stuff. And I was like to him “just want u to be honest with me that’s all.” And he was like “I am being honest w you, always have.” So I don't know anymore
End of the month sounds suspicious so I guess we will have to wait and see what’s this guy does and if he shows through... if not u hve been had by him unfortunately
My opinion... is that his "sister" is his "wife" , the car was disabled... by him... she's annoying because he told her he'd be right back... but he was on a very selfish mission. That is my gut feeling. Maybe not right about the car... Bit definitely some double dealing , His sister? Annoying... doesn't sound urgent to me... late to pickup the kid or late for work does...
Well, it seems that he was telling the truth but only to a certain point. Him falling asleep just like that, leaving his car there seems a little sketchy (odd). He's not ghosting you, if he was, he wouldn't replied to you at all. Sometimes the truth comes out in time.
Iam pretty good at this stuff lol... I learned from a very good liar... well sis come on are you really thinking it's all true guys have away to do things asking a lot. He just knows ull think he's so considerate and respectful.. and nice... oh !! I want him ... and that sis is annoying me first of all sis doesn't tex or call that damn much.. and why didn't he talk to her in front of you. and a shower right after u two spent time together and got in bed knowing your waiting for him men shower right after they cheat. And bad story's of siblings calling. but no real proof.. sweet heart prepare yourself someguy hit it and quit it but most like the game they keep on untill the girl ends it.. What does your gut tell you! ..
He did talk to her in front of me I saw her name pop up and she wouldn’t stop texting him when we were together about her car. Before that another person called him about getting his car in at 10pm for something and I know it’s true cause I heard it all. I think the sister thing is real and he was really going to come back. It’s just weird how he fell asleep he did look pretty tired after sex. He even told me to wait for him he won’t be long.
I'm not really sure, so I recommend to try that again, so you can get a closer eye. Because, if his sister annoyed him about the car or whatever, then things needs to be done or he trying to simply ghosting you. I couldn't able to tell myself, so like I said try that again just to get a closer eye to know what's going on
The Metoo movement exists because men were not asking if it was okay to do this or that with a woman. Men just did it. That and men did not know or care for a women's boundaries. It's excellent now that men are asking if it's okay to touch or anything else. That's how it should of been all along. It's a shame it had to come to that to get men to stop but if it works, as it shows it is, then so be it.
Don't talk to him anymore, you'll get hurt. I was in the same situation and as some people already said, you're not his priority and therefore he's not worth your time.
He just wanted to get it in in my opinion. There are players that pursue multiple women—yes even for that long sometimes— and will still keep them on the burner to hook up
I wouldn’t wait around. A chick I was speaking with got some and backed away then came back and got some more and did it again. She is no where far from me and just wanted to get broken off but couldn’t just say so. You got yours as well so take your time to recover and if he really want you he will work for your time but dont give him your body unless your in need
No I do not. He was hiding something from you. Even after taking care of sister, he could have came back to the room. Myself, I would have asked if you wanted to go with me and then return back with you. Something else was up with him.
No guy is gonna fall asleep right after sex & "forget" unless there's other people he's seeing & you're just not his priority sounds like it at least :/
uh.. tbh i have zero experience in uh... dating... but... i think it could go either way tbh... theirs a chance he's lying and theirs a chance he's not...
I'm not really sure how to respond to this since I haven't had much experience myself. However I've helped my bff. If you can trust him and know that he would never do that then you don't have to worry. However if you are still questioning it, talk to him. They aren't always cooperative but girls can usually tell if they're lying just by reading facial expressions
I am sorry to say the so called sister is infact his wife or another girlfriend. Your just sexual relief to him. But be careful, he might think that now you slept with him, you can't go anywhere else for sex
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The classic pump and dump.
If that is the case he wouldn't have picked up at all I wouldn't have. He was asking your permission so much because we live in a post #meetoo time if it'd been me I'd have made you sign a consent waiver or Somthing no such things as too careful now.
I don't know maybe he is telling the truth the ,, end of next month,, seems a long time if I'm serous about a girl a long ass drive won't bother me.
But he did answer me in the morning and kept on saying how he’ll come see me. I know he’s made a mistake but I don’t wanna judge to quick and say he is lying. I’m just paranoid about everything. Once we was going to meet but he said he was going Amsterdam last minute and had to cancel. I honestly thought he was lying but he wasn’t so who knows.
Dosnt sound like it, on the other hand if I knew my girl was texting questions like this id think she didn't trust me, which today I guess I'd get it but it would sting a little.
Could he be be married or have a gf? If he's on a date with you, you should be his priority (unmarried/unattached of course). I'm assuming his sister is an adult and can figure her own shit out elsewhere.
I'm a very blunt person and sorry to say... I think he used you. Time will tell... if he sees you again, you will have a clearer picture.
Maybe he isn’t in a good place at his life right now and he has family obligations? Or maybe he already had a girlfriend that he lives with maybe?
This does sound a bit fishy... sorry to say
Have u seen him or heard from him since?
Yeah we’ve still been talking here and there. Like He said he’ll come end of next month cause he he's busy with work and stuff. And I was like to him “just want u to be honest with me that’s all.” And he was like “I am being honest w you, always have.” So I don't know anymore
He may be lying to u be careful
Ps check your inbox I msged u and need an honest opinion on something
End of the month sounds suspicious so I guess we will have to wait and see what’s this guy does and if he shows through... if not u hve been had by him unfortunately
My opinion... is that his "sister" is his "wife" , the car was disabled... by him... she's annoying because he told her he'd be right back... but he was on a very selfish mission.
That is my gut feeling.
Maybe not right about the car...
Bit definitely some double dealing , His sister? Annoying... doesn't sound urgent to me... late to pickup the kid or late for work does...
Well, it seems that he was telling the truth but only to a certain point. Him falling asleep just like that, leaving his car there seems a little sketchy (odd). He's not ghosting you, if he was, he wouldn't replied to you at all. Sometimes the truth comes out in time.
Hope this helps
Iam pretty good at this stuff lol... I learned from a very good liar... well sis come on are you really thinking it's all true guys have away to do things asking a lot. He just knows ull think he's so considerate and respectful.. and nice... oh !! I want him ... and that sis is annoying me first of all sis doesn't tex or call that damn much.. and why didn't he talk to her in front of you. and a shower right after u two spent time together and got in bed knowing your waiting for him men shower right after they cheat. And bad story's of siblings calling. but no real proof.. sweet heart prepare yourself someguy hit it and quit it but most like the game they keep on untill the girl ends it.. What does your gut tell you! ..
He did talk to her in front of me I saw her name pop up and she wouldn’t stop texting him when we were together about her car. Before that another person called him about getting his car in at 10pm for something and I know it’s true cause I heard it all. I think the sister thing is real and he was really going to come back. It’s just weird how he fell asleep he did look pretty tired after sex. He even told me to wait for him he won’t be long.
Oh okay sounds better to me but the shower straight to bed thing I don't know...
I'm not really sure, so I recommend to try that again, so you can get a closer eye. Because, if his sister annoyed him about the car or whatever, then things needs to be done or he trying to simply ghosting you. I couldn't able to tell myself, so like I said try that again just to get a closer eye to know what's going on
The Metoo movement exists because men were not asking if it was okay to do this or that with a woman. Men just did it. That and men did not know or care for a women's boundaries. It's excellent now that men are asking if it's okay to touch or anything else. That's how it should of been all along. It's a shame it had to come to that to get men to stop but if it works, as it shows it is, then so be it.
And no, I do not support feminism.
Don't talk to him anymore, you'll get hurt. I was in the same situation and as some people already said, you're not his priority and therefore he's not worth your time.
Lol you got played sis.
He had his side chick/wife/ friend text him after sex. They probably had a code and everything.
I do this with guys sometimes, and have plenty of guy friends that do this with girls.
i think he is just being a guy lol i did that when i was younger, dont take it so serious he will get better as he gets older.
So he did really fall asleep?
yeah i have before lol i never heard the end of it from my last girl friend lol
He just wanted to get it in in my opinion. There are players that pursue multiple women—yes even for that long sometimes— and will still keep them on the burner to hook up
I wouldn’t wait around. A chick I was speaking with got some and backed away then came back and got some more and did it again. She is no where far from me and just wanted to get broken off but couldn’t just say so. You got yours as well so take your time to recover and if he really want you he will work for your time but dont give him your body unless your in need
''Me: Or u just didn’t wanna come back and start ghosting me as soon as u got sex''
This is unlikely to work (self fulfilling prophecy) because you will constantly be unsure of what it is you have to offer beyond sex.
No I do not. He was hiding something from you. Even after taking care of sister, he could have came back to the room. Myself, I would have asked if you wanted to go with me and then return back with you. Something else was up with him.
No guy is gonna fall asleep right after sex & "forget" unless there's other people he's seeing & you're just not his priority sounds like it at least :/
uh.. tbh i have zero experience in uh... dating... but... i think it could go either way tbh... theirs a chance he's lying and theirs a chance he's not...
I'm not really sure how to respond to this since I haven't had much experience myself. However I've helped my bff. If you can trust him and know that he would never do that then you don't have to worry. However if you are still questioning it, talk to him. They aren't always cooperative but girls can usually tell if they're lying just by reading facial expressions
He could have legit fell asleep, I don’t think you should totally give up because of one incident.
Give him a second chance, Siewert goes from there.
thats a lot of history, and he seemed to be very careful with you, that’s a good sign.
I am sorry to say the so called sister is infact his wife or another girlfriend. Your just sexual relief to him. But be careful, he might think that now you slept with him, you can't go anywhere else for sex